*Name: carolanne mckenna
*Age: 17 aug. 11
*Height: 5'6
*Eyes: hazel
*Piercings: 9 total! 6 in ears, belly button and tongue, and eyebrow
*Stats: single
*Likes: bbf's, hangin out with friends,shopping, beach, short skirts, FOOD, sleeping, flirting
*Dislikes: smoking, drugs, school, waking up early
Website: my xanga
Gender: Female
Age: 17
AIM: ursunxOshine
Member Since: September 14, 2004
Answers: 7
Last Update: October 17, 2004
Visitors: 2323
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I have known this boy in my neighborhood for about a year now. I never really liked him before and i've had sex with his cousin and the boy next door to him AND him. He knows i care about him so much and he also knows I'm dying to go out with him. I talk to him on the phone every night, I lie to my parents to see him, I got arrested for stealing stuff for him, I sneak out to walk to his job and I cheer him on at football games along with other girls. He tells me he loves me and that he doesn't know if he should go out with me because he needs to focus on football...but when I'm around him I know he really does care about me...should i make the first move? What should I say to him? Please help I'd die for this boy! im 15 and he's 16! (link)
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okay well first of all.. no offense but you sound like your kinda stalkin him in a way. I mean no guy is worth gettin arrested for..or gettin in trouble by your parents for lying to them. Cause eventually your parents will catch you. but ANYWHO! if he wants to focus on football i think you should give him space..cause that sounds like what he wants. Just back up for a while and let him come to you when he's ready. And if he loves you like he says he does then he will come back. If its meant to be then time wont matter. just be patient. oh yea.. and try not to have sex with anymore of his family members or neighbors.
hope i helped* good luck _*
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Ok I just got over this relationship from an online girl. We were together 5 months but she held so many lies to me and I never saw her. She lived like 4.5 hours away from me tho. But here is the question. I meet this other girl and she likes me and I like her. She lives in the same state and pretty close. How should I go about this without getting hurt again? I would love to be with her but just am scared i'll be hurt. (link)
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Obviously online relationships don't bring much luck. You can't have a connection with someone if you havent met them in real life. How do you know WHO you're having a relationship with? For all you know, it could be some 40 y/o man lying about everything. You cant base personality by what you see on your computer screen. There are so many weirdos in this world -- the chances of encountering psychos on the internet is no longer rare. ANYWAYS.. no matter what relationship you're in, you're eventually gonna get hurt at times. Love is about taking risks.. and if you're not willing to do that, then are you really ready to get involved with someone? Try finding girls @ your school or atleast in your city. It's so much more convenient, not to mention.. safer. Take chances.. you only live once.
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all my life i had never had a boyfriend and i thought it was me but 3 days ago my brother finally confessed. he told me that he told all the boys i like not to go out with me, its a rule not to go out with my sister. hes 17 and i'm 13. y does my brother want to........... y does my brother want to ruin my life? (link)
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i dont think hes trying to ruin your life, hes just being over protective. explain to him that you hate it when he does that and as much as you appreciate him looking after you, you really want to live your own life.
hope i helped. x3 good luck
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Ok, i finally told the guy i have a crush on last night that I liked him, well he was cool with it and he got offline and then got back on... after a while he started asking questions like how far have you gone and stuff like that and im not sure if thats a hint that hes guna want to do stuff w/me or not cause he doesnt seem like that kind of person but i could just be being naive ... help please :-) (link)
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well i think hes just being a guy, i mean lots of guys ask stuff like that lol. maybe he just wants to see if ur someone who always does stuff w. guys. idk the situation. but if he doesnt seem like the type of guy who just use you then he might not be, but then again, guys r guys, there arent many guys out there who DONT wanna do stuff so be careful lol. u should ask him why hes asking u all these questions. but one thing i can tell u from experience, DONT always believe what guys tell u.
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How can i make my ex like me again, they told me they loved me once and now they basically ignore me. What can i do? (link)
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you cant really make anyone like you* People and their feelings change. So chances are even tho "they" told you "they" loved you before things are probably different now. i dont know the whole story but the best thing i can suggest is to try to talk to the person. If "they" still ignore you then move on. Dont waste your time on someone who isnt even goin to talk to you. good luck w/ everything!
hope i helped..update me! x3
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well..there is this boy who is a grade younger than me and i really like him but everyone makes a big deal out of it if someone goes out with someone in another grade oh and he likes me too so what should i do go out with him or not?
thanks! (link)
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you you really like him then and he likes you then it shouldnt matter what anyone else thinks. age def. doesnt matter. Go for it! good luck!
hope i helped x3
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Hey, I'm a female of 14 years old. My boyfriend dumped me 2 and a half months ago. I love him more then any thing and I just can't get over him. My best friend likes him too and says she likes him just as much as I do... which is hard to believe because she just recently started REALLY hanging out with him. He seems like he likes her too, but I've asked him countless times and every time he's said no. What I'm getting at is if he does like her and if he does decide to ask her out, what do I do? I love him more then any thing and to see them together and happy would kill me. I know I should be happy for them if they do decide to take it to the next level but I don't think thats possible. What do I do? How do I go along with this? How can I get over him? Thank you in advance!! (link)
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i know it's hard to get over someone you love, but if you really do love him then you should let him go and do whatever makes him happy. and if that means being with your best friend, then there's really nothing you can do about it. if she was truly your best friend, then she would also take that into consideration, she knows you love him maybe she should give you more time to get over him. but like i said, theres nothing you can do because people can't help who they like. if you keep holding grudges that'll just make things between you three worse.
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