There's this girl that I like, but she's really obsessed with this other kid. My one friend said to ditch the effort, and the others said go for it. I really don't think I stand a chance becuz she's so blind-sighted by her obsession. What do you think I should do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xoMahalkitaxo answered Thursday July 22 2004, 9:49 pm: hey umm this is a toughy umm yea i'll put my self in spot since i dunno wut else to do since i am obsessed bout a person...but i doubt anyone likes me...yea well knowing by myself obsession is hard to lose i mean hard i am a very obsessive person like i never let go...i bet that person will be hard to let go of the person obsessed about but i dunno its dependin wut the person thinks of you she might like you bac or may not obsession is not a easy thing to give up...there is a positive or negative outcome...trying is good but if she says no dont get pissed at her she cant control her feelings that easy and you may not control urs also but dont act like a jerk and be all stuck up just accept it...if she says she would get into a relationship good for you...but remember RESPECT A GIRLS DECISION ALL THE TIME! sorry cuz guys usually go out of control...also if u dont want to admit it watch how she acts round u...mayb that will help...but wut i leanrned from a good friend thats always there to listen thnx u know who u are...is that feelings is a powerful thing its how u feel and no one else can control it...well if you feel like its not good enough advice tell me and i will take more of a deep thought on it...luv yalls... [ xoMahalkitaxo's advice column | Ask xoMahalkitaxo A Question ]
runawaygirl answered Thursday July 22 2004, 12:37 pm: I think that you should try to talk to this girl and get to know her better. Talk about things that she's interested in, or that you share an interest in. Compliment her and give her subtle hints that you like her without telling her outright. The key is patience, it won't happen right away. Maybe you'll bevome her new obsession! - runawaygirl [ runawaygirl's advice column | Ask runawaygirl A Question ]
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