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i have a bf and one of my really good guy frinds i think is crushing on me..i don't like him..but how do i find out if he likes me? (link)
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oki....you have a b/f right....so then why does it matter....i mean if your friend really does like you and then he finds our that you kno he likes u...he will expect u to go out with him, but you still like your BF right, so that will put u in a whole bunch of trouble.not knowing is a lot better, i think...i mean that way you can still hang out with ur guy friend normally...and hint in to him that you like the boyfriend you have, and only him, without making ur friend feel weired and rejected and keeping the friendship bond...and if you really want to know if he likes you then why not ask one of his close friends...and then well...Im afriad to say what will happen with that...i hope i helped....
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XoXknoitallXoX13
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Hey...
(plz dont delete) I was asked to homecoming by this guy that is lyke obsessed with me(literally!) He can be sweet but I really don't feel comfortable around him. I'm a Freshman and so is he. He recently asked me to homecoming and I don't know what to do becuz i was gonna ask this guy who i lyke and lykes me back or just go with friends.....HELP!
THANKS! (link)
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OK here is what you should do...I kno this may sound a little mean on the obsessed guys part..lol but i think you should go for it and ask the guy you like to homecomming especially if you dont feel comfertable with the guy that is obsessed with you...and if the guy you ask says no then, it's one night what will it hurt make the guy happy! but if he says yes, explain in the nicest way possible that you dont have feelings for him, but that you would love for you both to be friends and hang out..(Even if you dont mean it) just so he doesnt get mad...cause you never know it he is that obsessed what he can do so you need to be very carefull and be as nice and considerate as possible...I hope i helped you and if you ever need anymore advice you can Write in my advice Column and I would be more then happy to answer it!
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Every day i go to school and i see all these couples walking around together. I'm really jealous because i want to be one of those guys that other people look at walking with their g/fs. The only problem is that there is nobody at my school that i can see myself goin out with right now. What can i do? (I'm a freshman) (link)
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ok, heres the thing...you have to open up ur mind and dont just look at appearneces when you look at the people who you cant see urself with...look at their attitude the way they act, look at who they are! cause u never know, who they are could defenately be similar to who you are...if that makes any sense...lol what i mean to say is look a lot deeper into some1 then just the way they look or who they are on the popularity chart...and trust me I am a girl and I know that if you are sweat, and kind any girl would like you...you just have to play ur cards right...and for the being jelous of other people thing, dont be...ur time will come like i said...and when it does GO FOR IT!
I hope I helped...
XOXKnoitAllXoX13
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Ok, well this guy and I just started going out. I like him so much and he likes me too obviously. Well we've only been going out for a day. Today at school I acted all weird. I mean I like him a lot but he makes me shy. I didn't talk to him much and tried to avoid him a little. I really want us to work out as a couple. What do you guys think I should do in order to not be shy and talk to him and such. I have had boyfriends so its not like I'm stupid, this guy just makes me shy like no other boyfriend has. Thanks :) (link)
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lol no i meant take ur boyfriend and ur friend and her boyfriend, so ther will be less pressure cause u kno every1 there lol
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Ok i made a big mistake by saying i didn't want to kiss my boyfriend just yet (he wants to) but i've just realised today that i really do! We went shopping after school today and i kept trying to get us into a situation where he could kiss me but he didn't take the hint! How should i let him know subtly that i want to?! (link)
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ok here is a way that I think will help you let your boyfriend know that it is ok for him to kiss you...First you can invite him over your house...or ask him if he wants to go to the movies...something where it is just the two of you alone...then you can flirt A LOT! and say sexy and funny things to make him laugh but let him know that you are serious, then sit very close to him and maybe put your arm aound him or have some kind of physical touching going on...then when the mood is right he'll know it, and if not then you can make the first move, maybe instead of just a little kiss you can make out with him for a couple of minutes, I'm sure that will really get the point across...lol make sure that there are no distractions, like people,your friends, family...anything! I hope my advice helped....I had a simialr problem like you did and it worked for me...so hopefully it will work for you too.
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XoXKnoitAllXoX13
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Ok im not sure what to do Im still kinda in love with my ex and he still likes me but THe like 4th day of school we were forced to sit my eachother so he talked to me about that he lost his virginity and hes had sex like ALOT we vowed to eachother we were gonna take eachothers virginity but then we broke up now I dont know what to do help???? (link)
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Well, he is your ex. B/f so it isnt like you had Dibbs on him or anything...but I see where you are comming from...And believe me I can relate. I think that it was very rude and braggish of him to tell you that he has had sex and lost his virginity, since he probably does remember the vow he made to you... Maybe he is feeling insecure about himself, or maybe he is showing off because he wants you back... All I'm saying is that whats done is done, He cant take it back. But maybe you should Make an extra effort to talk to him, or have your friends talk to him, to see if he is still into you. But dont go crazy over it because there are other guys out there that are right for you. Not just him.. I hope my advice helped, if you need anything else, please write in my advice column...
I hope I helped!
XoXknoitallXoX13
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