Question Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 8:55 am
This year at My new Middle School* I met this really Cute boy .. + He's in like all my Classes and we became really good friends.. well about a couple days ago He asked me out and i said yeah! But Then i found out that he only had one gurlfriend but they went out for awhile but they never did anything so his friend told me he thinks he never kissed! Well I dont JuSs wanna be a couple that talks i wanna kiss and hold hands and that lil Stuff! So should i JuSs make the move or should i tell his friend to get him to do it ?! Oh but he does hug* lol!! Alright.. Please Help Me Out <33
Bethers5143 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 5:37 pm: aww how sweet. when me and my boyfriend got together, i made the first move to kiss him just because i felt like it was right. if you feel like doing something, do it! you can also tell his friends to tell him to do it, but they might say "well, she told me to tell you to make the first move" and then he will be all awquard around you and stuff. so if i was you gurl i would make the first move and see how he takes it. if he kisses back, it shouldnt be hard for him to make the first move next time. i bet you would release a lot of stress and worry offa him. good luck. keep me updated! *Bethers* [ Bethers5143's advice column | Ask Bethers5143 A Question ]
Courtney answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:00 pm: No talk to him not his friend . Ask him how he feels about kissing and he doesn't feel comftorable with it then it's up to you if you want to leave him or stay . You wouldn't want to push him into anything he doesn't want to do because, that wouldn't be fair to him . If he isn't comftorable with it , then wait a while . Don't get the friend involved in this because, you wouldn't want to compromise his friendship with that friend would you ? And another reason is that it's none of his friends buisness what you two do . Well I hope I was some help and peace . [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
UnluckyWishes answered Saturday September 18 2004, 11:59 am: You should make the first move.He'll pry he be so happy you did.He might just be nervous or shy about it or not know you want to, so you should definatly make the move.Hope i helped and you two kiss. [ UnluckyWishes's advice column | Ask UnluckyWishes A Question ]
orphans answered Saturday September 18 2004, 11:18 am: make the move, you dont have to wait, there no rule against that, it appreciated, he probably shy or nervous [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
AskMegan answered Saturday September 18 2004, 11:03 am: You should give him a chance. Maybe he never has kissed, why not you be the first?
If you let him go, because he hasn't kissed, who else is going to give him a chance?
You should definatly give him a chance, who knows? He might be an awesome kisser!
lilblondeii<3 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 10:46 am: Since you two just started going out maybe hes not ready for a little kissing action yet. Don't make the first move until you know hes confterble with it. good luck!
coolblue1014 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 10:24 am: you go giirl!!!
make the first move there is no use for you both to be shy, if you like him that much there is no shame on acting on it! ahow him what your made of. This way you can finally control your relationship, it will go at your pase. you DOnt even need get his friend involved anymor its up to u, go get 'em giirl!
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charmed-cherry21 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 10:14 am: Well I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half weeks and we have just held hands..I have had 3 boyfriends before him and we never held hands or kissed or hugged. I am in middle school too but my point is that if you want to kiss him and you aren't afraid to make the move then make the move, otherwise just wait for him to make the move or tell his friend to tell him to make the move but its entirely up to you. I think that if I were you I would just make the move, because my boyfriends friends are telling him to kiss me but he hasn't yet so I don't know but like I said if you are not scared to make the move then make it, I myself am just going to wait for my boyfriend to make the move on his own time and if he doesn't then oh well I think he will eventually if his friends keep telling him to he might actually do it.
Hope I helped
~*Haleigh Ann*~ [ charmed-cherry21's advice column | Ask charmed-cherry21 A Question ]
mshonest4eva answered Saturday September 18 2004, 10:08 am: make the first move girl! se, my friend wanted to go out with a guy like that, we called him chipmunk, and when he asked the his ex y they never kissed or nething they said he was too straight- meaning that he was kind of shy. To get him out of it, make the first move. Go for it!!
MaxwellsSilverHammer answered Saturday September 18 2004, 10:04 am: He's probably the kind of person who is too shy to initiate a hug, or a kiss, or holding hands, or having a girlfriend at all.
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