Hey, I'm here to give advice on anything. Go ahead and ask away! I've been told that I give good advice by quite a few people and when I saw this site I thought maybe there are other people in the world that can benefit from my advice also. I am a single 21 yr. old male. So...That's all I think I am gonna say about myself for now. If you want to know more...just ask me! Hopefully I am helpful to you.
Gender: Male
Age: 21
Member Since: September 15, 2004
Answers: 4
Last Update: September 19, 2004
Visitors: 811
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I like 2 people a LOT!! One of them has a girlfriend, and the other one is my good friend. We're not BEST friends, but we talk a lot. I know that the first one is kind of out of my reach right now.. so I want to go for the second one! How do I get the second one to notice me as more than a friend?
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Well if you talk a lot with this guy then you shouldn't have much of a problem adding into your conversation how you feel about him. Sounds easy right? Maybe not...What you need to do is talk to him like you always do, but start to get things where they are more personal, get alone with him to talk, and tell him how you feel. There is nothing more that a guy likes (especially a guy that might like you too) than a girl that will be up front and honest. So if you like him just tell him. Also I assume that if he doesn't like you back in that kind of way that you still want to be his friend and talk a lot like you do now. If you're honest with him and tell him you don't want to ruin the friendship then he should understand. If he freaks out when he finds out you like him then just tell him the only way you could have been his good friend was to be honest with him...I hope I have helped. Feel free to ask me anything anytime. God Bless.
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after summer 2003...my boyfriend broke up with me that summer...I thought we were for real...well that following year I was starting 7th grade...I started losing faith in everything and everyone...I started skippin school, gettin in fights, hating everyone, getting lower grades than usual...I thought there was no life beyond my ex boyfriend...I never actually prayed...I'd do it everyonce in a while...and then I'd always have second thoughts towards "him" cuz even when i think positive and pray nothing ever happens for better than for worse...how do I start trusting and believing "he" IS there? (link)
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You asked "how can I trust and believe 'he' IS there?" and the answer is in the question itself. The way to trust and believe in "Him" is just that...(Trust and believe in "Him")..you just have to do it! haha...I don't know how to say it any different. So the answer is very simple but the task can be difficult, I know. Here are a few verses that I want you to read from Luke 12:24-28
>>24Consider the ravens: They do not sow or reap, they have no storeroom or barn; yet God feeds them. And how much more valuable you are than birds! 25Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? 26Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest?
27"Consider how the lilies grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you, not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 28If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today, and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, how much more will he clothe you, O you of little faith!
See God knows that we are going to have "untrust" and "disbelief" or else this passage wouldn't be in the Bible. And there are some others also like it. It is human nature to not believe in God because you can not physically see feel or touch Him unless you first believe in Him. Try not to lose that faith. Pray that God will help you to keep your faith and he will help you because, believe me, that is not something he wants u to lose!! If you need anymore help feel free to ask me more. I hope I have helped some! God Bless.
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Ok, I'm 14 and I have this friend. She truly is a nice person, but she flirts with EVERY GUY in sight. No joke. It really gets on my nerves, and plus she has a boyfriend anyway. And it's not just normal, friendly flirting--she hangs all over them and is always hugging all over them and stuff. Her boyfriend goes to another school, which happens to be convenient for her. Anywho, it gets on my nerves soo bad. How should I tell her that its not right? Or should I just lay low and hope she stops? (link)
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Well I don't know how your friend responds to things...but being honest with her would be my best advice. If you think she's too flirty just nicely tell her. For example you could start a conversation about dating, or about boys in general and then bring up flirting and say "yeah I don't think its good to flirt with guys all the time..." You could tell her why it's a bad idea because guys get misled and it's not good to lead a guy on. Plus it's not good to be flirting when you have a boyfriend...ESPECIALLY when he's not around. Hope I helped out. Ask me for advice any time!
-Godsman
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I don't know why I am on this site to ask about this, but I will do it anyway. I am a highschool student age 15 in 9th grade. I'm getting bad grades but I think it might be because I have so much homework and I just don't have time for it. Or maybe its just I get distracted easy and want to do other things. The problem is most of my friends are smart and have there work done at school and have little homework and are always distracting me by wanting to hang out...so I do that instead of homework a lot and get behind. I doubt you will have an answer for this..but I thought I might try. (link)
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Well all I can really tell ya is what I did when I was in high school. And I came out alive so maybe it's good advice. Do your best to get your work done in class. That's what you're at school for is to do your work...plus you have teachers there that can help you. (they should anyway) I know some teachers pile on the work and some even add more work at the end of class specifically for homework...but just do as much as you can in class. I tried to make myself do my homework that I did have first thing when I got home. A lot of times that didnt work because I, like you, had friends that wanted to do things. But do what u can do in class and then what is left try to get done right away. I would be a hypocrite to tell you not to proctastinate because I do it myself a lot...but it will kill you if you do it ALL the time. So give yourself a break SOMETIMES and it will relieve you from from being stressed out ALL the time. Just don't wait for the due date on everything. Get ahead so that you can take a break when appropriate. That's all I can say...hope I helped! Feel free to ask me anything else you might want to.
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