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Hey, I'm a female of 14 years old. My boyfriend dumped me 2 and a half months ago. I love him more then any thing and I just can't get over him. My best friend likes him too and says she likes him just as much as I do... which is hard to believe because she just recently started REALLY hanging out with him. He seems like he likes her too, but I've asked him countless times and every time he's said no. What I'm getting at is if he does like her and if he does decide to ask her out, what do I do? I love him more then any thing and to see them together and happy would kill me. I know I should be happy for them if they do decide to take it to the next level but I don't think thats possible. What do I do? How do I go along with this? How can I get over him? Thank you in advance!!
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I know how you feel about not being able to get over a boyfriend and a friend wanting to hook up with him afterwards. My b/f of 2 months dumped me and four hours later started going out with my best friend who had previously dated him for about 2 weeks. I would suggest telling your friend that you understand that she likes him and all but right now it really hurts you that he might like her and you're not ready to see him move on. She should understand. If not though, talk to him. Tell him the same. Tell him that even though your friend likes him that you're just not ready to see him move on. Say that you'd rather see him alone for another week or two. Also say that this decision isn't completely selfish. You think that the two of them spending more time together outside of the "couple" situation would strengthen their relationship and show what their true feelings are.
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Well, they're both being inconsiderate brats. You don't actually HAVE to take this shit from him OR your so-called best friend. However, you're also too young to be so hung up over him. In a year, you won't even feel remotely interested in the guy, no matter how you feel right now. Find a friend who ISN'T a backstabber and go with her on a Spa Day.
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Get over it. Don't ruin your friend's possible relationship with him just because you are jealous.
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I personally do not believe that someone as young as yourself can actually experience true love because tyour emotions are in a whirlwind, but seeing as you assume so, we will go with it. If this dude dumped you and plans on goign out with your best friend (This seems to be your intuition--females are known for their intuiting skills) then you should probably find another guy. How do you get over him? Try the Gilmore Girls method. Lots and lots of ice cream and pizza.
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i know it's hard to get over someone you love, but if you really do love him then you should let him go and do whatever makes him happy. and if that means being with your best friend, then there's really nothing you can do about it. if she was truly your best friend, then she would also take that into consideration, she knows you love him maybe she should give you more time to get over him. but like i said, theres nothing you can do because people can't help who they like. if you keep holding grudges that'll just make things between you three worse.
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