Question Posted Wednesday November 3 2004, 5:54 pm
Does He Like Me?
Posted Wednesday November 03 2004, 4:52 pm
Hi I am 13 years old and i am female... Here is my problem..So, for a while now, I've had my eye on this guy... He's more like my best friend... I've really really liked him since the middle of last year, I tried to move on but I couldn't, as much as I wanted to move on, I couldn't... I just liked him even more... A couple of weeks ago I told im how I felt about him, it was a bit dramatic, since I gave him this letter which was about 2 and a half pages long, mentioning everything i feel about him... He read it and he didnt mention the letter since I pretty much asked him not to mention it. You'd expect things to get peculiar between us, since we're best friends and i love him way more then that... But things have kind of gotten better... He's been "closer" to me, as in, he hugs me every minutes, puts his arm around me, follows me, tickles me, flirts with me, sits next to me, looks into my eyes, and everything... he even invites me to hang out with him and stuff....it seems like he likes me, but I dont know for sure how he really feels, I mean.. I dont have enoguh guts to walk up to him and be like "do u like me" it might put us in a peculiar stage. So, what are some signs that shows if he really feels the same way about me as I do about him??
-- PoeticxTragedy
xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Wednesday November 3 2004, 8:46 pm: Hun, it sounds like he already likes you! And you have guts for writing him a 2 and a half page letter! Ask him out! I hoped i helped!! :)
Pwarx answered Wednesday November 3 2004, 7:55 pm: *I love your name* I understand you're in a tough situation. You don't want to risk losing what you already have with this guy for something you want. I'll tell you this, friendships last way longer then love lives. ^_~
You say you don't have guts, as you gamber on about this two and a half page letter? Sounds like you have guts to me, and sounds like he likes you too.
I bet the reason HE hasn't asked YOU out is because you asked him not to mention the letter, and he is probably expected you to ask him out instead. This is something I think you should do, as it seems you have slim chances of rejection. ^^ [ Pwarx's advice column | Ask Pwarx A Question ]
SweetBrowneyes06 answered Wednesday November 3 2004, 6:12 pm: Hi,
My name is Amanda, I hope I can help and I will give my best shot,
I know how you feel. I kinda have best freind and I have a crush on him last 2 years it becouse he so nice to me. thing now he out of school and hase gf. thing is that part maybe not help but worst thing I did in my freshman year writing guy my feelings and not in person it didn't work at all he was jerk.. how ever. maybe you should ask him he like to talk and talk bout it in person. and if he your best freind and if he doen't feel saem way maybe he just dont want to ruine the freind ship you guys have. you guys are young and sometimes reaship gets conffusing. so my advice is to go to him and talk to him in person. if he goes your house and talk to you alot care bout you he should listen to what you said and make shure understand what he saids. i hope answer you looking for.. truth is i never told guy i like him right now i dont see him and i got over it becouse changes are good to do news things. but is it hard. so right now jsut think bout things you want to said. if you have sister or find close truth freind tell you that good thing to said to him. or just be your self and talk to him. not on phone or im. Face To Face..
Things do happend for a reason
I hope I help [ SweetBrowneyes06's advice column | Ask SweetBrowneyes06 A Question ]
LilTaterTot9 answered Wednesday November 3 2004, 6:05 pm: I think he likes you b.c of all the stuff that yall have done together...why dont you try asking him out.i know it might feel weird asking him out b.c you are a gurl but try it and see what happens... [ LilTaterTot9's advice column | Ask LilTaterTot9 A Question ]
grape answered Wednesday November 3 2004, 6:02 pm: well fo 1 he flurts wit u so he deffenatly likes u.
yeahyeah answered Wednesday November 3 2004, 6:02 pm: ok well if he flirts with u then he must like u or he could just be a perv like some guys. if he doesnt talk to u he hates ur guts srry! have a nice day hun! [ yeahyeah's advice column | Ask yeahyeah A Question ]
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