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i feel fat. like everyone tells me that i am skinny. i am 5'6" and 108 lbs. I know i am not really overweight, but i have tons of fat. i allways feel self consious, and i have noticed myself getting more and more concerned about how i look. i am afraid i might develope an eating disorder, or just become depressed about it. that is like all i ever think about anymore. help (link)
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I think you go get some help, think bout happend to marykate..
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I'm trying to figure out what's wrong with my boyfriend lately. I've been with him almost 6 years and we have 1 child together, our 1 year old son. My boyfriend is usually an all around nice guy who is family oriented and fun to be with. He is a dedicated worker and family man. But lately he seems self-destructive. Keep in mind he works two jobs so he is working 17 hours 5 days a week which he's been doing over a year now. He gets NO sleep, maybe 2 hours a night. That could be what's getting to him. But he is unwilling to make a change. I told him he either needs depression medication or a job change or both. So he's been extremely mean to me lately, turning everything I say upside down and picking fights with me in front of our son. He seems to not be caring about anything and he's so cold and hard inside. I prefer not to say exactly what, but he's been getting into something substance related, he's having like a relapse of our old party days or something, he's got the wrong friends. He actually took something out in front of our child and I had to pull him from his high chair and take him in the other room. He's like, "what, he doesn't know what's going on." and I'm like, "it' doesn't matter it's the act." Also, he smokes cigarettes and I hate cigarettes and we have an agreement not to smoke in the house. But he's been smoking in here anyway after I go to bed. I don't believe me and my child should have to suffer for his bad habit, he should take it outside. He knows my wishes but goes behind my back anyways. He would normally never do this. I'm not a mean girlfriend, just a good mother. So this is totally not normally him and I don't understand what is happening here. All he does is bitch about life and say how he's going to die early and stuff and I'm so sick of it now. He never wants to do anything anymore with us as family. I don't want our son growing up in this environment, but also, I really love and care about my boyfriend and know that something deep inside him is really wrong and I would hate to turn my back on him, but am tempted to kick him the fuck out, he's really pressing my buttons, it's like he's seeing how far I will go with this. Also, our sex life is nothing to complain about, just so you know. Is this something we may be able to get passed or is this an ending he has created and he's going to lose everything that's good in his life? I know it's up to him to make a change, but how much should I take? Once it's over with us, that's it, it's over, that's why I am putting off the end until whatever sets me off, sets me off. Please help. (link)
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I hope I help,
Yea sometimes Guys Don't like to talk bout there problems and want advices. Maybe its lot of stress over work and helping takeing care son. there lot of Resonblties (sorry bad spelling) I know I don't know what your going through but I do see it. maybe you to take your son to babysitter or somethin and go somewhere where have brake times and he do need sleep. my step dad had sleep dicorders where you don't get enought sleep or can't sleep can couse lot of things. maybe talking to him rest more and maybe could get job sheadul change make it work better for both of you.
I try my best give advice this is my frist time.
Hope I help. oh yea it not good fight from of your son. maybe go somewhere have a talk...
If I didn't give right advice pls dont be mad becouse i hope this what ur asking for..
have nice hoilday
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Does He Like Me?
Posted Wednesday November 03 2004, 4:52 pm
Hi I am 13 years old and i am female... Here is my problem..So, for a while now, I've had my eye on this guy... He's more like my best friend... I've really really liked him since the middle of last year, I tried to move on but I couldn't, as much as I wanted to move on, I couldn't... I just liked him even more... A couple of weeks ago I told im how I felt about him, it was a bit dramatic, since I gave him this letter which was about 2 and a half pages long, mentioning everything i feel about him... He read it and he didnt mention the letter since I pretty much asked him not to mention it. You'd expect things to get peculiar between us, since we're best friends and i love him way more then that... But things have kind of gotten better... He's been "closer" to me, as in, he hugs me every minutes, puts his arm around me, follows me, tickles me, flirts with me, sits next to me, looks into my eyes, and everything... he even invites me to hang out with him and stuff....it seems like he likes me, but I dont know for sure how he really feels, I mean.. I dont have enoguh guts to walk up to him and be like "do u like me" it might put us in a peculiar stage. So, what are some signs that shows if he really feels the same way about me as I do about him??
