[Naym]Monica
[Niks]Moni,Mon,Mony, Monika, Monkey, Baby
[Birthday]September 11 almost 15 i'm one of the youngest sophmores
[Grade]Sophmore
[Background]Azn, Filipina
[Future] Temple University-pre law for 4 years rest at i dunno mayb Penn state
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WeLL its summer...u expect pants n sweaters??? n u mean "tlkin lyk dis is gonna change how ppl look at yoo??" i dont think so. its jus typin (link)
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Not that conervative! like not to showy cuz u know how sum people where low cut shirts and short shorts that like show their freakin ass just like cover up a little not that conservative i guess u read it wrong or didnt get wut i was tryin to say...and i mean in person to person like you can type like that and they wont think thats slutty i meant like in real life not on the comp cuz sum people talk ghetto that might sound wrong and also like person to person dont talk like u sound like a slut cuz i hear sum people that say like they gave bj alot to guys by accident like that makes people think that so dont give things like that...sorry if u dont understand wut i'm talkin bout this is the best advice i can give u. u dont have to follow it...its just my advice...
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ok i got this friend(we'll call her Bitch) who took my friends(lets call her Amanda) guy(lets call him Samual) n lied to her saying that she ALWAys liked him but the Bitch told Amanda that she would never like him n stuff like that...then as soon as she found out that Samual liked her, she was like OMG I love him.SOUND DESPIRATE TO U??? i think so...NEways then tells Amanda that she liked him for a year-and that if ur gonna b mad at me for Sam o well...like there friend ship didnt mean shyt..and they were like good friends...so now to my qeustion how do u think the bitch should die this year??????? :-D Now isnt that messed up????? (link)
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I agree wit you that it is messed up. But don't kill her just for that. I guess just forget her if she is actin like that. That is so not right and not worth the time gettin her back there is other people that you can be friends with thats aight that you lose one i guess. But if you really wanna not lose friendship i guess all sit down and talk bout it...this is the best advice i can give sorry if its not good enough....
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people call me and look at me as a slut now. How do i get people to change there minds? (link)
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If they look at you and they think you are a slut then i think u should wear more conservative clothes like not too much skin and stuff...Dont dress like a slut i guess then they wont preseve like assume you are...also dont talk like one dont talk all ghetto and stuff...talk like you learned sumtin in school lol speak with complete sentences and also no slang words in it...well this is wut i think but u dont have to take my advice if ya dont wanna...if you think isnt a good answer please write back and i will surely read it over and give u a best advice that i can give...luv yalls
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Im so confused right now....Like ull prolly guess me though......I like this girl....she has a bf...Everyone keeps telling me to fight for her...so i am.......But now my own brother says not to. N i trust him more then anyone else..Who do i listen to (link)
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Well i already talked to you personally but just really trust your heart! Its like who would you trust a person you knew all ur life or a person you knew for a year or more? i know its hard but just block them out and if you find it deep down in ur heart you will keep goin. But if you dont feel it will happen or that u too wont last dont waste ur time! there is so many fish in the sea!Just follow your heart it will lead you to the right direction. if this wasnt good enough write another question and i will read it wit even more deep thought and give you the best advice i can give. Luv yalls.
