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Q: i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o
yeah. Go to planed parenthood.

Q: I'm a freshman and i think i'm workin myself too hard. I come home exhausted almost everyday and i take a nap. Then when i wake up, it takes me a few hours to do my homework and i'm really tired. I play a sport year-round and i think i might have to give up 1 or 2 of those sports. What should do? Am i working myself too hard?
Go to bed erlier at night. And deff don't give up any sports. Exercise gives you lots of energy. Im a freshman too and I do cross country and lacrosse and i come home hyper and lots of energy. GoOd LuCk.

Q: I havent had a boyfriend in about a year and a half. My friends and family are always telling me i need to get out there and meet someone. The trouble is i dont really know where it is im supposed to go to meet theses said "guys".
Anyone have any suggestions on where to meet a nice guy?
Thanks :)
If your still in school you chould meet guys there. Or you chould go out with your friends to the movies,cLuBiN, Mall,anywhere. GoOd LuCk!!!

Q: I get the worst cramps when I get my period. It's usually my first or second day when I get these horrible cramps. I take Motrin, drink tea and use a heating pad. Nothing I do seems to really work and my cramps get so terrible I just want to die. Is there something I can do or take that will make them go away?
Some people say exercising helps. Whenever you feel like your getting cramps laydown @ the first sign. If they keep getting worse then go to the doctors they can give you a advile that is stronger and will help alot. GoOd LuCk!

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I don't normally get bags under my eyes, but today my eyes are really, really puffy. Are there any home remedies for this, besides cucumbers on the eyes? Thanks.
I ustually get bags under my eyes when im tired or when my alergies bother me. you could try to get more sleep or take some alergie medicine...but ask your doctor first. HoPe I hElPeD!


Q: OK...i noticed this horrible odor and after awhile i discovered it was coming from my vagina! Ughh its disgusting. I know "they say" it smells down there if you eat certain foods like meat...i had a turkey sandwhich for dinner..could that be it? or could i have some kind of infection? I really dont wanna be in school and have people notice the odor ...wat can i do to conceal it / get rid of it? Any help is good help..thanks
Take a shower and if it dosn't go away then it could be a yeast infection. If so, Go to the doctors or use vagasil.

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Q: i just found out i get my braces in 13 days any tips to help the process?
Yes. Take advile a couple days before you get them on. If you don't you'll be in SOOOO much pain!!!


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Q: ..okay i know this is really long but i really need advice!! well this girl is one of my best friends..she tells me everything..well about a month ago she told me she was going anerexic, because she thinks shes fat! She is really skinny..!! I told her not to because she is really skinny and that is sooo unhealthy..and its stupid! She doesnt believe me whenever i say shes skinny..she just thinks im being nice whenever im really not! Everyday at lunchtime she would get a bottle of water..and if one of the teachers made her eat she would go to the bathroom and throw up! One day i followed her without her knowing. Well I didnt know what to do so I went to the guidence counsler..and told him what was going on..well he called her mom..but didnt say i said anything. i am not sure what her mom said.. so my friend found out it was me because i was the only one who she told. and i didnt know that! so she got mad at me and i appologized and we made up..and today in school she said she was doing it again?!??!?! i have talked to her a million times but its not working! i dont know what to do! i already told the consler the last time she did it..what should i do?! please help!!
It sounds like your doing the right thing. If you are the only one that your friend told then she must feel close to you and trust you. If the counsler knows about her problem then he will do somthing about it. Just keep telling her that she is not fat and going anerexic is soooo unhealthy. GoOd LuCk!!

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Q: Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?
No. Everyone has their first kiss at different times. Your time will come don't worry!

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