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ex b/f
Ok im not sure what to do Im still kinda in love with my ex and he still likes me but THe like 4th day of school we were forced to sit my eachother so he talked to me about that he lost his virginity and hes had sex like ALOT we vowed to eachother we were gonna take eachothers virginity but then we broke up now I dont know what to do help????
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Well how old are you? I don't think you should feel like you still have to have sex. Wait a little while and see what happens. Maybe you'll get back together and take it from there... :-)
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Maybe you could buy him a new virginity. Since it's apparently something you can take and break.
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Well, he is your ex. B/f so it isnt like you had Dibbs on him or anything...but I see where you are comming from...And believe me I can relate. I think that it was very rude and braggish of him to tell you that he has had sex and lost his virginity, since he probably does remember the vow he made to you... Maybe he is feeling insecure about himself, or maybe he is showing off because he wants you back... All I'm saying is that whats done is done, He cant take it back. But maybe you should Make an extra effort to talk to him, or have your friends talk to him, to see if he is still into you. But dont go crazy over it because there are other guys out there that are right for you. Not just him.. I hope my advice helped, if you need anything else, please write in my advice column...
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I don't see how he can like you and then go off and have all this sex. If he liked you he would have kept his promise to you. I think you need to find a new guy. One that doesn't have "ALOT" of sex and doesn't break promises.
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Don't worry about the whole virginity thing, losing your virginity really aint all what it's made out to be. If you really like and and he still likes you, then get together, just because he doesnt have his virginity anymore doesnt make things different, he IS still the same gu, jsut a bit more experiance, and experiance can make things for you a whole lot better anyway, at least he'll know what he's doing. So if you like him that much, go for him, it'll be worth it. Good Luck :-)
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First off, breathe. ;) This is important because you need to focus on remaining calm and taking care of yourself.
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Second, losing your virginity is rarely a very graceful or enjoyable experience, particularly between two virgins: imagine awkward positions, embarrassing body noises, and the fear of getting caught.
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It's great when you can share that with someone you feel safe with, but sharing equal levels of experience only does you any real good when you're both advanced in sexual practices.
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It sounds to me like you really care about this boy, and want to share a lot more than random squelching with him; due to this, I suggest you tell him that you're still interested, despite feeling a bit disappointed and regretful about not sharing the first experience with him.
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Consider that you now have more options than he does; he can't go back and change how his first sexual experience happened, so he may have regrets of his own. You can choose to spend your first time with someone of more experience, and therefore, be less awkward. You can forego concerns about virginity, and simply consider enjoying the experiences you do share.
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Or you might choose to wait until you feel right; I highly doubt that your first time will be perfect, but you should at least seek to feel comfortable, safe, and loved. Once you've got that, every time will be as magickal as the last, virginity will cease to matter, and you can think more about enjoying what you do rather than regretting what you don't do. :)
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