|
confused.
so theres this person who i met online. and hes the sweetest thing ever. and i know hes not some crazy stalker whos 76 yet he always says he loves me and he wants to go out and everything. im freaked out that like..he says that. i mean i told him i wanted to get to know him and everything. but sometimes like..i forget about him. blah im just wondering what to say to him..
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Internet = RED FLAG.
Avoid this at all costs. If he continues to insist that he wants to go out with you, well, he may not BE a 76 year old crazy stalker but he definitely thinks like one.
He may be nice to you, but that doesn't stand for much. It's easy to be nice over the internet.
You don't need to break off contact with him but please, do NOT meet him. Just keep regular conversations going. If he goes into the "I love you" mumbo-jumbo then just tell him "No."
If he decides to stop talking to you, so be it.
]
forget about him? do u mean what hes about and stuff? just ask him and say well idk im just looking for friends right now and im not really ready for a relationship at the moment.. but ill tell you when i am ready
]
Avoid Internet Relationships. They cause autism.
]
having internet boyfriends is so stupid! I think its for desperate people.. dont go out w/ him but u still talk to him:) How long has he known you? I dont think he really loves you..No offense! But some internet guys just say that..
]
My friends online tell me they love me all the time. I have no problem with it and say it back. If you're friends, then you trust that that person is telling the truth. You just have to trust that your friend is telling the truth. Internet boyfriends must be the new fad. *coughjustsoyouknowihavehadtwoandtheybothworkedoutfinecough*
~Laura~
]
Okay, Don't be fooled by people on the internet who want to get to know you like that hunny. You may think he's not crazy but there is always that "what if..." that he is crazy. If he is saying things like "I Love you" then that is a sign that maybe you should stop talking to him. He dosn't know you and hasn't met you in person, and he's already saying stuff like that? Your number one priority in the situation is to make sure you're safe....and stop talking to him. If you must tell him something, tell him you don't feel that way about him...and just slowly end it. Hope this helps! =)
]
How can you be sure that hes not a stalker? You never know or can tell until you meet him, which could be dangerous. Just tell him that you dont really feel the same.
]
More Questions: |