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i dont know what to do!
I've been going out with this boy who's a year younger than me. He's super sweet and we've been going out for almost 3 weeks. I feel bad though because my friends (girls and guys) are making fun of him and being really mean to him. His friends are being mean to me too. I like him but maybe it'd be better if i dumped him. I don't see him very often either. I still like him but i dont know whether or not to dump him. sorry so long!!
signed, troubled
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It sould not ruine your guys friendship becouse your guys freinds judgeing you guys. if he mean so much to you. souldnt worry bout they think and doing. they arnt really your friend if they don't appect you who u go out with and age. My best freind who i use date 17 and i am 19.. maybe try to work it out so they can stop..
ps. some day they be dating someone much older or younger. tell them walk in your guys shoes for a day
hope i help
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i have been in this kind of problem before so i know how you feel. You should not let other people like your friends and his friends be the reason why you break up. If you love him then stay with him and trust me everentually all the making fun of will stop after a while. But if you truly feel like you wnat to dump then dump him, dont go out with him if you feel uncomfortable...follow your heart!hope i helped good luck
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tell your friend to BACK off who is more important this boy or your friends its not like me to say BUTT YOU HAVE TO CHOUSE
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If you really like him then stay with him. Don't diss him just because, of your friends and his. Their probably jealous because, they wish they had a relationship likes urs. But do,what your heart says. <3 * i H0PE i HELPED !
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if you like him keep him. dont dump him because your friends are being assholes. if you like him, help him show them why you like him so much. dont let them push you around. dont let them walk all over you.
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I guess I know how your friends feel...because I have a friend who liked a guy not even a year younger then her. Your friends probably think hes a little kid and hes in a different point in his life, hes not as mature and stuff like that. Being a year apart isn't a big deal, but you have to ask yourself if hes still acting immature and like a little kid or if hes up to your maturity level. If you're not looking for a serious relationship, just like..a little fling..then you probably have no reason to dump him. But if you really want to have a serious relationship you should just make sure he (*this sounds dumb but its true) knows what's going on. Like he knows that hes dedicated to you, and he can't act like a little kid. Since you don't see him a lot, make an extra effort to hang out w.him. After school, on the weekends, whenever. Go to the movies, mall, bowling, park, out to eat...whatever you feel like doing. His friends are probably being mean because they're jealous or they're immature (*and if his friends are, he probably is too) Wait a little while and just find out if your relationship is going the way you want it to, and if its not, break-up w.him (*don't wait to long tho!!) and explain to your friends that you really like him and you want them to stop teasing you and him about it (*and if they get really mad, they're not really your friends...because they should respect you enuff to stop)
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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In contrast to what everyone else has said, I think you should dump him. If you think it would make things easier, dump him. If you think you won't be miserable without him, dump him. If you're even considering dumping him based on what others think, then you should dump him.
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Don't dump someone you enjoy being with just because people are being stupid and mean. As long as you like being with him, that is all that matters. If your friends or his friends keep on bugging you, just say to them, Leave me alone. OR if you want to let them know your serious, say " at least i have a boyfriend" lol. Well hope everything works out!
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*Leah
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i've been in ur shoes before...it'll be ok...but all i can say is ...if u truly care about him...u shouldn't care wat other ppl thinks...listen to wat ur heart says...not other ppl
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Hey sweetie, don't dump your boyfriend just because people tease both of you!! Talk to these people that tease both you and your boyfriend and tell them straight out to stop teasing both of you. No one should even know your love life with you and your boyfriend. Hope I helped :)
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Dear Troubled,
Don't dump him just because people are jerks. Talk to your friends and tell him to talk to his.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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