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HoW cAn ThIs Be>?
ok me and my boyfriend broke up and we still say "i love you" but then one day he got really mad at say he never wanted to talk to me again..but then he called me 3 dayz later and was talkin to me (that night he called and said sorry about sayin that!) then the last couple of nights he wouldnt hang up til we said "i love you" like he would just say "bye" til i said it then last night i said bye and he goes "bye shut up you know what to say" ...but then he used to tell me about missin out on some other girl...so whats his deal ..can someone tell me or explain his game to me!!...SORRY SOOO LONG!!
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he is just trying to play you. when you talk to him next time say bye and let that be the end of it. when he says "you know what to say" be like yea i said bye and thats what it means. Then just hang up with him and if he calls you back tell him your not with him anymore and that your not playing his games. Good luck and hope this helps!
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Hate to be the one to break it to you, but he's playing you. Guys have this thing about thinking when a girl says "i love you" to him that he's got her around his little finger, and i think that's all it is. You just need to stop saying it, and hang up on him. If you keep saying it to him and letting him twist his way through your mind, he's always going to think that your at his every command. Just hang up. Good Luck :-)
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His game = being a rat-ass manipulator. If he calls you again, you let him know that you're not playing his games anymore. When you say bye, hang up. That ass doesn't deserve any of your time, and he's lucky to get what you give.
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tell him to shut up about another girl and that you dont have to say i love you to him since you guys are broken up... and if i were you i would just say bye and then hang up.. i wouldnt care what he thinks cuz if u still like him he probably will be crawling back to you..
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gurl u need to get rid of him...he just wants to be loved, and he doesnt care who it is that loves him...dont say it if u dont mean it...get rid of him.
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The way you explained it was a little confusing, but I think I understand what you're saying. If you guys are broken up, why does he still say I love you and stuff like that? That makes it sound as if you guys are dating. Since you guys aren't together anymore, he shouldn't expect you to say I love you when you hang up because that sounds to much like boyfriend and girlfriend. You don't have to say it if you don't want to. Now, about the other girl he says that he's missing out on, (i'm pretty sure thats what you mean), if he's going to say things like that then i'd tell him to be with her if he thinks he's missin out on her. He really shouldn't say things like that to you if he "loves" you and if he did, then he wouldn't unless he's trying to hurt your feelings or make you think someone else is going to have him.
Personally, this friendship (since you guys aren't dating anymore) dosn't sound like it's going to work out at this moment. Maybe you should talk to other people, until he stops acting this way. Hope I helped any =)
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This may be hard, but tell him you DON'T love him. And you WON'T be forced into saying it! This guy sounds like such a totall loser! Kick him to the curb hunny, cause he's going to cause you nothing but pain.
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