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i broke up with him...
i broke up with my boyfriend yesterday, i posted a long story yesterday about the situation and a lot of people told me i would be better off without him and so did a lot of my friends..
but i love this guy a lot, i even lost my virginity to him and i miss him like crazy and i think i made a huge mistake i never should have broken up with him, even though he asked my cousin to have sex with him while we were going out.. i can like get over that because i know he wouldnt really do it, and i love this guy more than anything and he is always there for me... how can i get him back? i just like broke his heart and mine.. what should i do? should i try and move on? or i dont know :/
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If you really think that you care about this boy and think you want to be with him, then you don't need to think about what other people think. Its about you being happy not what everyone thinks about him. Its your business and if you feel you can forgive him for asking your cousin to have sex with him then thats also YOUR business.
Talk to him and tell him that you think you made a mistake and you want to try again. Maybe he misses you too and everything will work out.
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I read and answered your story yesterday. It's normal to feel this way. The answer below mine explains it really well.
And him asking your cousin to have sex with him. is NOT cool. You say you could get over it, but what if he did actually cheat on you with her? You wouldn't be able to get over it.
Youll probably feel a little down for a while. But thats where your loyal and loving friends come in. :] Friends are so much better than boyfriends. They stick with you. And if they were also telling you that you were better off, then you really are. Cause they most likely know you better than most people do.
Personally, if I actually knew the guy, I could give a more thourough answer, but I don't. The whole cousin thing is really bothering me. If you loved someone whie you were in a relationship with them, you wouldn't even consider asking someonelse to have sex with you! That's just hiddeous. I think you made the right decision, this guy sounds, well, flaky to me.
I'm basically just restating my last answer with more detail. Give another guy a chance. It doesn't nesesscarily have to be Guy B. I believe anyone would be better than your Now-Ex.
Get to feelin' better Darling. Boys are stupid and love sucks. <3
-LoveSucks♥
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When people break up, it seems like the end of the world, even if they really did want to get out of the relationship. See, when people go into relationships, you being to become best friends with the partner, and it's like they always have your back. And when people break up, it's almost as if that friend isn't there anymore. You miss them because they were always there before, and now suddenly they're not.
Now, honestly, I didn't read the story that you posted yesterday, and I'll probably go read it after finishing this, but if all your friends said leave him, then girl, THEY love you more than he does. Friends are always there over relationships. And just imagine how it would be if one of your friends was in your situation, you'd be telling them to break up with the guy, too.
This is getting long, so what I'll end up saying is, people always miss the other person at first. But people always get over it. Everyone has been through this. So you are definately not alone. My best bet would be saying to hang out with your friends as much as possible. Get your mind off of him. Find some new eye candy if you have to, but don't think about him. It'll be so much easier that way.
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