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shes crazy
OMG my mom is such a bytch! she wont even let me date and i am a 14 yr old female! she doesnt trust neone except herself(which is CRAZY!!) how can i make her change her mind about boys?
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pissed off
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Are you sure you are mature enough to date someone? If you believe you are, then you're going to have to prove that to your mother. Help out around the house, when you go out to hang otu with your friends, tell your mom exactly where you are going and the times you will be gone. Share everything that happens with her, and show her that you trust her. Usuallu, when you trust someone, they return that trust.
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go up to her and say "you must REALLY want me to turn lesbian or something" because you wont even let me hang out with guys. And honestly, with a crazy mother like this, your best to just go behind her back . . . tell her how you think shes completely out of her mind, but explain rationally so you dont get penalized. Good luck hun
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Dear Pissed off,
What you're going to have to do, is gain your mothers trust. Tell her that its unfair she shoos away every good catch for you.
Tell her you don't apprietate her downing your good decisions, and that you'll make good choices when it comes to guys.
She probably just wishes to protect you from messing up with guys, or getting into hard situations that maybe she couldn't handle when she was your age.
Remember, be respectful. I'm sure she isn't 'doing this' because she hates you, or to be a bitch. She is probably trying to protect you.
Communication is key, talk to her. Let her know that you'll never be able to grow, without learning from mistakes, and one of these days you're going to make some, weither she can help it or not.
Talk to her.
Best Wishes,
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