Member Since: December 3, 2006
Answers: 14
Last Update: September 11, 2007
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15/m
ive been trough many relationships, im a nice guy siriously, well every girl ive gone out with well they all ended up being bitches or something like that and they all broke up with me for dumb reasons like we wern't french kissing by our third day of going out and stuff like that, but this year i met this girl i thought she was different she told me she liked me but that she couldnt have a boyfreind till shes 16 so i told her i would wait, a few weeks later she told me she rather be freinds i told her it was alright but the other day i found out she has a boyfreind already, my point is, it there any girls out there who arent like that who are nice, pretty smart, and have a great personality? or why is it so hard to find someone like that? (link)
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14/f
You just haven't found the right girl yet. Not all girls are like that. Just be patient and trust me...you will find the right girl. :) Just be yourself. I hope I helped! :)
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hey i really like your advice so i was jus going to ask you some stuff since your my age
im 13 aswell lol:)
i really like this boy but hese 16 i know thers probably no chances of me going out with him i dont really do that stuff if you know what i mean
anyway i just realy like him alot every single time iim hanging out with my friends he stares at me and then when i turn around he doesnt stare anymore.. i know itsprobably weird becuz of the age diffrence but
i dont mind
anyway my sis went to skool and i told her to tell him i said hello and he kept askin her when i was coming to skool and stuff and then he was like oh okay and stuff anyway
can you tell if he likes me??
or maybe im just thinkin that
.. cause im not sure exactly...
idont wanna get my hopes up or anything
helpp :s
thankss=] (link)
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well....i think he might like you. I have friends that are 15, 16, and 17. Age doesn't really matter to teens...i found that out from my friends. i have a 19 year old who likes me.... -.- but yeah. i think he does. i hope i helped :D
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GIRL
13
I think this kid is really hot. He knows who I am.. but like we havent really talked. Only like one time when he stole a cookie from me and i was trying to get it back, i guess we were kind of flirting, and we never really talked after that. But I wanna talk to him but I dont know how to start the conversation, and I think hes kinda the player type, I just want him to notice me, how do I do that? (link)
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Im 13 to...I think you should just go up to him and start a random conversation. just ask him how he is and ask him what he has been up to. get to know him a little bit more. :] hope i helped.
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well, i cant sing. I sound really stupid when i do. probabaly because my voice is stupid. Im 14 and like nearly 6ft and my voice is really quiet and crappy. Any tips because i really want to sing. Like barry manilow, or other great singers. (link)
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13/f
well I think you need to practice more. I am sure you have a great voice and all you need to do is practice. I love to sing myself and I sing in my room all the time and I sing in front of people in chorus. You will get nervous but believe that you can do it because almost anyone can sing if they practice and maybe even take some lessons. good luck
**sammy**
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yeah so i've liked this girl for a WHIIILE since like the beginning of school. well she's finally broken up with her boyfriend. but i've kinda given up on her but now that she's free i kinda wanna go after her again. but theres another girl i kinda like. she i know likes some1 else tho. so what should i do? (link)
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Well personally I think you should go for the girl you liked before. She is obviously sad about not having a bf and that other girl likes someone else I don't know if she will go out with you. I think you have a better chance with the girl who just split with her boy friend.
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On the radio this morning I heard a clip of clay aikens concert where he hits the high notes horribly and it sounds extremely bad. Does anyone know where I can find this clip again? (link)
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First of all I love Clay and second of all he is the greatest singer in the world and what song was it because I have heard every song that he has ever sang and I love his voice.People make mistakes. why doe severyone make fun of clay. he is awesome
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he looks at me alot and smiles at me , he comes behind me and hugs me sometimes for no reason and i love it but then over aim he alwaysz tells me how much he likes her and how he wishes she liked him back, he makes me call her to make her call him, i get so mad and he even noticed once that i liked him this much and he askd me to b friends....we tried it but it didnt work he still flirts with me and tells me i love you its like he wants me to love him what do you think ? (link)
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Yeah thats what the person I have a crush on does too. I think he wants me to like and I think he does too. So thats what I think. I think he likes you too. But I am not quite sure about him liking your friend. Maybe he is just making you jealous and wants you to keep liking him. I am not quite sure but I am 50 percent sure.
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when i have a retainer is it neccesary to take it off to eat? and if it isn't then is it harder to eat with it in.
thanks! (link)
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No your not suppse to eat with it you only are supposed to wear it at night only.
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16/m
I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating. (link)
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Listen I won't say anything religious. I am 13/f. A few weeks ago my uncle killed himslef in the shed behind his house. I am not kidding, and he thought nobody cared about him and he was so depressed. Everyone was crying and really upset. Oh, and don't worry about sex until your married and then worry about it.You have to talk to other people and you have to care about them for them to care about you. Please please don't think about suicide or any of that. Think about positive thoughts okay. That would help you. Do anything but suicide. RUN OFF TO JAMAICA and join those people. Please message me back. Will you? I would like to help you. I care about you!
