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in love and helpless <3


Question Posted Thursday September 16 2004, 5:50 pm

i am deeply in love with a very close guy friend of mine. we have lost touch. he moved away and theres no way i can see him, we talk on the phone once a month about. hes my best friends brother..shes still here with her family its only him that moved..ill only be able to see him once a year, he gets so many girls, hes my ex boyfriend, he probably has so many where he is now, but when he comes back for his 2 week visits i want somehting to happen with him, he doesnt knwo i feel this way, and eaither does his sister (my best friend) what do i do?!?!

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xOmAnDaH answered Friday September 17 2004, 9:31 am:
I would tell your best friend and him your feelings..dont hide them, whenever he comes back..maybe ask him out to the movies or something..well hope everything works out and hope i helped! rate me =)

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MaGiCLyDeLiSh88 answered Thursday September 16 2004, 10:23 pm:
I would just see how he acts and when you get a chance flirt alot and show him how you feel... but not really on him... just yea... talk small talk... do your thing and if you want sumthin to happen you gotta show suome signs and make it happen! hehe* Just dont be slutty... well not alot... but yea maybe he likes you too and you would never know it! hope i helped at least a lil! bye*

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Lena answered Thursday September 16 2004, 8:28 pm:
tell your best friend first... and then tell him... its best to tell people how you feel so u dont have to bottle them all up.

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wvsweetheart2006 answered Thursday September 16 2004, 6:36 pm:
*Sigh*....awww thats horrible. =( Well, you could tell him how you feel...that's always a good start. Communication is the key. However, if he does not want to start anything, you're going to have to move on and live your life. He's moved away, you don't know what he's doing, and you don't talk to him very much nor do you see him much. I am in a long distance relationship now, as a result of my moving away, and we decided to keep it going. So we talk everyday and make plans to see each other. If you two work things out, i'm sure you guys could do a LD relationship too.

You'd have to work it out to what nights you can talk and split the cost of the phone bill, let him know what you expect and what you don't want, and that would go for him too. But if you really love him, you need to let him know how you are feeling. As for your best friend, she may or may not be okay with the idea...you know her well enough most likely to know how she'd react to things, talk to her about it too, because if she's up for the idea, maybe she could help you =) Hope I helped at all!

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SweetBrowneyes06 answered Thursday September 16 2004, 6:16 pm:
I hope I can Help. Maybe he come you ask him you guys go see movie and hang out somewhere and talk. see what or how he doing and been up to. maybe if you have dance coming up and see he want come... maybe try be honest if he and you will have chance again. if he says no maybe he want stay freinds.. but sometimes we dont know what will happend. I hope advice you asking for if not. someteims guys have lot of girls maybe he want go out many girls not have reaiship or something.. Hope I help
Amanda

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