Question Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 7:48 pm
I like 2 people a LOT!! One of them has a girlfriend, and the other one is my good friend. We're not BEST friends, but we talk a lot. I know that the first one is kind of out of my reach right now.. so I want to go for the second one! How do I get the second one to notice me as more than a friend?
-*I'll rate, thanks!*-
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Godsman answered Sunday September 19 2004, 1:40 am: Well if you talk a lot with this guy then you shouldn't have much of a problem adding into your conversation how you feel about him. Sounds easy right? Maybe not...What you need to do is talk to him like you always do, but start to get things where they are more personal, get alone with him to talk, and tell him how you feel. There is nothing more that a guy likes (especially a guy that might like you too) than a girl that will be up front and honest. So if you like him just tell him. Also I assume that if he doesn't like you back in that kind of way that you still want to be his friend and talk a lot like you do now. If you're honest with him and tell him you don't want to ruin the friendship then he should understand. If he freaks out when he finds out you like him then just tell him the only way you could have been his good friend was to be honest with him...I hope I have helped. Feel free to ask me anything anytime. God Bless. [ Godsman's advice column | Ask Godsman A Question ]
judith16 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:31 pm: The easiest way is to straight up tell him...but if you dont want to TELL him then...
Give him signals...look @ him smile alot @ him and FLIRT!!!! believe me he'll get the point and he'll prolly come to TALK TO YOU!!!
QBillion answered Saturday September 18 2004, 8:46 pm: Tell the one that is your good friend that you have feelings for him. Maybe flirt with him a little more. If things go well, ask him out.
Good Luck - QBillion [ QBillion's advice column | Ask QBillion A Question ]
JesusFreak2006 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 8:24 pm: odds are he has already thought of you in that way cus at one point most guys think abbout there friends that r girls in that way...so just give him subtle hints like ask him would he ever date a good friend of his...or ask him to go somewhere just the 2 of you...and its good that you guys are good friend and might get into a relationship cus most great relationships are formed on a solid friendship...
LilMia811 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 8:19 pm: Don;t beat around the bush. Just tell him exactly it is how you feel. Let him know you like him and you want to try to be something more than firends and see what he has to say. he will never know who you feel until you speak up. good luck! :) [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
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