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My name is Amy and I'm 14 years old. My life is not that exciting so I will spare you any more information about me. :-) Ask a lot of questions!

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Well............i like this kid in my grade, i mean, i like him alot and well... theres this girl jen(changed name)and she was asked out by the kid i like..... well.... she found out i liked him and was really concerned i was mad at her but i talked to her and she said i ment more to her than a boy and i know she means that.... wel...the bad part?? i told her i didnt care if she went out wit him.... i really dont but then i do.. i really wish it was me goin out wit him but shes my friend and i really wanna stay friends and i dont wanna fight but i RRREEAALLYY like him and now that i do.. she magiclly LLOOVVEESS him 2
signed,
desperate4him

..please right back soon this is reeeaaaalllyy important..

Well, it's good that "Jen" thinks your friendship is more important than a boy. If she really, really LOVESSS him, then let them be since they obviously like each other. If their relationship doesn't work (and doesn't end TOO bad), then you can try for the guy. Just don't do anything to intentionally break them up. Then you could lose your friend and make the guy definitely not like you.

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My brother william always seems disapointed in me. i really dont want him to be dissopinted in me, but i just dont know what to do :( im not really shure if anyone can help me, but i would really like it if someone would just say something about it

Just ask him right out if he's disapointed in you. If he is tell him you want to know why he is. Then you can do what you think will help. :-)

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ok, 4-h is having a camp out of town. my grandma is afraid i'll get homesick. and she doesn't trust everybody. Life is such a drag! She says I can't go unless she is a chaperon. My friends get to go. I told her that they get to go. She says I'm the boss and you're gonna listen to what I say. (i live with her) My friends' dads are chaperones and one's mom is a chaperon. I told her that and she said I'll think about letting you go. I askedmyfriend what were the odds of my grandma(who is 63) of becoming a chaperon. She said 0 out of 10. What do I do? Please don't tell me to wait because i already have waited and asked her about every 5 days. She keeps saying I'll think about it. I know that means no. If you have the odds of her becoming a chaperon or even the chances of me going please tell me even if its stupid. Im desperate! If u nowhat i should do tell me that, too. thanks. :)

Let her meet your friend's parents who are going. Then maybe she'll feel more confident about letting you go, since she knows some chaperones.

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Ok im not sure what to do Im still kinda in love with my ex and he still likes me but THe like 4th day of school we were forced to sit my eachother so he talked to me about that he lost his virginity and hes had sex like ALOT we vowed to eachother we were gonna take eachothers virginity but then we broke up now I dont know what to do help????

Well how old are you? I don't think you should feel like you still have to have sex. Wait a little while and see what happens. Maybe you'll get back together and take it from there... :-)

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Ok, well heres the thing...I still like my boy friend, I think...see I am not sure if I like him...or I just liked making out with him...lol I know it sounds childish but when I am in his arms I feel safe, and it feels like nothing in the world matters anymore...I dont know what to do because we dated for 3 days and then broke up for about a week and then we dated for another 4 days and then broke up and it has almost been a week, both of the times we broke up it was because he was flirting with another girl and had told his best friend that he liked her more then me, and his best friend proved it to me both times...I dono what to do...i want him back, I think...PLease help me I dont know what to do...I feel so good when I am in his arms and when we are kissing but I dont know if i just like the fact of feeling that way, or feeling that way "WITH HIM"....if you know please tell me!!! I need to figure this out because it is driving me crazy!!

I think you just like making out with him. If you only went out for 3 days I don't know how much you can like somebody. I don't think you can know somebody that well in just 3 days...

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