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what can i do?
i have a bf and one of my really good guy frinds i think is crushing on me..i don't like him..but how do i find out if he likes me?
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get one of ur friends to ask him if he likes u/ crushing on u!!! hope my advice works. buh bye
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Why should you even bother finding out if he likes you?
If he starts coming on to you, make it clear that you don't like him.
Until then, don't worry about it.
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well if hes always hanging around you and looking at you then those are some signs if not ask one of his friends to ask him if he like you hope i helped
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oki....you have a b/f right....so then why does it matter....i mean if your friend really does like you and then he finds our that you kno he likes u...he will expect u to go out with him, but you still like your BF right, so that will put u in a whole bunch of trouble.not knowing is a lot better, i think...i mean that way you can still hang out with ur guy friend normally...and hint in to him that you like the boyfriend you have, and only him, without making ur friend feel weired and rejected and keeping the friendship bond...and if you really want to know if he likes you then why not ask one of his close friends...and then well...Im afriad to say what will happen with that...i hope i helped....
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Well, you definately don't want to totally igbore the situation because that could then allow it to escalate and cause problems for you and your boyfriend. On the other hand, you don't want to have your friends or you curiously asking this guy how he feels about you because he could think that you're asking because you are interested in him. Your best bet would be to make a subtle comment about how much you like/care about your boyfriend and how happy you are with him. This will let him know that you are committed and that way you come off as innocent not and he can assume that you don't know his feelings. You could also make a comment like I'm so lucky to have a great bf and a good friend like you. :)
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If you don't like him, then you shouldn't find out. Unless it's about your future, all you have to do is go up to him and ask him if he does like you. Also, you have a boyfriend and you don't want any guys liking you because it can lead to many problems. Hope I helped :)
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have a friend ask him. And tell him/her to tell you. You can either talk to one of your friends or one of his. But the only thing that might go wrong with this solution is that he might get the idea they are finding out for you because you like him.. if he approaches you tell him that you see him a s a friend only. tell him that you like him too much as a friend so you dont want to ruin the friendship you have with him by getting together. Good Luck
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I have to answer this question-With a question.
If you have a boyfriend, why should it matter if your friend likes you or not? I'm assuming it's out of curiosity.
In this case, the best thing to do is ask him. Be straight forward, something like "Bob, I have a feeling, you might wish to think of me as more than a friend, is that so?"
If this is a bit drastic, ask one of your best gal friend to dig up some dirt! Get her to snoop around, talk about you around him, find out what he says.
But, look at it this way, digging up stuff he'd probably rather keep to himself, is an invasion to his privacy. Just make sure y'all respect he has feelings.
Best Wishes,
AskMegan
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Since you have a boy friend, don;t even bother finding out if your friend likes you. Because, if you go and ask him or have someone ask him, he may take it the worng way, and think you like him back. just dont worry about it. but, if he does approach you and tell you he likes you, just simply let him know that he knows you alreayd have a boyfriend, and you're sorry but you are only intrested in him as a friend.
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