I have known this boy in my neighborhood for about a year now. I never really liked him before and i've had sex with his cousin and the boy next door to him AND him. He knows i care about him so much and he also knows I'm dying to go out with him. I talk to him on the phone every night, I lie to my parents to see him, I got arrested for stealing stuff for him, I sneak out to walk to his job and I cheer him on at football games along with other girls. He tells me he loves me and that he doesn't know if he should go out with me because he needs to focus on football...but when I'm around him I know he really does care about me...should i make the first move? What should I say to him? Please help I'd die for this boy! im 15 and he's 16!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? carolannexO answered Sunday October 17 2004, 5:56 pm: okay well first of all.. no offense but you sound like your kinda stalkin him in a way. I mean no guy is worth gettin arrested for..or gettin in trouble by your parents for lying to them. Cause eventually your parents will catch you. but ANYWHO! if he wants to focus on football i think you should give him space..cause that sounds like what he wants. Just back up for a while and let him come to you when he's ready. And if he loves you like he says he does then he will come back. If its meant to be then time wont matter. just be patient. oh yea.. and try not to have sex with anymore of his family members or neighbors.
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