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Every day i go to school and i see all these couples walking around together. I'm really jealous because i want to be one of those guys that other people look at walking with their g/fs. The only problem is that there is nobody at my school that i can see myself goin out with right now. What can i do? (I'm a freshman)
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Well, I think that school just started pretty recently for most people. I'll say within a month or two, so really, new relationships, friendly and more, are just forming. Some people might know each other from the school they went to before, and that's great. If any of your friends from your old school are going to your high school, just hang out with them for awhile until you're more comfortable and know more people. Make friends with the people sitting next to, in front of and behind you, and it they're half way decent people they'll see that you're pretty friendly, and I know tons of girls that like friendly guys that aren't that hot (not that you aren't or anything.) rather than snobby hotties. Sorry, that was long. But my point is, you don't need a girlfriend just to look good, but yeah. Sorry, that's probably not much help.
~Laura~
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Ok let's see have you ever heard the saying "don't judge a book by it's cover" I suggest you try to get to know the girls before you judge them. And I am sure that when you find the one you will know and honestly you never know your best friend can be your match. Give it time I am sure you will find her. Let me know how it goes.
**Sarah**
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Well I've had that feeling! You feel like I want a serious relationship but I can't see myself with these people! But just get to know some girls! Thats what happened to me. You never really know if your compatable with someone untill you REALLY know them! So just give it time! And don't give up! Your dream girls out there!
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well, dont try to rush into things the perfect person will come along sooner then you think, and if u rush and just pick someone u dont truley like or love then u wont be together very long! hope m advice works!! thanks, ttyl
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You're only a freshman... anyone who is going out that early really doesn't know what the hell they are doing. There's no reason to be jealous of them.
Wait a little bit, as you take more classes as you go through the years, you'll meet more people; you're guaranteed to meet someone to be your girlfriend.
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Your problem is you're probably ugly. Try carrying something dead so you look good by comparsion. Also, peer pressure is goooood.
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ok, heres the thing...you have to open up ur mind and dont just look at appearneces when you look at the people who you cant see urself with...look at their attitude the way they act, look at who they are! cause u never know, who they are could defenately be similar to who you are...if that makes any sense...lol what i mean to say is look a lot deeper into some1 then just the way they look or who they are on the popularity chart...and trust me I am a girl and I know that if you are sweat, and kind any girl would like you...you just have to play ur cards right...and for the being jelous of other people thing, dont be...ur time will come like i said...and when it does GO FOR IT!
I hope I helped...
XOXKnoitAllXoX13
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Couples like that are made out of pure luck. All of my boyfriends I would have NEVER thougth I would have been with. One of them was this kinda dorky guy who turned out to be really sweet and nice...and my current one is more the jock of the school but he's also really sweet and funny. Look in the most unexpected places anc you'll find one. Hope I helped!
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I so had the same problem! I wanted a bf so bad! so I went out met a tons of ppl! I even chaged my look to a little bit hotter! lol* anywayz just be hott and meet people and flirty! you'll get it! bye*
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I think you should date around for awhile. See what type of girl you like. I did it (dated different types of guys) and I ended up meeting the perfect guy for me
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Don't worry about it! Just wait until you find the right girl. You shouldn't go out with someone just to fit in. Good luck!
xox
casey
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ask a couple of random girls out on one date each, then choose whitch one you enjoyed most see how far you got with each one, did u kiss? more? less? this will show you how instrested she is in you give ur fave a try if ur into her keep her!
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just go out with someone for the sex...its great
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I felt like that in eigth grade and by ninth grade I had my current boyfriend (i'm a junior now), and we're still dating. There are many many many people at your school that feel the same way you do. I have had so many people tell me how lucky I was to have somebody to love and for them to love me back. Really being single is an awesome thing too. That means theres more friend time, you time, you don't need to discuss or ask about anything before you do it...but having someone is a great thing too. You'll find somebody be it this year or your sophmore year. Have fun right now and you'll know when the right person comes along. Don't rush it. Hope I helped! =)
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If you don't really like any girls, wait until you find a girl you DO like. Don't date just because you can, or you want to have someone "there." A girl will come along for you.
I mean, I met my boyfriend in math class, and I was trying NOT to end up with one. Lol.
So basically, the moral of my incoherent babbling is you should wait - someone will come along for you.
I can totally understand the feeling of jealousy. I felt that way, too, for awhile. It's hard. But make sure you're not LOOKING for a crush. Wait 'til you get one. You're a freshman; you're young; you've got four years to find a great girl, and I'm sure you will.
Hope this helped a li'l!
-Siren =)
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hey listen,...if you dont see urself going out with anyone in the school...wait until someone comes along that you like. Dont go out with someone for the hell of it...its not fair to the girl or to you. Your time will come....hell, even mine did and im ugly as hell lol.
good luck... :)
elissa
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