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Hey i need some help.. i think im prude..like scared to kiss a boy like i feel embarresed like i dont do it right or something i mean i have pecked boys but never freched or madeout and alot of ppl call me prude and idk wut to do cuz even my bf calls me prude and i like him alot nd wanna kiss him but i jus cant :-/
X.oX.o --> aShLeY
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Just don't worry. You can't expect to be an expert your first time. If the other person truly cares for you they won't get upset and be willing to learn with you.
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You're a prude. Get over it, most prepubescent girls are. Anyone who says otherwise is a whore and a liar. The next time he tries to pressure you into doing something, you tell him that you're not interested in asswipes. If he persists, kick him in the balls and run away.
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well thats wrong for peoople to call you prude, especially your boy friend. if you are not confident enough to kiss someone, you just might not be ready. don let what people say be the reason you kiss someone, let it be becasue you want to, becasue you are comfortable and ready to. and if you feel you are then, just do it. dont think about it, just do it, it will become more natural and easier once you are used to it.
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Hey Ashley! Well, if you're not ready to makeout with a boy yet, then don't. When you feel more comfortable with him, then kiss him. Don't get pressured into something you don't want to do. And your boyfriend shouldn't be making fun of you, he should respect you and stuff. But, when you feel the time is right, then go for it hun! But, when you are ready, don't be scared to kiss him, kissing comes naturally. It really does. You just basically follow his lead. I hope this helps and good luck hun! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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ok...soo....you are scared to kiss a boy...hmmm....well....it kinda depends on the age...if you are below the age of 12...then you should worry about it...cuz that is still kinda young to get into boys...trust me...they arent that much fun! and but if your older then the age of 12 then....maybe you should just try...i mean....you have to learn sometime...and if you trust him or like him enough and you think he feels the same....then he shouldnt care..he should be happy that he gets to teach you...its a bragging right between the boys...they are all happy if they got to teach you!
Hope i helped!
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If your not ready to kiss your boyfriend then just tell him...all girls are scared when they have to kiss for the first time cuz most people are unsure of what exactly to do...i was scared the first time but all i did was relax...it really does come naturally to french...i hope i helped and good luck with ur boyfriend!
<3 Alexa
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well maybe you should just like kiss ur bf like some where private, where not many or no people can see you. then you might not be so embarssed
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I know exactly how you feel. With the first boyfriend taht I had taht wanted to make out I was so scared. Once he jsut did it one day and I was STILL so scared and worried and barely even kissed him back. Then the next time I felt a little more comfortable and by now it really is easy. You might just need a couple of times to get used to it and then you should be fine! If you relax, it really does come naturally. Explain to your bf that you are out of practice so you're worried about it and he should be understanding and willing to help you get in practice ;) hope everything works out for you. xoxo Kacie
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Just relax sweetie..im sure your not prude ok. Stop worrying about it because it's not that much of a big deal..but im sure if you calm down and relax you'll know when the time comes..and it will be so special. Just let it flow..!
Xo,Shay!
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If you don't feel like you're ready to kiss him - then you dont have to. There is not set time limit or time frame that you're 'supposed' to have kissed someone. The people who call you a prude are very stupid and aren't worth your time. If your boyfriend is calling you this - he isn't really worth your time either, even if you think you like him. They're wrong, you aren't a prude just because you don't feel all that ready just yet. When you are ready then you will be able to just kiss someone without thinking about it as much as you are now.
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what I would do, is when you and your boyfriend are out just go for it. i dont think he would mind especially since he calls you prude. and if you dont feel comfortable just wait, the right time will come.
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you need to ask friends who have kissed people before how they do it, and they'll have good advice. If your boyfriend goes to give you a 'peck' lean in for more sweetie. He's your boyfriend.. aka NO reason to be shy.. go for it hun! xoxo
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It's ok you'll kiss when you're ready. Sometimes it takes people a longer time to kiss or french. Just force yourself one of these times to kiss him and after that everything should be ok =c) Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! Hope I helped!
Love, RacheL
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