My best friend and i are practically sisters and now my mom mite have to move into another state because of her job in the next 2 years. I kinda want to move because where we live- everything is boring and nothing ever happens it seems like- and our house is teenie tiny and i wish we had a new one- and we can afford one- but i really don't want to leave her. We grew up together and we are like all each other ever had!! My parents are asking me about my opinion on this and i don't know what to tell them. I know i'll have friends there but i will never find one like her. I could probly visit her a lot too. Just i dunno how i will be if we do move- i am scared.
TheNextRingo answered Monday August 9 2004, 11:04 pm: It will be hard to leave a friend, especially someone soo close. But of course you'll try to see her as much as possible, I'm sure you'll stay in touch too! But it's always good to try a new enviroment. Like to meet new people. I hope I helped. [ TheNextRingo's advice column | Ask TheNextRingo A Question ]
SweetStarx89 answered Monday August 9 2004, 10:13 pm: Hey. I just recently moved so i understand how you feel. just from now on keep the close friendship you have with ur friend and let it stay that way until you finally have to move. i mean if you want to move and explore a new places it's a great way for life but leaving a friend is definitly hard. so tell your parents how you feel and your friend and like you said if you really want to move you guys can always visit eachother and of corse no one can replace your friend since you grew up together. and as long as you guys keep in touch and have a friendship as close as the one you got...distance is no bid deal for you! Take Care..I hoped I helped! x3 SweetStar [ SweetStarx89's advice column | Ask SweetStarx89 A Question ]
Untouched1 answered Monday August 9 2004, 9:47 pm: u need to tell teh rents how you feel cause if you dont they wont understand you when your crying maybe or something over the fact that you miss your bbf and everything you need to talk to them trust me
-Cass- [ Untouched1's advice column | Ask Untouched1 A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Monday August 9 2004, 9:39 pm: Think of it this way. Would you rather look back on your years thinking of the awsome place where you lived or the times you shared with your best friend in the world. Whichever you would rather see in the future and remember and enjoy is probably the way you should go. I think that if i had a really good friend... it wouldnt matter where I'd live ... id justhave fun even in the tiniest town. And its not like when you grow up you cant be a city girl or whoever or whatever you want to be. But during your younger years the best way to go is spend it with those who make them so much fun. So the ultimate decision is yours... but I hope ive kinda rubbed off what I think is best. Best of luck... and did you ever think about moving to a slightly bigger house in a nearby town or in the same town? That might work.
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