Member Since: September 17, 2004
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Last Update: September 18, 2004
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ok, don't say my friend is a fag or anything just because he cut.. i don't wanna hear it... but i've been really mad because, i was talking to him, and he quit cuttin for about 3months, but then while i was talkin to him, i told him something, and he said "brb" then when he got back, he told me that he had cut himself because of me.He said he was just looking for a reason to do it, but now i feel really guilty. IDK what to do, hes not online a lot so i haven't talked to him, so my guilty concious grows each day. I'm mad at myself because 3 months ago, i was the reason he stopped cutting, now im the reason he started. Can anyone give me advice on what to do right now? i don't like the feeling of being guilty, but i can't talk to him...i need a way to clear most of my concious about this, cuz its really disturbing my sleep and life in general.. (link)
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well this person who cuts needs some help. like frankie from the real world, he needs to find a personal group and talk about his pain instead of adding more. talk to him about how u care about him and matters to you. maybe he'll stop. hope i helped i lil b/c this is very serious.
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well i have an advice column and i'd had one for about 8 months now. but the thing is that i've only had like 14 ?'s! how can i get more? -thx- (link)
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well i like to call it advertising. i put my column in my buddyprofile (in my aol instant msg.) in my links, and in my favorites so everyone no's. also if you decorate ur column it seems more exciting and more ppl will ask u ?'s. hope it helped!
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i have this friend who thinks i like her. shes so annoying and she swears and buys abercrombie and fitch clothes just to fit in. she also calls my house like 4 times a day and she won't leave me alone. should i give her a chance or get to steppin? (link)
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well if she has to be fake like buying a certain type of clothes, and swearing then shes just trying too hard. maybe you guys need a 'break' from each other and see what happens.
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i have this bf who is really sweet but i have to do all the moves. i always hug him 1st and he never talks to me at school. idk if theres another girl or if he just doesnt like me. should i break up with him? (link)
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well relationships are hard to deal with. you should talk to him about it and ask him how he feels! communication is very important! good luck!
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Ok, I'm 14 and I have this friend. She truly is a nice person, but she flirts with EVERY GUY in sight. No joke. It really gets on my nerves, and plus she has a boyfriend anyway. And it's not just normal, friendly flirting--she hangs all over them and is always hugging all over them and stuff. Her boyfriend goes to another school, which happens to be convenient for her. Anywho, it gets on my nerves soo bad. How should I tell her that its not right? Or should I just lay low and hope she stops? (link)
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well this kinda thing is difficult for everybody. i cant really answer this ? but u should make sure to not cross the line between friends and personal lives. what she does is her bussiness. hopefully she'll stop being a slut and be a true gf. hope it helps!
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my best friends mom has leukemia and she always talks about it! its sad i no that but shes always talking about it and it gets annoying! is that rude? HELP! (link)
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well its not exactly rude but u should have a little more respect about ur best friends feelings. shes sad that her mom is sick and u should praise her not say shes annoying. my advice: just go with the flow and give ur friend some slack
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hey ur sound really hott! can i see you soon? where do u live? (link)
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yeah umm this is kinda awkward and stalkerish! my advice: go out with sum one u no, and get a life
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ok i wanted an I-pod and still do but do you have to pay for the songs or does it come on the disk? because i don't wanna be paying for songs to download when i payed so much for the I-pod already (link)
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hey , my neighbor has an ipod and it did cost a lot of $! the songs...well it depends. sometimes you can get it on disks and sometimes u download it in ur ipod (idk if its costs $ tho!) sry hope i helped a lil
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hey! i really need help! my friend has all the latest cds and i really want some of the ones she has! we love the same music and everything! but she says i'm "copying" her too much! i really like ashlee simpson and jojo and singers like that....should i go ahead and buy my jams or should i keep our friendship lasting? (link)
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well i always think having a good friendship is very important but this one is hard. i personally wouldn't risk losing ur friend over a couple of cds! my advice: burn them from another friend!
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ok me and my gf r goin on 3 months........thas my longest relationship and shes the first person ive eva said i love u to and.....she talks bout her ex bf ALOT it seems like every convo we have is bout him.....and then when we r around each other she neva wants to get close i have to sit next to her and kiss her and stuff like tha.......n e ways this had happened a couple times and i need sum opinions......should i break up w/ her or wait it out and see wut happens.....i dont know wut to do...i still love her but it hurts when she talks bout her ex and ive asked her to stop but she doesnt.....n e ones opinion helps.......thanx (link)
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well this is very hard. if she really loves you then she would pay attention to you. i cant really answer this ? but it seems like shes very clingy to old relationships. i always say..whats in the past stays there. hope it helps!
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