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after summer 2003...my boyfriend broke up with me that summer...I thought we were for real...well that following year I was starting 7th grade...I started losing faith in everything and everyone...I started skippin school, gettin in fights, hating everyone, getting lower grades than usual...I thought there was no life beyond my ex boyfriend...I never actually prayed...I'd do it everyonce in a while...and then I'd always have second thoughts towards "him" cuz even when i think positive and pray nothing ever happens for better than for worse...how do I start trusting and believing "he" IS there?
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Well I kinda had the same thing happen to me .. My heart felt crushed and i didn't care if i hurt peoples feelings .. I was hurt and i was all i cared about .. I still like the guy .. But i was just prayin that God would mend my heart and he was .. slowly but surely .. It still hurts to see him sometimes but God is working on me ..
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a) there is no god b) get over your boyfriend
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so your bf broke up with you it's not the end of the world you could go to all those extra church things like those wendesday church services and stuff talk to your youth minister they can help you get back into it and feeling good about life agian
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Ok, Read your scriptures first of all. Ok, and with praying, I used to find the same thing, but then I noticed it was the same prayer since I was 3!!! "Dear Hevenly father, please bless mommy and daddy Davie tommy and Jacob, please bless grandma and grandpa ...." you know, just basics. but when you repent it's a big thing too, you can't JUST pray, you have to really want somthing, or really want to change. you have to have faith before you can belive. you can go to your Bishop or Counciler at Church. ask them about it, they'll be happy to help. I'm sure. they'll give you really some great advice.
I hope I helped,
Ally
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Sometimes you cant ask questions and just believe blindly in faith...I've been in your place doubting if he really is there speccially when my dad had to have heart surgeory and the very same week my mom also had to have surgeory its tough....there is no specific way i can tell you to start believing or trusting in Him you havta make that step on your own...but the thing i do when i doubt is look at beauty of the world...there is nothing that could create such awesomeness besides our Lord and also just because God doesnt answer a pray dont mean he aint there...maybe it isnt time for the pray to be answered or something else...but i can tell you one thing God will never waste a hurt, he will use this in you to help someone else whose going through the same thing...i will pray for you...God Bless
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You asked "how can I trust and believe 'he' IS there?" and the answer is in the question itself. The way to trust and believe in "Him" is just that...(Trust and believe in "Him")..you just have to do it! haha...I don't know how to say it any different. So the answer is very simple but the task can be difficult, I know. Here are a few verses that I want you to read from Luke 12:24-28
>>24Consider the ravens: They do not sow or reap, they have no storeroom or barn; yet God feeds them. And how much more valuable you are than birds! 25Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? 26Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest?
27"Consider how the lilies grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you, not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 28If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today, and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, how much more will he clothe you, O you of little faith!
See God knows that we are going to have "untrust" and "disbelief" or else this passage wouldn't be in the Bible. And there are some others also like it. It is human nature to not believe in God because you can not physically see feel or touch Him unless you first believe in Him. Try not to lose that faith. Pray that God will help you to keep your faith and he will help you because, believe me, that is not something he wants u to lose!! If you need anymore help feel free to ask me more. I hope I have helped some! God Bless.
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hes there...everything happens for a reason...gods looking out for u. the more u have faith the more he helps u. just realise that there really is more to life then ur x and that ur whole life doesnt have to be over beacuse of one person. u will find importance in life, u just gotta work haard and belive..have faith in urself and "him"
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keep praying. He does things in his time, not our own. we have to be patient and trust. forget about your ex..i know that might be hard. but it wasn't meant to be. if it was, then you would of known. as i said before...keep praying.
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i am Going through the same thing, because I have always been told he was there, and I just wasn't sure. I prayed, I did about everything I could do and I am still not sure but there are times when something really bad happends and I pray and then somehow it gets better. I think you should just stick it out and just see what happends, and let me know how it goes! rate Please! ~Paige~
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well maybe you have bad karma (what comes around goes around) get over him he obviously doesnt want to be with you!
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I think you should try to talk to somebody that you trust about this, also maybe a preacher or a youth minister could help.
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well every one questions but talk to your paster/preacher about it or your youth group guy because they will always help you out...talk to other friends of yours that belive. friends help alot!!
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what the freakk?!?!?! you were in 6th grade...he wasnt like your soulmate you dork..soo uhh maybe stop before you end up pregnant and a highschool drop out who sells her kids child support for drugmoney! NOW!
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hi, well first let me tell you that i'm very sorry about what happens to you...and let me tell you no metter how hard you try to explain what you feel and how you feel no one will actually understand you, or understand how you feel unless they are in ur position or they've been through this b4...well listen my advice to you is...there are lots of ups and downs in life...we gotta go through them...b/c whatever happens happens for a reason and the thing is dat if you dont do mistakes and if you dont go through shit...then whats life all bout? whats the fun in to it? what will make you stronger? the thing is....just give your self another chance...try to forgive try to understand people more...and dont blame ppl that got nothing to do with it...just dont do the same mistakes...and dont fall fast...dont trust people to much b/c sometimes the one you dont expect it from does you dirty...and trust me i say this from experience :) anyways...hmmm i hope i helped just a lil bit :) xoxo effy...
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