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My Bf is really shy around what do i do?


Question Posted Friday September 17 2004, 7:29 pm

My Bf is really shy around me..if I try to talk to him or something he just kind gives me a thumbs up..i don't know if he just to shy to say something back or hes just doesn't care..I like him alot!! What do I do?



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Dozzer answered Sunday September 19 2004, 5:59 pm:
Sounds like me. Some people are talkative, some aren't. Maybe hes like me and isnt very talkative. Just pay him attention and stuff. Hes prolly laid back and relaxed. Its not that he dont love you, its that he just isnt a big talker. If hes anything like me, you could cuddle with him, poke him if u want him to talk, just flirt w/ him. Good Luck!!!


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Bethers5143 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 6:23 pm:
honey. if he really likes/loves you he would be anything but shy! maybe u just have to be exciting with him? try to liven him up! *Bethers*

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urkissmytkillme answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:29 am:
again...same thing with my bf, except he doesnt give me a thumbs up, he just smiles. i think that it's probably just your bf being shy around you!

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Sarah742 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 8:44 am:
I seriously thank you for asking this question!
since you 2 are dating, you need to be totally open to him, even if it means not going to your favorite movie on a weekend cause hes mad at you.
If hes shy about BEING around you, than everyone knows that boys are wierd, not under control, and not understandable. I mean, you never know, you could be his first GF!You probably need to take things alittle slow if you really truly want to be with him for a while.

Glad i could answer!!

Sarah742

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Siren_Cytherea answered Friday September 17 2004, 9:26 pm:
I think you should simply ask him what's going on. Point out to him that he just kind of gives you a thumbs up when you talk to him, and tell him you were wondering why he never really said anything back.
That should get you into his mind/get him to tell you what's going on. Doesn't it suck to not be able to read minds? Lol
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)

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AskMegan answered Friday September 17 2004, 8:08 pm:
I do the thumbs up all the time. He is probably trying to be cute. You should probably tell him that you don't understand while he'll give you the thumbs up everytime you utter a word.

Let him know-Communication is key. You need to let him know something is bothering you, and that you do like him a lot.

Go up to him tomorrow and be like "*Insert name here* How are you? Anthing new?" Ask him something that hey cannot give you a thumbs up sign for.

Turns out, he could be shy. Some people are like that. When I first got with my boyfriend, I was mega shy around him, because we took our friendship to the next level, which was, ya' know-Weird.

He's probably just nervous to be around you, like, he dosn't want to say something stupid to you. (You know how boys can be)

I wouldn't worry about it to much, he just needs time to get used to haveing you as his girlfriend. Don't worry he'll come around.

Best Wishes,

AskMegan

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ElementaryHustler answered Friday September 17 2004, 8:07 pm:
Have you tried talking to him? I think he's shy. But try talking to him about it and if that doesn't work then I don't know what else to do. Try a different communication?

Good luck

<33 Brit

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TheGovernor answered Friday September 17 2004, 8:01 pm:
This is a rather odd question with not a whole lot of information in it, but I will do my best to answer it. You need to talk to him. In a relationship, whenever there is a problem, you need to talk about it. Talking is what keeps relationships alive. Once you hear what he has to say, continue from there and decide what you are going to do. I can't really help you much more than that considering I have no iformation on the situation.

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mysticpixie05 answered Friday September 17 2004, 7:50 pm:
tell him how you feel about this situation. tell him you need to know why he doesnt talk to you. I dont think that it is because he just doesnt care about you. I think it may be because he likes you alot and maybe doesnt want to mess things up by saying the wrong thing. There could be many of reasons why he doesnt talk to you tho. just ask him about it. Good Luck and hope i helped ya out some.

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LilMia811 answered Friday September 17 2004, 7:44 pm:
Ask him why he never says anything.

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