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Hey it's the same weight person again. When I wrote to you I don't think I went in depth enough. I never eat junk food. I always eat healthy. But I'm eating less and less... (link)
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oo. dont do that to urself because you may end up wit a bleeding ulcer and also ur body is not being nourished enough. once you eat lesser and lesser till u barely eat then you might end up wit the symptoms of anorexia like it might happen to you. Also you do not want to have a bleeding ulcer or think you do because you will end up in the hospital. You would have hairloss, moody all the time, you would feel like your cheating yourself and also it might make you hurt yourself physically. If you really wanna keep your weight low just eat 3 times a day because it will give you energy to workout even more...i before didnt eat while i ran for an hour and also excercised i almost fainted because my body didnt have anything to burn. Also like i sayed before excercise or join sumtin that will keep you moving so you can burn those cals and love yourself! Just please please do not do anything that will hurt your body like not eating! If this wasnt enough good advice please write bac and i will surely think even in more depth. luv yalls
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I constantly feel fat and I'm starting to let it control my life. If I gain weight I'll freak, but I want to be healthy. (link)
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Hey same here i felt that way...i knew i needed to lose weight but i didnt know wut to do at first. I joined colorguard and it helped me lose alot of weight. I think you should join a sport that will make you move around and stuff but of course sumtin u love or at least you like to do. But also i never really had time to eat like i always skip breakfast and lunch i studied because practice sumtimes i ate and dinner i eat but when i had practice i sumtimes skipt to take a shower but please do not do wut i did it was so so unhealthy it made me weak and also i couldnt think well and usually i'm smart but it made me sort of dumber i guess cuz my brain couldnt process but if u eat three times a day and excercise you will lose weight. Just watch what you eat. Try and stop eatin junk food! big no no...hehe but i know its hard but just try...also its summer and i dont have guard but i need to shape up so i run on the treadmill for an hour and lift and excercise for another. But the thing is i ate only once for 3 days straight and please do not i mean do not do this cuz i thought i had a bleedin ulcer i was scared cuz my parents werent home and i seriously thought i was goin to die if i didnt get help or sumtin...i do not want sumtin like this happen to anyof you...thankfully it wasnt a bleedin ulcer!!! You should keep a workout plan and keep to it. i'm lazy but i kept doin it everyday basically but right now cuz everything is hectic cant really but i know u have to have will power seriously be determined...not only you will lose weight you will also feel good bout yourself. It i dunno but it makes me feel good inside i hope my advice helps if its not good enough for your standards please tell me and i will surely take deeper thougt and write to you bac...luv yalls...
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There's this girl that I like, but she's really obsessed with this other kid. My one friend said to ditch the effort, and the others said go for it. I really don't think I stand a chance becuz she's so blind-sighted by her obsession. What do you think I should do? (link)
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hey umm this is a toughy umm yea i'll put my self in spot since i dunno wut else to do since i am obsessed bout a person...but i doubt anyone likes me...yea well knowing by myself obsession is hard to lose i mean hard i am a very obsessive person like i never let go...i bet that person will be hard to let go of the person obsessed about but i dunno its dependin wut the person thinks of you she might like you bac or may not obsession is not a easy thing to give up...there is a positive or negative outcome...trying is good but if she says no dont get pissed at her she cant control her feelings that easy and you may not control urs also but dont act like a jerk and be all stuck up just accept it...if she says she would get into a relationship good for you...but remember RESPECT A GIRLS DECISION ALL THE TIME! sorry cuz guys usually go out of control...also if u dont want to admit it watch how she acts round u...mayb that will help...but wut i leanrned from a good friend thats always there to listen thnx u know who u are...is that feelings is a powerful thing its how u feel and no one else can control it...well if you feel like its not good enough advice tell me and i will take more of a deep thought on it...luv yalls...
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Hey mony, i like this guy and i dunno if he likes me back! You know, typical situation.....How can i drop subtle hints and get him to know that i like him without straight out tellin him that i like him....catch my drift? lol
-clueless (link)
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hey clueless hehe i know who it is lol sorry hehe well my best advice that i can give is keep talkin to him try and get as much time wit him as u can...discuss things u both like its like oh wut a coincidence lol...oo yea eye contact is important!!! hangout wit people and let him be one of them and like it wont be like scary cuz u have other people to bring up topics...hehe well i hope i help u!!! if it didnt tell me and i'll put more deep thought into it!!! kk [secret lovers lol ur funny...but i love lol] well luv yalls..
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When your in ur brothers shadow....like u always seem to do wat he does.....But u want ppl to know wat ur like not him...cause u know ur differnet....Wat do u do? (link)
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My best bet is dont act like your bro u dont want to be his shadow never be someones shadow be urself! There must be sumtin different that you do that he cant. Show him off you are your own person. Everyone will look at you not as like thats so and sos bro they will think hey thats [name]. Everyone is unique and talented you'll find sumtin and flaunt it!!! Thats the best advice that i can give for ur question thnx for askin...if its not good enough write that it wasnt and i'll think more well luv yalls!!
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