Question Posted Monday September 20 2004, 10:05 pm
Ok first of all Im changing this guys name to No One Special or N1S. Ok see its a long story but I met this guy over the summer. He is really really hott. People always ask me how I know him. Hes just so incredibly hott and everyone thinks so. Its a curse for him and I know what he needs is someone who likes him for him. I do like him. Hes really nice and he can be sweet. He always makes me feel better and I think I might possibly love him. I think he likes me too. I am two years younger than him though. I am also freakishly tall for my age, about 5'10" to be exact. Hes about 6 foot I think. hes told me I look his age which is 15.He also is in a band. He kept sorta staring at me and looking away when i looked back and kinda blushing. (that also could be cause hes the singer) He also really cares about my opinions and stuff and he got really close to hugging me one time. (i got scared and he apologized) Then again he hugs alot of people. he hugged my stepsister the last time he saw her before she went to New York and he hugged my friend. But he was just kidding around. He even hugged his teachers! He also gets really deep when we tak on the phone and he told me that he liked the fact I dont need to be dating someone to feel complete. He does stuff like this all the time. He is a really good friend and I want to be friends with him forever. I just dont want him to think Im only his friend cos hes hott. He has really good taste in music too. I always get in trouble in school cos Im constantly thinking about him. I dont want to be rejected also. My friend is also "in love" with him but she is in love with both of her ex's as well. I feel a great attraction to him. Like I said, I dont want to be rejected plus I dont want to ruin our friendship. So if you can tell me what to do, with him and how to deal with my friend, please do! Thanks!
Mercy_x_Me answered Monday September 20 2004, 10:39 pm: no offense, but a simple relationship hardly can trash a friendship. As long as if you ever did 'break up' you didnt curse him out and yell at him and screw things up.. all that means is 'be a little more careful'. Plus this guy sounds soo cool !! Seriously, i dont even know what he looks like, but by the sounds of him, i'd date him in a flash!! So he already sounds like he has a perfect personality. I think you should complimennt him alot on his qualities the way he does yours so he knows how you feel about him. Plus the fact hes really hot is a good plus to the relationship, so what if a girl appreciates a guys hotness, as long as you dnt forever like worship it.. lol. He cant expect every girl that likes him likes him for his looks. And just to add on, it shows in your personality why you like the guy. If you were more flaky and a player he would know it was b/c of his looks. DEFINETLY dont let the chance pass you by. GO OUT !! GL.. dnt be nervous, and dnt be afraid to tell him how you feel eventually. [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
MissEmmyBoo answered Monday September 20 2004, 10:36 pm: well 1st of all u should let him hug u!! :) he sounds like a really sweet guy. 4git ur friedn shes obsessed w/someone else 2 n shell git over it!! lol u should totally go 4 him! [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
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