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Excuses
hey when my friend is on her period and she keeps telling me to do stuff forher and her excuses is always " I am on my perios and i dont feel good" and i cant help but do it for her cause i am just that good of a friend. Should i tell her to do it her damn self or keep on being a good friend?
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Well I think sumtimes.. u should help her not cuz shes on her period just cuz ur her friend.. But if shes asking u 2 do like EVERYTHING for her.. tell her 2 get it herself or that u dont feel well either.. She'll go do it herself if its really that important!! <3<3<3
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hey! Its not fair that you have to do everything for her when shes on her period. Maybe she really is in pain, but all girls get their period sometime and you need to tell her to understand that she needs to start acting responsible. Once in a while you should help her and be a friend because thats what friends are for. Just make sure that she knows that you cant do everything for her. Your life doesnt revolve around her. good luck and i hope you guys work this out..!
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tell her to do that shit her damn self
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u shouldnt have to do everything for her...does she do it for you? i just say do it ur own damn self!
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Why should you have to do anything for her just because she's on her period? NO, tell her to do it her damn self. People have jobs and do errands while on their period and they do just fine. If she's really in that much pain, tell her to go to bed.
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Take it from a person who has it she is just using u cause she is lazy tell her to get up and do it herself and its good to get around when u have it its not like a disease when u cant do anything so basically she is lazey
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doing everything for her is making her lazy, if you sdo it to much so your really not being a good friend there, and you would be a better friend if you were honest about how you feel and tell her that, ya you can do sum stuff like, coming over to tal kwith her so she isnt bored AND feeling bad, but dont be her bitch by getting her water, doing the dishes, calling her b/f, making her food. things like that that are in her house, she can do herself, but be understanding there are times she may really need you to do it like i could be in a store, a couple of times i fell over, neways i was bent over and couldnt move for like 5 mins. but thats only once in a great while some people have bad cramp problems and others dont. so help her out, but dont be her bitch. good luck.
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thats a stupid excuse she can do things for herself its nice u r trying to be a good friend but she needs to do stuff for herself and if she still wants u to do stuff 4 her than just leave and dont talk to her for that time of the month.
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She needs to do it herself. Being on her period doesnt stop her from from anything. Yeah she may b in a lil pain but that doesnt mean u have to do everything for her. And u need to stand up to her and tell her. She isnt ur boss dont let her push u around.
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tell her to do it her self cuz u get ur period too be like im not ur bitch...bitch jp tell her u arent her slave.
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jus b like...look i kno ur on ur pd n all.. but we all get it n u cant expect me 2 b ur servent for a week out every damn month..i mean cmon its not fair 2 me, think about it i dont do it 2 u. n idk she might get mad but she'll get over it!! but if u dont stand up 2 her shes gunna do tht forever!!
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Just because someone is on there period doesnt mean theyre crippled or nething like that. Yes she may have cramps or a bad headache but she doesnt need to be asking you to do everything for her..she can do it herself..periods are a pain and yes u do get moody but u can do things urself. Tell her next time laugh it off and say "haha..i think u can do that yourself" or if you be str8 with her say.."do it urself im tired of doing things for you"..
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Has she just started it for the first time ever? Or has she had periods before? If that was her first time, it could be understandable. It was her first time and she didn't know any better. If that wasn't her first time, you shouldn't be gentle with her at all. Either way, you gotta make her do things herself. All girls and women have their period. A lot of us have cramps and feel horrible, but that does not stop us from going to school, living, working, and any other activities. Heck, atheletes don't postpone the olympics just because they're on their period. Mention this to your friend. She's going to have many more periods in her future. She might as well get used to doing things for herself.
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Tell her to get off her lazy ass and do it herself. People have jobs and still manage to go every day. Tell her to suck it up or start pampering you like a princess when you're in her shoes.
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alright now ive heard it, dont let her get away with that!! girls are supposed to do that to guys, they always cringe when you mention period so theyll do anything(thats always fun) but your just her friend, you shouldnt have to do anything, it doesnt kill you to do things yourself while you have cramps!
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I think you deffinitly need to inform your friend that she just can't make excuses for making you her "easy-way-out" of things...But you need to know how..and you need to know when. Try joking to her about while she's not on her period...something about how annoying it is when she does what she does. Then slowly drift into a serious conversation about it...just not TOO serious. Tell her it gets really annoying, but don't make her feel like she needs to APPRECiATE it, because then she might think you're not a good friend. Just tell her she needs to cut down on the excuses..if she needs something, maybe she should just ask you nicely...and maybe you need to start understanding just a LiTTLE bit more..trust me..she wud deff appreciate it (coming fr0m someone who kn0ws how she feels)...iM me and maybe i could help you a little more. =]
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You wouldn't be a bad friend if you told her to get off her lazy ass and do it herself. Go ahead and do that.
Your best friends are the ones that can be completely honest with you and tell you when your being a fuckhead.
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I know you want to be a good friend but jeez how much are you gonna take??? It's ok to do stuff for her sometimes but all the time is a little overboard. I would only do stuff for her all the time if she did them in return if you were on your period and didn't feel good! Hope that helps and please rate me!
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you should ask her to do it herself. Even though you dont do every little thing for your friend doesnt make you a bad friend. And having your period is no excuse for not being able to do sometihng. Hope we helped rate us please !
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