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this will most likely be my only guy question i ever ask...but here we go. No guy had ever liked me until 8th grade (Last school year..), and then for some reason, 2 guys did, at the same time. they both rode my bus and they were both awesome. I liked them both, but i think i liked one more than the other. I wound up going out with the one that i liked less, because he asked me, and i liked him, so i said yes...why wouldn't i? I know i really did like him, because that whole time we went out, i felt guilty, because i still liked that other guy, but i wasn't sure anymore if i liked my boyfriend. One day, i heard that he had kissed another girl, so i told the other guy that i liked, who is his friend, to ask him about it. that weekend, i got an e-mail from my boyfriend. he said it was just a friendly kiss, and if other people were going to consider that cheating, "maybe we shouldn't go out anymore." at that moment, i realized i did like him, and i cried. but in my reply to his letter, i told him i wasn't angry. 2 days later, he was going out with another girl.
(we went out from nov. till about the end of feb.)
i told you that, to tell you this.
even though i refuse to admit it, i think i still like him, because he's so funny and everything. i have dreams we're still together, and it just bugs me. and the thing is...i STILL like that guy i liked while i was going out with him. i'm really confused, and i don't know what to do.
if you can make any sense out of this, please tell me what i can do!
sorry so long!
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Wow, I had to read that twice lol. Well now, I think your single. If you like both of them tell the one you like more, even if they have a girlfriend they can't stop your feelings so go ahead and tell them. If you want a boyfriend tell the one that doesn't have a girlfriend lol. If you need more help just ask! <3
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Well I say move on. Maybe hook up with the other dude because your Ex seems like he has no respect for you. Just a friendly kiss? Are you gunna believe that? He'll never commit to you, so I say move on hun. Good-luck :) -Britty-
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go for the one that you really realy like the best and follow you heart.. hope ive helped!! good luck sweet heart
-xxoBrianna
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This *is* complicated. It's upsetting that you still like your ex and that he seems to have moved on, yet i think this is proof that every cloud has a silver lining, because there's still the other goy you liked before. Maybe you should take some time to cool down and get used to the fact that you and the guy are no longer dating, and when you feel ready, you should see what's going on with Guy #2, since you still have a crush on him. I'm not the best at Love Life questions, but i think you just need some time alone, and then time with the other guy. I'm wishing you the best of luck!
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