-- PoeticxTragedy (link)
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Hi,
My name is Amanda, I hope I can help and I will give my best shot,
I know how you feel. I kinda have best freind and I have a crush on him last 2 years it becouse he so nice to me. thing now he out of school and hase gf. thing is that part maybe not help but worst thing I did in my freshman year writing guy my feelings and not in person it didn't work at all he was jerk.. how ever. maybe you should ask him he like to talk and talk bout it in person. and if he your best freind and if he doen't feel saem way maybe he just dont want to ruine the freind ship you guys have. you guys are young and sometimes reaship gets conffusing. so my advice is to go to him and talk to him in person. if he goes your house and talk to you alot care bout you he should listen to what you said and make shure understand what he saids. i hope answer you looking for.. truth is i never told guy i like him right now i dont see him and i got over it becouse changes are good to do news things. but is it hard. so right now jsut think bout things you want to said. if you have sister or find close truth freind tell you that good thing to said to him. or just be your self and talk to him. not on phone or im. Face To Face..
Things do happend for a reason
I hope I help
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I've been going out with this boy who's a year younger than me. He's super sweet and we've been going out for almost 3 weeks. I feel bad though because my friends (girls and guys) are making fun of him and being really mean to him. His friends are being mean to me too. I like him but maybe it'd be better if i dumped him. I don't see him very often either. I still like him but i dont know whether or not to dump him. sorry so long!!
signed, troubled (link)
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It sould not ruine your guys friendship becouse your guys freinds judgeing you guys. if he mean so much to you. souldnt worry bout they think and doing. they arnt really your friend if they don't appect you who u go out with and age. My best freind who i use date 17 and i am 19.. maybe try to work it out so they can stop..
ps. some day they be dating someone much older or younger. tell them walk in your guys shoes for a day
hope i help
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there this boy in my school who i have the biggest crush. Sometimes i think he likes me too but i can never truly tell. I want to ask him out but i am sooo scared of being rejected! but i mean i will never know unless i ask...right!! give me advice!! please help! (link)
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HI,
This is bout crush is tell nobody and him you have crush, maybe you get know him and and ask him what are his hobbies and find something you guys both like maybe ask him he like hang out with you. if not then he not warth it or maybe he just want be freinds. If he ever talk to you. maybe you appecp him said no maybe ther reason. I did had a crush and but i started learn he was bad by asking lot of other people but becareful. find someone know him little just ask they know anything bout him. make sure you dont say u have crush. gotten me lot of trouble....
Amanda
Hope I Help
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i dont know what to put this under .. but my back is KILLING me .. its like my upper back and idk it feels like someone is stabbing me in the back its all along my shoulders .. (link)
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Try some good yoga for pain in the back. Yoga pretty good streach help. If can't move or to pain ful take a talon nonaprain pain killer.. Hot shower help Little. I can't spell it um Tirepracter. Oh well try have someon meassage your back.. Hope I help
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This sunday its been my one month aniversary with my vegetarianism. Though that kind of makes me sad because for 2 weeks my friends havn't talked to me. They say i've changed a llot, i dyed my hair from blonde to black, wear all black, and am really into rock (though i always have been) and, they ssay they wont talk to me because im a vegetarian! I started skipping lunch, A. because i just cant bring myself to eat. B. because no one to sit with. So i just wait outside (im 13 and in 7th grade)till the bell rings. And home, i lock myself in my room and say like 10 words...max. I just dont want to talk. *sigh* am i slipping into depression. I mean, why should i quit..i do have reason. Factory farms treat there animals HORRIBLE and my 'friends' dont beleive that! I brought my proof, (a book) and they refused to read it. I told them to go to www.meetyourmeat.com and they wouldnt! *sigh* im just so confused, sorry this is long.
Signed,
-.The lost last piece to the puzle.- (link)
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They are wrong freinds. Not be your freind just becouse you change outside and become vegertaian. they sould accept you who you are and tell them that not like you change inside only outside. so anway meet some friends who care and that they acceppt who you are... Don't get deppression. Change is good. maybe tell them that or ask they ever try change just fun of it or seee like be something else and more your self.. thing is dont matter out side or not eating aminml that your desicaon.. Don't worry bout they think couse maybe they can't handle change. I hope answer you looking for and hope i help
Amanda
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i am deeply in love with a very close guy friend of mine. we have lost touch. he moved away and theres no way i can see him, we talk on the phone once a month about. hes my best friends brother..shes still here with her family its only him that moved..ill only be able to see him once a year, he gets so many girls, hes my ex boyfriend, he probably has so many where he is now, but when he comes back for his 2 week visits i want somehting to happen with him, he doesnt knwo i feel this way, and eaither does his sister (my best friend) what do i do?!?! (link)
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I hope I can Help. Maybe he come you ask him you guys go see movie and hang out somewhere and talk. see what or how he doing and been up to. maybe if you have dance coming up and see he want come... maybe try be honest if he and you will have chance again. if he says no maybe he want stay freinds.. but sometimes we dont know what will happend. I hope advice you asking for if not. someteims guys have lot of girls maybe he want go out many girls not have reaiship or something.. Hope I help
Amanda
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