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I just moved from my home in Louisiana and now I am really homesick I am crying like crazy and don't know what to do. People in my school are nice but their not my type. Can you give me tips on how to make friends and make my happier?
Elizabeth girl 13
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moveing is really hard I know I just moved my self, and well I moved from Far away, but I had my friend JJ15 tell me to get on this thing and I know alot of people now and Im not home sick
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What's happening is normal! You will miss your old friends..house..etc! About the only thing to do is just be friendly...if you find out that someone has the same interests as you confront them and start chatting! And if you still can't find friends give it time! It will also probably help if you talk it out with your parents! It helps to get all that stuff out of your head!!! Trust me....hope ive helped you!
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~Well look dont worry about that all u have to do is just hang with some1 that u think is a nice person and u b nice to them, mayb u can talk to eachother and b more like eachother.....~
*HoPe I HeLpEd*
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Try an over-the-counter antidepressant.
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Omgosh I felt like that last year when I had to move BACK to my old home though. I lived in one place all my life and then I moved to a place i've always wanted to be at and I was finally really really happy. Then we had to move back and it really sucked...I left my boyfriend, family, friends, school, home...all kinds of stuff. I cried all the time and i'm still getting over it and this happened my sophmore year and i'm now a junior. I'll tell you how i've been making friends....just sit next to a person you think might be interesting to talk to, and then strike up a conversation with them. Like say something funny or w/e....maybe ask them for an answer to the classwork. Believe me, pretty much nobody is my type where I live either, but for the time being before I can go back home, I need to make the best of it....and that's what you should do too =) You needa be happy...Hope I helped! =)
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ok, moving can be really hard on a persons social life. keep in touch with your friends back home. as for making new ones join a club at school such as debate club or cheerleading. have a sleepover party with all the girls in ur class this way they will have a chance to kno the real you and your bakground. change ur look, giving ur self a make over will maake u feel more beautiful.
hope i helped :)
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Well you still have to keep in touch with your friends back home even if you miss them like crazy and everything. making new friends can always be easy..or hard it depends. you should try finding people who you find like..intrest in or someone who seems like your type of person who you can talk to. at least if you make friends with one person you can always meet their friends too.
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How ironic theres a girl in my class that moved in from Louisiana and shes 13. But yeah anyway, I know what you mean. Try to open up more to them and they might see where you're comin from and who you are... and you'll feel more comfortable and fit in. Keep in contact with your friends back home too. I'm really sorry about your situation. I'm sure things will lighten up though, just give it some time :-)
- LIVEY
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aww. im so sorry! just remember that you always have friends back home, and call them or talk to them as much as possible. and if you just moved, then i'm sure you will adjust. and just make the first move and introduce yourself, like say hi, my names elizabeth. whats yours? and you know, just strike up a regular convo like that. tell them what you're interested, if you have any pets, stuff like that. and talk to your parents about how you feel. im sure they'll understand. good luck!!
Steph
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just be openminded.. and have your friends come up everytime there is a break or something or go up there!! :) tell your parents and write to your friends and call them everynight! talk to them all the time!! :) i hope everything works out!!!!
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