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Are all girls bad
15/m
ive been trough many relationships, im a nice guy siriously, well every girl ive gone out with well they all ended up being bitches or something like that and they all broke up with me for dumb reasons like we wern't french kissing by our third day of going out and stuff like that, but this year i met this girl i thought she was different she told me she liked me but that she couldnt have a boyfreind till shes 16 so i told her i would wait, a few weeks later she told me she rather be freinds i told her it was alright but the other day i found out she has a boyfreind already, my point is, it there any girls out there who arent like that who are nice, pretty smart, and have a great personality? or why is it so hard to find someone like that?
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lol there are heaps of girls that you want like great personality etc etc
but maybe you have been picking the wrong ones
i get the same trouble with guys
heard to find nice looking smark funny guys anymore
but keep looking because there is one out there
good luuuck <3
btw
not all girls are like that
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14/f
there are a lots a nice, smart, pretty, girls with a nice personality you just need to keep trying to find one. You won't find love the first girl you meet.( Weird Metaphor lol )" if u don't try out different ice creams how will you know which one is your favorite? " you have to keep trying. when you find the right one you will know. Trust me, i know how you feel. good luck!
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14/f
You just haven't found the right girl yet. Not all girls are like that. Just be patient and trust me...you will find the right girl. :) Just be yourself. I hope I helped! :)
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There ARE girls that are all of the above: nice, pretty, smart, and have a great personality. And believe it or not, but if you truely want something it will come true within a matter of time. Try making up a list of all the characteristics of what makes up your perfect girl all the way from her hair length to her eye color to her romantic traits just EVERYTHING that makes up your perfect dream girl, and maybe she will come along if you wait long enough. Dont chase after love or lust, let it come to you.
I listed this dream guy and thought...nah he's too good to be true, it'll never happen, this is stupid. I kept that list for the longest time, and now I have my dream boy with my favorite name Chris.
Overall dont give up. Stay confident and your lady love will one day come
Hope that helps! dont forget to rate me!
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to tell you the truth, girls SUCK. i am one (16/f), so i would know. yes, there are girls out there who are nice, pretty smart, and have a good personality... you just have to weed out the girls that suck. and there are a lot of girls that suck. i see them every day, and i honestly feel sorry for their boyfriends. if a girl ever makes you feel like you're not worthy, or like you don't mean anything to her... she's not worth your time. too many girls are focused on stupid crap like how much makeup they have on and gossip... it's just not worth it. there are a lot of girls out there who want a boyfriend just to say that they have a boyfriend... not to have an actual relationship. and here's something i've learned: the best leaders lead by example. i know that doesn't make sense in this situation exactly, but the best leaders are the ones who are doing the right thing, and they don't have to tell people, "hey, i'm doing the right thing!" they just do it. so, if you use that theory in your situation... you want to find a girl who just does the right thing, or who is the girl for you, without her having to say "hey, i'm doing the right thing! i'm the girl for you!" it should just happen, and she should be the kind of person who is kind to others and stuff, and you can just tell by how she acts that she's worth your time. which, sadly, a lot of girls aren't. but hey, keep being a nice guy... because there aren't many of you out there either.
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It's hard because you are fifteen.
Seriously. These girls, and you yourself as well, have no real concept of what they want from a rommantic relationship, and even less of an idea on how to get it!
Most of them probably never 'lied' to you, they simply had no idea what the real reason they were doing what they were doing was. A lot of adults make the same mistakes.
I humbly suggest to you, that you if you are only fifteen years old have been 'through many realtionships' perhaps you are entering relationships and persuing crushes faaaaar too quickly!
It sounds like you too, might be confused about what you want and in a bit of a rush to get, rather then taking a step back, establishing a solid friendship and a real understand of a person before you explore anything more.
If you are a little more discerning, get to know a girl a bit better and have a bit more self-knowledge I would bet the number of 'bitches' in your life would drastically decrease.
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im 16/f and i know enough girls like that to understand where you're coming from. But believe me, there are some genuinely nice girls out there, you just have to wait for the right one to come along. It might seem like they are all that way, but think about the one you just told us the story about. Maybe she told you she couldnt date until she was 16 because she didnt want to date you, but didnt want to hurt your feelings, and didnt think youd be willing to wait. I know the truth is always better than lying like that, but maybe she was only trying to spare your feelings at the time? I'm sorry that girls suck sometimes. But hey, boys suck sometimes too. Everything happens for a reason, stay positive :]
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Well, all you can really do is be patient, and get to know a girl REALLY well before you actually decide to ask her out or get into a relationship.Not all girls are like that.Some we can't do anything about except ignore them.Sorry there's not alot I can tell you.Hope you find a nice girl.Good luck :]
-Lacey
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I am a 14/f and i know alot about girls and not all of them are b----. you just got to get to know girls a little better before jumping into relationships. And relationships don't happen over night so give it time. Hope I Helped. =] any more questions just go to my advice column and ask
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