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Website: Dark Wishes Site
Location: Baltimore
Occupation: student/non-profit
Age: 13
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Yahoo: eveo_in_the_matrix
Member Since: July 10, 2004
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what should u do if i have to cook dinner for ur bf but i dont know how to cook?
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hmm... make it into a fun date and find a hard recipe and invite him over to help you cook. it would be so much funner. i mean more fun.


Ok so Im a 15 year old girl. I consider myself to be attractive. I have never ever had a boyfriend. I have had many friends with benifits and random hook ups but I really am getting sick of that and want a boyfriend. The problem is I can't find any. Maybe my standards are just too high or i'm not looking in the right places or something but I really want one. Any advice? Please help me out! (link)
hey if the right guy hasnt come along the right guy hasnt come along just wait for the right guy. dont force yourself to pick a random guy go for one you actually like and know. wait til HE comes along


what should i do if i have to watch my neibors house and i kill there prize wining crab grass (link)
*sigh* well... *sigh* apologize and buy them new seeds and dont accept money for doinf thme this favor.


Do you all think that you are responsible for what you dream about? Like, lets say for example, you don't cuss or something...Well, are you responsible for that kind of stuff? (link)
no. you cant control it. ive had dreams before that haunt me to this day, if anyone ever found out... well no one ever will :|


I've been going out with this boy who's a year younger than me. He's super sweet and we've been going out for almost 3 weeks. I feel bad though because my friends (girls and guys) are making fun of him and being really mean to him. His friends are being mean to me too. I like him but maybe it'd be better if i dumped him. I don't see him very often either. I still like him but i dont know whether or not to dump him. sorry so long!!

signed, troubled (link)
if you like him keep him. dont dump him because your friends are being assholes. if you like him, help him show them why you like him so much. dont let them push you around. dont let them walk all over you.


What Are Sex Bracelets? lol
-->Thanks I RATE :-) (link)
they are the colored bands everyone wears that sickass people make it so that if you snap a certain color it means different things. i think black is like asking if they can hug you and red is having sex or something i dont know. just ignore them.


what do i do if the child that i am watching gets hit by a car? and dies what do i do?

-child killer- (link)
call the police and tell the truth. dont bend it at all!


ok my friend is having a Hallow's Eve(halloween for those of you non-believers) and i wanna dress up as something dark(black and evil) or like a punk or goth or sumthin, but my mom wont let me be a goth 4 sum reason(no offense to goths, i luv u) so any ideas wut i should be besides the old fashioned witch crap(im already one anyways) (link)
im guessing we have a wiccan on our hands, aye? well be something a bit dark yet a bit nice, like a dark faerie or a black cat! : ) hope i helped!


Hello. I am Kaylee. I really like a guy in my class and i'm very very very shy. And i'm really afraid of being rejected. Please help me. (link)
first of all try and become his friend. then maybe get to know him to see if hes worth it. then maybe see how it goes from there!


Ok first of all Im changing this guys name to No One Special or N1S. Ok see its a long story but I met this guy over the summer. He is really really hott. People always ask me how I know him. Hes just so incredibly hott and everyone thinks so. Its a curse for him and I know what he needs is someone who likes him for him. I do like him. Hes really nice and he can be sweet. He always makes me feel better and I think I might possibly love him. I think he likes me too. I am two years younger than him though. I am also freakishly tall for my age, about 5'10" to be exact. Hes about 6 foot I think. hes told me I look his age which is 15.He also is in a band. He kept sorta staring at me and looking away when i looked back and kinda blushing. (that also could be cause hes the singer) He also really cares about my opinions and stuff and he got really close to hugging me one time. (i got scared and he apologized) Then again he hugs alot of people. he hugged my stepsister the last time he saw her before she went to New York and he hugged my friend. But he was just kidding around. He even hugged his teachers! He also gets really deep when we tak on the phone and he told me that he liked the fact I dont need to be dating someone to feel complete. He does stuff like this all the time. He is a really good friend and I want to be friends with him forever. I just dont want him to think Im only his friend cos hes hott. He has really good taste in music too. I always get in trouble in school cos Im constantly thinking about him. I dont want to be rejected also. My friend is also "in love" with him but she is in love with both of her ex's as well. I feel a great attraction to him. Like I said, I dont want to be rejected plus I dont want to ruin our friendship. So if you can tell me what to do, with him and how to deal with my friend, please do! Thanks! (link)
why isnt anyone helping me? please help me!!!


