Member Since: October 11, 2004
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Last Update: October 14, 2004
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I'm 16. I'm having a problem. My current boyfriend Scott is wonderful. He's a good friend of mine and we recently started going out. This monday will be two weeks. Anyways, I'm having problems getting over my ex. (We'll call him ****** okay? I don't want to give his name.)So me and ****** have been friends for a while too. We went out for a while but then we broke up and decided to be friends. The other day he decided to tell me that the only reason he initiated the break-up was because he's afraid that he'll break my heart or hurt me. He could never hurt me in the ways that he thinks he can. But we won't get into that. And he doesn't know I'm not exactly over him. I've told him how I felt during the relationship but I never told him that I still feel that way.
Should I tell him?
What should I do about Scott? (I really don't want to hurt him)
And what am I going to do if Scott and I break up?
-Sam (link)
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heyy sam! now listen up i am 14 but i give great advice. Now i understand that you feel some relaationship between both of them where its a "little more than friends" kind of thing. Well since your going out with scott but you feel wierd because you still arent over ******. But really if you just keep going out with scott and you still feel like your not over teh other person then your not only hurting youself but your hurting scott just by still going out with him. So my advice to you is to lay low for a little while. Tell scott that you guys are awesome friends and you care about him sooo much and that maybe someday you will be bf/ and gf but for now you need to just hang low and take a break from boyfriends for a while until your ready. And for ****** tell him how you feel but dont go back out with him cuz that would cause more problems wtih scott. Tell ****** that your just going to hang low and practically tell him the same thing you tell scott except make sure you add in when your talking to****** that you still have feelings for him but right now your un sure of youself and you need to hang low for a few days or weeks if nesscery. so take a break from boyfriends!! sometimes they are just oo much, believe me i've been there!! lol...hope i helped...GOOD LUCK!
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Ok i only want answers from someone who cuts/ used to cut. Why do you do it? I cut so often and I'm really depressed and it just makes me feel so good. But what specifically for you was it that made you want to cut? I think getting ideas from others would help me. Thank you. (link)
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first of all why are you cutting is the question? You should ask yourself the question you are asking people on this website. Girls these days critsize themselves too much, they are always putting themselves down...you know theres always some reason to feel not good enough. Why are you so depressed? There isnt much that people can write to help you...i am doing the best i can but the solution to your problem is in your own hands and mind. If you want to get better you can. I tried to cut myelf once because i thought my life was the worst life in the world....i thought if i did cut it owuld make me feel better but truthfully it just caused me more problems and i finally realized that there are so many other people out there who have it worse then me...i am a popular girl in my school...i dont even know why i tried to cut but i do know that when my friends foundout they all were worried about me....so just dont go to far cuz if you ever get to the cut where you go just a little too deep...it wont only change your life forever but it will change the people around you who loved you lives forever. YOu onyl live once...why make it a bad one...its never to late to turn thibngs around...god helps those who help themselves....and if you start to help yourself believe me god will be there for you the rest of the way...good luck!
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I've been going out with this boy who's a year younger than me. He's super sweet and we've been going out for almost 3 weeks. I feel bad though because my friends (girls and guys) are making fun of him and being really mean to him. His friends are being mean to me too. I like him but maybe it'd be better if i dumped him. I don't see him very often either. I still like him but i dont know whether or not to dump him. sorry so long!!
signed, troubled (link)
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i have been in this kind of problem before so i know how you feel. You should not let other people like your friends and his friends be the reason why you break up. If you love him then stay with him and trust me everentually all the making fun of will stop after a while. But if you truly feel like you wnat to dump then dump him, dont go out with him if you feel uncomfortable...follow your heart!hope i helped good luck
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Ok so Im a 15 year old girl. I consider myself to be attractive. I have never ever had a boyfriend. I have had many friends with benifits and random hook ups but I really am getting sick of that and want a boyfriend. The problem is I can't find any. Maybe my standards are just too high or i'm not looking in the right places or something but I really want one. Any advice? Please help me out! (link)
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ok, first of all most of all 15 year old girls want a boyfriend....but the thing is you cant just take any old person who is single,if you jsut sit back relax and take your mind off it for a while, trust me you will find someone when you least expect it and everything will fall into place. But then again the kind of person you may be looking for could be right under you nose and you dont even know.sometimes what you are looking for in a person may just be to good for someone to ever give you. people are not perfect and you should apprecaite everything that the person does give you...so trust me...just wait, he will come.
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