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starving for attention from my husband
I am 47 been married 2 1/2 years and for the first time I have never been so much in love, just recently about 6 months ago it seems like I have to beg for attention from my husband not sexual attention even though that department is not like it used to be but I want the hugging, cuddling, holding hands, kissing just to be close. I just do not what to do anymore, I am tired of trying and crying and the funny thing is 7 months ago I weighed 200 lbs and decided I was going to lose it on my own so I got really motivated and lost 60 lbs. I went from a size 18 to a 6 and I thought things between us both in the bedroom and out would change, I was wrong I jst need some good sound advice. Thank you taking the time to read my question. Bonnie
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HI Bonnie, I am 45 and my husband 47 and we have been married about 6 months. I am going through the same thing and it is a bummer as you well know. I dont know what to do either. But I wish you well. lonely
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Retreat! You need to go on vacation for just you two. Plan some time just to "be." Have you asked him to hold you, cuddle, etc? Because guys do not take hints well. You want it, sometimes you have to ask for it. As things heat up, you won't have to ask as much. Ask him what he wants too. Try sometime crazy. If none of that works, seek a therapist or some other outside help.
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wow thats a touching story..good job on loosing the weight! :) sorry im much younger than u so i dont have any real good advice and i just wanted to tell u good job on losing the weight and i hope everything turns out okay!!
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well, new things are always fun and exciting and seem like they wouldint have any flaws but that all changes! mabey you should confront him and ask if everything between you two is ok,if he looks like he has no idea what your talking about try telling him how u have been feeling. dont confront him dierectly for a wile till you have your facts strate. give it a little time. if things still don't work out then go to marriage conseling for help (if u feel that it gets that bad).
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p.s good luck, just remember that guys can be weird no matter how old they are!:)
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Bonnie It sounds like he has lost intrest.. You need to sit him down and talk about whats going on he might just tell you he wants something to change insted of it being the same old thing in bed... Dont bother your self about it for all you know it most likely isnt your problem. Well.. good luck with you and your husband hope i was of some help.
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Even though I'm only 14 and all, and I dont know what your going through, I just want to put my 2 cents in. You need to talk to him, sit him down somewhere and tell him everything you want to say. And dont let him interupt you, when your done then he can ask the questions and all..You need to tell him that your miserable and ask him whats going wrong between you two. Hopefully you can figure everything out.
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