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I havent had a boyfriend in about a year and a half. My friends and family are always telling me i need to get out there and meet someone. The trouble is i dont really know where it is im supposed to go to meet theses said "guys".
Anyone have any suggestions on where to meet a nice guy?
Thanks :)
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Hey girl go to the local hang out.If your still in school you could meet guys there. Or you chould go out with your friends to the movies,cLuBiN, Mall,anywhere...go to.. parties..school!
GoOd LuCk!!!
x3KiLeE
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You can meet guys newhere. Try going to the mall or the movies or something and if you see a cute guy smile and say hi.
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if your one of those girls with very high morlas and all that, try church or a library. but clubs and bars are also great places to meet people.
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I think the first thing you should do is stop worrying about it. Do YOU feel like you need a boyfriend? or is your family just pressuring you?
Personally I've found it easier to meet guys when you're not looking specifically for a boyfriend, it takes the pressure off of finding the "perfect" guy. That said, just be friendly wherever you are, grocery store, movies whatever, and maybe you'll connect with someone further along the line.
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Do you mean a guy NOT looking for some free sex? Judging by the age you sound, that's going to be pretty tough.
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I used to be the same way. Except i liked this guy from Ligonier. Hes 16 and just got his lisence.
Well i was in love with him since last February. And then on August 13th (Friday) he suddenly asked me out. And i havent had a boyfriend since Last December. It sucked. Dont try so hard like my mom told me. Some one will come along. Dont make yourself feel down in the dumps. Be your self and let your soul guide you.
Good luck
Christine
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you can meet them everywhere. If your in school then look for one there. You can look at party's, the mall, a movie, when your out clubbin it somewhere. You'll find one. Dont worry about what your parents and friends say, your personal life is all about you and not what other people tell you to do or what they think about it. Good Luck! hope i helped.
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If your still in school you chould meet guys there. Or you chould go out with your friends to the movies,cLuBiN, Mall,anywhere. GoOd LuCk!!!
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Sure; all relationships are completely individual, meaning that if you have a specific expectation of what you're looking for, you're likely to miss out on an even better opportunity.
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What you need to look for is basically someone who puts you at ease, and that's best found in the realms of platonic (friendly) relationships -- you'll create these the same way you get girl-friends. Just go where boys will be and stay casual; there's no rush in finding the right person.
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Keep an eye out for someone who can make you laugh, cheer you up, give you advice and support. Look for someone you can talk to the way you do with your girl-friends. From there, you can work into a flirting mode.
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Then, when friends & family pressure you to find a man, you can give them a sly / secretive smile, and tell them you're "working on it." If they want to know more, tell them about the traits you're out for, and make them play a guessing game: who fits that bill? They might be able to accidentally give you hints! ;)
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go to the mall or go to like a big hang out place u think is kewl... if u think the place is kewl the nthe guy u find is bound to find it kewl to... u will be perfect for him u both like ot hang out at the same places... Vua La
*~*Ashlie*~*
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Church, if you are religious. I find that the best men are in libraries, cyber cafes, bookstores, and hobby shops. See, nerds and geeks never get any lovin', so if you pay attention to them, they will fawn all over you and spoil you and make you their Dungeons and Dragons warrior goddess of love. Nerds may be a bit fugly when they're young, but you can train them up proper, and they always end up growing pretty damn handsome and wealthy down the road. Best thing is, while other husbands are out at the bar getting drunk and looking at other women, your nerd will be at home playing everquest and getting hopped up over animated gifs of elf boobies.
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Gee...a year and a half isn't that much, lol. Enjoy being single while you can. In fact, my brother is 22 and he has never gone on a date. SAD, don't you think? But at least that fact will make you feel better, haha. If you really want to find a guy now though...they're everywhere so take your pick...and go after him! ;) lol. Clubs...that's a nice way to meet someone since you both have the same interests. There are plenty of other places to meet nice guys. They're everywhere (except for girls' ballet or something =P)!
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