Question Posted Friday September 17 2004, 11:09 pm
Ron just asked me to go to the movies with him and his friend, Alex. Im bringin my friend Cayla too, so its like a double date. But Cayla doesnt like Alex and I think she's a little jealous of me and Ron. SOo0 should I say anythin to her or just wait n see if she likes Alex ?
Additional info, added Friday September 17 2004, 11:24 pm: Cayla doesn't even want to go. She's being so gay. I'd go for her if I didnt like my date and she knows that is a fact. But I dont want to get into a fite over this :-/. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? liddylflirtx3 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 4:36 pm: Tell Ron that Cayla doesn't want to go and that he shouldn't bring Alex so he doesn't feel like the 3rd wheel. Don't fight with Cayla over this. She obviously doesn't feel comfortable double-dating when Alex is her date. Don't make her go if she doesn't want to or pressure her.
coolblue1014 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 1:43 pm: you dont have to make it seem like a date to her, just a group of friend going out for fun but you can still have fun and "date" ron while ur friend is hanging out with alex.its a win win situation cut if u dont like that idea leve a message in my in box
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HollyAnn2282 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 3:54 am: be like ok cayla since ya dont wanna go can i just invite someone else. easy as cake. if shes got a problem then she can get over it.. Just go have your fun with ron.
-holly-
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judith16 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 2:18 am: Tell her:
A. hey gurl listen, I know you really dont like alex and all if you dont wanna go then please tell me now cuz I dont wanna hurt his feelings...he's really a great guy...
***THEN!!!*** say...and next time we can find someone different...just try him out...
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Friday September 17 2004, 11:35 pm: Tell her that you wouldn't do that to her even if she didn't like your date (like you said) and just be like "Can you please do this one favor for me? You know I would do this for you even if I didn't like my date. I mean you never know you might have fun after all! It doesn't even have to be a date, just go with him as friends." Just say something like that to try to convince her. I mean tell her you don't want to fight over this and stuff but you would like it if she went with you. If she still doesn't go, maybe there is another one of your friends you could ask. I hope this helps and if you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
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