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help me figure this out
hey my bestest friend tiffani likes this guy who is almost 19 years old and shes only 14 like me... i keep telling her that she has no chance bc she is a minor... and to add another problem this guy mike is tiffani`s brothers friend...but he doesnt know they talk and if he found out he would kill her and me for not telling him ...and she really likes him and im trying to hook her up with this guy robert that i know who is only 15 (dont u think she has more of a chance with a 15 yea old than 19?)i do but neways she knows both of them and she likes them both but mike just got kicked out of his house and tiffani cant get a hold of him and she is going crazy bc of it! what should i do to chill her out? nothing is working! please i need help! and she isnt the kind of person that can easily forget people...i need yall`s help! -katie-
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Well I think she should try to find someone younger. Not because I don't think she has a chance, she probably has a great chance because alot of older guys go for younger girls... alot. But you have to be careful and watch out because it's usually for the wrong reasons... Do you see what Im saying? I'm not sure if she would understand so maybe bring it up once... And if you still have problems leave me an update in my inbox... Good luck :) -Britty-
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Well Katie, sounds like u have a huge problem for such a young age! Well been there done that. My friend was 14 and dating a 21 year old. About a month into their relationship he pressured her into having sex with him. Afterwards she felt very guily, but somehow still loved him very much. They continued to see each other and about 4 months into the relationship, he stopped calling. She found out he was in jail for unpaid child support. He had 2 other baby's momma's and she had no idea. All things are better now, but it was a horrible situation! I really wanted to help, but there was nothing I could do. She had to see she was wrong, and make her own mistakes. Your situation is a little diffrent, not much. At least she likes another guy. I think you should sit down with your friend and talk it out. Explain your point of view to her, and be strong, she may break down. Listen to what she has to say, and understand her. She may really like this guy! If all else fails, she may have to make her own mistakes. It won't be your fault, or hers. It just happens! But you have to be there for her. Broken hearts are easier to mend with two people. Goin through them alone is terrile. You guys are both in a terrible situation, but you will make it through if you stick together! The best of luck to you and your friend! Hope it helps! -Sonnie
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ok. 1st of all.. hes 19. imean no offense to her or nethin but if they ever did shit it would be because he wanted to get something. take her out n keep her preoccupied so her mind is just taken off boys n mike. if she is still flippin out afterwards just go n tell her how you feel n make sure u break it to her nicely
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