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my ex


Question Posted Saturday October 30 2004, 12:09 pm

okay well my ex boyfriend danny and me went out for 2 months..well we were going out he started to hang out with his ex all the time and ye i did get jealous..n then one night he was telling me how he only told me he loved me becuase he was confused about her..so the next day which would be 2 months he dumped me for her..he asked her bak out and she said nobecuase she cant see them together..now danny is asking me back out..and i said yes i will give him another chance..he says he wants to be with me forever and he aid evryday he sees me he is falling in love with me even more and he said when i turn 18 he wants me to move with him..he says he will do anything for me and he is always here for me..i want to go back out with him because i do still love him but i dont want him to hurt me again..n i told him that n he promised me that he wont and he thinks we can last.
do you think i should giv him another chance???

i realli love him alot...he means evrything to me.... i mean wat if i dont n it would have worked out...n then later in lyfe i am wondering wat could have happened


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texangirl01 answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 12:54 pm:
well there is always that chance that he could hurt you again, but if you really do love him like you say ya do then think everything through real hard and think about what could happen if it works and what wold happen if he hurts you again.....me personally i would give him another chance and just let him know that if he hurts me again then there wont be anymore second chance and that he will never have you back again! so take a chance but just let him know what will happen if he messes up!!!! hope i helped sweetie!!! xoxo

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cesasadvice1409 answered Sunday October 31 2004, 10:38 am:
OK...
What I would personally do is give him another chance, maybe it took his old girlfriend to say no to him to make him realize that he loves you so much more than his ex. You know what I mean? So you should give him a second chance, just to see what happened. Glad I could help!

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live2rock answered Sunday October 31 2004, 8:13 am:
It seems to me that you've already made your mind up and you're just seeking reassurance from other people. Take a risk and if it doesn't work out then at least you can say you tried. You'll have to learn to trust him again and although it means you'll be putting your heart on the line, there's no way a relationship can survive without trust. I hope i was of some help. Good luck.

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laogurl2004 answered Saturday October 30 2004, 7:54 pm:
aww...well i totally think u should give him another chance...but if u dont feel comfortable then..juss take some time off bein in a relationship..then juss get to kno him a lil better...but its wat ur feelins r feelin...hope i helped!
*-*laogurl2004*-*

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A.Good.Lie answered Saturday October 30 2004, 5:24 pm:
Hm, you might want to try getting back together with him. Only because I agree with you, and everyone deserves a second chance. But if he does do this to you again, then forget him. You deserve better. But, try it our again first, if you truely do love him and know that he'll respect you.

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wildchild6134 answered Saturday October 30 2004, 5:05 pm:
well he's a loser for dumping you then trying to go out w/ his ex then going out with you but i think you should go with ur heart..if u really like him and trust him you should go out with him :)

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PerkyPeacock answered Saturday October 30 2004, 3:18 pm:
i think you've already answered your question.

it's obvious you really want to get back together with him, so you might as well go ahead and do it. but hon, keep your defenses up for a while at least. talk to him about what he said. tell him that it really hurt you to have him say that he loved you because another girl didn't love him. and keep that in mind before you make the decision... is he just doing the same thing again?

you should give him a chance to explain himself... and if you don't like his answers, then feel free to not get back together with him. if you think they're good enough... then try again...

best of luck

p.s. famous words from a friend, "a broken heart is against my law, he broke my heart, so i broke his jaw"

on that note, follow your heart, but take your head with you

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Hunnibunni23 answered Saturday October 30 2004, 1:29 pm:
Hey! well I think you should give him another chance beacause it seems like he loves you alot..and you love him so I think that you should give him another chance..but IF this ever does happen again..you dont deserved to be played like that over and over again so ya my advice is to give him another chance! i hope i helped drop one in my inbox and tell me how everything is going!! I love you!
Love- xoxo-Andie-xoxo

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babiigurl076 answered Saturday October 30 2004, 12:26 pm:
You have a good point there, but then again..think on the other side. What if you DO go back with him& get hurt even worse. I honestly don't think you should get back together with him after what he did. If he told you he only loved you b/c he wasn't sure about his ex, then there's a chance that the same thing will happen again! It's really up to you, if you feel you can honestly trust him..then go for it! Just be careful& watch out! Goodluck hun!

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