ok, sry if this is real long:
last summer, at the pool i belonged to, there was this guy that i liked. he liked me too i thought bc we would always like give each other stares and stuff but we never actually met. we dont go to the same schools so i didnt see him but once the whole schools year and that was at the freaking vet. so now, ive seen him at the pool again this summer, but i dont think he likes me any more bc he never like looks at me or anything like he used too. i just relized how much i do like him and im really mad that he doesnt like me back (bc im pretty sure he doesnt) does he just not want to show hes """affection""" or does he just not like me and i cant stop thinking about him...I NEED HELP

**and i rate!** (link)
Just start by asking him to goto the food place at the pool with you or something and say something like, "Hey, did you like me last year or something?" If he says no then be like "Ok" and if he says yes say you liked him too. Then just hang for a while. Well good luck.


when u clear history on ur computer, doz that mean that like no1 can fid the sites u were on, like if i cleared my history, my dad wouldn't see that i was on advicenators or sumthin

i kno it's a dumb Q, but i was JW (link)
Yea I use it alot when Im on sites about guyz I like so my mom doesnt know! haha ps- i dont look at porn


I am learning to play the drums... is there anyway i could play All my life by KC and JOJO on the drums? (link)
Why not try and assemble a band? Then you could do the song with everything! Not just the drums.


I just asked a question and it didnt show up! How come and how do I get to see what I asked again so I can post it again? (link)
It takes a while. Check in the morning it should be there, with some answers!


I know you can never have too much love for a pet, but after you meet my friend you probably won't want to see another cat again... my friend is always talking about who, what, when, where, why, about her CAT! It's driving me crazy! Whenever she stops talking about guys she's always on to talking about her cat. I need so major advice to help me to avoid her talking about her pets!

Signed, Someone who never wants to see a cat again! (link)
I love my cats very much, but I dont talk about them 24-7. Ask her, politly, why she talks about her cat. Tell her, "Do you know how much you talk about that cat?" Then maybe she'll understand, without any hurt feelings.


me n my gf always have nothing to do any ideas where we could go together we r gettin bored of movies, bowlin, n playin pool wut else can we do together? (link)
You could always goto a close mall and goto the arcade or goto an upcoming event like a carnival. Or you could invite her over to play some board games and such.


I like this guy at camp. My friend is his good friend and she likes him too. In a matter of fact so does my step sister...alot of people do. Hes nice though. Not like a jock er anything. I want to ask him out, but knowing myself, I wont. I might invite him to voluunteer with me and my sister at the pet shelter. Hey ill get to be his closer friend. What else could I do to get closer to him? Or how should I ask him out? (link)
Thanks yall. All of your advice helped me, you can still post answers if you like, but I think I know what I want to do. What I need to do.


okay...me n my friend are making these shirts with iron on thingys...but we don't know what to put on them..we can put anything we want because we just need to find a picture on the internet...any ideas of what to put on our shirts?
thanks (link)
Your favorite bands, your initals, phrases, funny pictures, monkies! :P


Hi everyone, I'm a 14/f, and i'm unsure of what to do. For the past year or so I've been really passionate about wanting to become an actress when I grow up. I've loved acting and pretending all my life, and last year i decided i wanted to make it my career. I told all my friends and my parents, and now they're all rooting me on to become and actress. Here's the trouble. Lately, I've been losing passion in it. Not that I wouldn't like to act, but i think I've decided that I don't want to spend years and years hoping for a break in Hollywood. I've decided that I want go into modeling for two reasons 1.) i don't think i'm gorgeous, but i think i'm pretty enough where I could do it and become (hopefully) famous. 2.) Modeling sometimes leads into acting jobs. what do you think? Should I keep up my 'dream' of becoming an actress, or should I embrace the new dream of becoming a model?
thankz! ~unsure (link)
Why not tell everyone you would love to be a acting model? There are alot of models acting lately. Why couldnt you be one? Follow all of your dreams, or as many as possible. Hope I helped you. Oh, and dont worry about it so much, your still only 14!!!


I keep having dreams about my ex-boyfriend.I have never seen my present boyfrend in my dreams.The more I have dreams about my ex the more I wanna get back with him.What should I do? (link)
You should tell your ex that you think you still like him. Did you break up with him or he you? Why? Answer to yourself these questions. Analyes the answers. If you believe something can be fixed go back and fix it. Tell your boyfriend that your sorry but you think you are in love with someone else.




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