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Hi well see I met this guy from Paris, France, well he is sweet and everything , but my boyfriend dosnt like him , he said if I talked to him that he would break up with me , what do I do?Plz
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ur bf shouldnt get jealous of a guy that lives in a different country...but u also shouldnt be talkn to him if u have a bf...
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If you want to keep talking to this guy try talking to your boyfriend..tell him that you love him and dont have any feeling for this guy from France..and you only want to be friends with him..If you want to tell the France guy to leave you alone tell him that your boyfriend doesnt want me seeing you at all..just tell him the truth..well hope i helped.rate me =)
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Let your friend from France know that you have personal issues to deal with temporarily, and then try to find out what your boy is feeling that makes him want you to cut off communication.
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Maybe he thinks that French guys are so alluring, and that you're so godawful hot, that neither of you will be able to resist one another. ;) It CAN be a form of flattery.
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Ask him to exactly define his concerns about your friendship with this other boy. Does he think you'll be seduced and leave him? Does he think he'll inevitably get hurt if you keep talking to other guys?
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Listen to his answers and be considerate; but don't drop your own ideals in the process. If you're unlucky enough to have been stuck with a true control-freak, you need to end the relationship.
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But since the other guy-friend is sweet, male, and most of all, French, I think your boy is probably just feeling insecure.
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I personally see no problem with you just talking to a guy in France. Some of the comments said below are ptretty asinine and incorect, there isn't anything more wrong with French people than American people. But anyway, if your boyfriend is going to dump you because you talk to some guy on the internet that poses no threat to your relationship what-so-ever, I think it is time you found yourself a new boyfriend. This one sounds rather controlling and obnoxious, from the limited information I was given.
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Uhhh, don't tell your boyfriend that you're talking to him. Better yet, dump the jerk, since he's willing to dump you over such a ridiculous thing. Move on to something better. TIME FOR AN UPGRADE.
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A lot of men are insecure about their girlfriend or wife talking to another man, even if it's entirely platonic or even work/business.
Before you break off contact with the French man, sit down and talk with your boyfriend about it: About why he doesn't want you talking to him...don't let him give you some BS angry answer, let him give you an honest and straight one.
If he makes some good points, then break off contact with the French person.
If he doesn't, well, how long have you been together?
If you truely value your relationship with your boyfriend, then don't talk to the French person.
But do make a note of it, if it happens to often you have something to seriously think about.
Good luck!
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Don't talk to him. The french aren't worth it anyway, he'll just end up getting you smashed off of cheap whine, knock you up when you are asleep, and then give cigarettes to your baby.
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