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Well there is this guy and I am totally starting to crush on him and I was just wondering if there is a for sure way to tell if he likes me back!! He is in two of my classes and i am a freshman in high school. Well anyways it seems like he is flirting with me, for instance he usually takes something from me and then he expects me to chase him around to get it back so i dont know if that is a sign because he does it in a sort of flirtacous. Sometimes when i glance over during class to check the clock or something and i will see him quickly glance away when i make eye contact with him when i see him looking my way. In our english class he was also mad because we have to change seats every six weeks and we use to sit next to eachother so he was mad because we werent by eachother anymore. I just really need to know if we have a chance even though we dont really talk outside of english and biology because we dont really see eachother. I really want him to be the one to ask me out or to just hang out so what should I do for him to know I like him back besides just flirting? I am also kind of shy unless u know me pretty well then i am extremly outgoing!haha! Last year I wasnt outgoing around guys but this year i am more chill around them and myself so I really hope that is a good thing. Well anyways i would really appreciate it if u could help me out because i am at a major loss! (link)
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OH MAN! he definitely likes you girl! If he is doing all that you really have a good chance with him! good luck.
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theres this boy and well i kindve got a huge crush on him. he's nice, caring,and respectful. but my only problem is he likes my best friend. not any kind of like more like obsession. he always talks about her, flirting with her. ect. she says she dont like him that he aint her type but i dont believe her and i know i should because shes been my best friend even before this boy. when im with them she flirts with him, i feel like grabbing her and beatn the shitt out of her but i aint the the type of girl who fights over a boy ...iight i know he's a waste of time but no matter how much i try to stop liking him he always does sumthing to make me like him ..i dont get him anymore he alwaysz tells me he loves me and how cute i am.. his cuzin even askd me if i liked him. he makes me believe he loves me and not her sum daysz and otha daiis he makes me feel ugly and hated. im going to be honest im mad and jelous ...i love him wat should i do ? (link)
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Dear confused,
I know exactly how you feel. I have the exact same problem right now. You sound really nice and he should be stupid not to like you more. Does he ever kind of look at you and when you look at him back then he turns his head away really fast. He might be making you jealous and making you get all jealous and mad. If he is really nice to you and talks to you and looks at you and smiles.He has a huge crush on you! I don't know why but I have come to figure out that thats how they are. If they have huge feelings for someone they love and care about most they will hide it until its the right time. I hope everything will work out for you. good luck. Tell me how things go. I would love to hear about it.
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sorry if it's a little long, but i'm freaking out
ok so the other day me and my bf were supposed to go on a date *it was our 3month*, but he didn't pick me up...instead he called me from where he was and was like "yeah i'm here" so i'm thinking "ok am i supposed to drive MYSELF to my own date? whats next...i pay too? i mean come on" so i was going to *though i wasn't too happy* and my family and friends were mad that he was to lazy to come get me. so my older, very strong brother *who my bf is intimidated by* called him up and basically told him he needs to treat me right and that since i'm his gf he should have the courtesy to pick me up and that if he treats me like garbage, there's gunna be a problem. and i was upset at both him and my brother and since then, my bf hasn't called or tried to get in contact with me. i've texted him but he's been short with me or just doesn't respond and i called him today and he was with his best friend so i said "ok well do you wanna call me back when you get home" and he was like "yeah i guess?" which just about made me cry *i've been all emotional this weekend*. is my bf really that mad at ME even though it was something HE did...or rather DIDN'T do?? does he just need time to cool off? i'm determined to not let something so stupid break us up, but idk if he'll realize how dumb this is and will just end things. i feel stupid for asking this, but i really care about him and don't want to lose him over something so small, and i really need some advice. (link)
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I think that is really stupid that he did that. That is really selfish of him I think you need to try to corner him to tell him what you need to say. Make him talk to you. and if he won't listen then he should really be stupid not to. He has something special with you and doesn't see it. He shouldn't be mad at you he should have thought of what he had done and he should pick you up.
another way to get him is try to find out where he will be and try to corner him or something. Try to sneak up on him and tell him how you feel
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15/f. i have a group of friends that i normally sit with at lunch but sometimes they can be really rude to me. like if one day i sit with someone else, then the next day they will be mad a me because i didn't sit with them. like i have some other friends besides them and they get mad if i don't sit with them.
for example at a school fundraiser last year, i talked with another group besides mine for a little and then my whole group was pissed at me and wouldn't talk to me the rest of the day.
why is this? and what can i do to stop them getting mad at me? (link)
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Well I think thats there problem and not yours. I had that too and I was so pissed off but I think if you don't want them to get mad they should let you go sit with whoever you whom to sit with. That is a bunch of bull. Try talking with them and say "Listen I want to sit with them and if your going to get mad at me then I think your really mot my true friends and if you are I will sit with you most of the time but sometimes I want to sit by my other friends because I have more friends than you guys even though you are my friends. Good luck to you! hope everything works out for you
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My boyfriend dumped me about 3 months ago. It was a great relationship that almost lasted a year. He was the only guy I've ever loved and we had so much together. The problem is, I can't let go. I still wake up depressed, cry sometimes, and talk about him constantly. Him & I barely talk but are on good terms. I don't understand why I can't move on? It's like I have this undying hope he'll come running back to me! Time is not helping and I just want to be happy again. (18/F) (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. I think you should let all your emotions out. Try to do something you like best.(your hobby or something that will take your mind off of him). Have you ever tried talking to him? I think you should try talking to him unless he tries to ignore you. Sometimes guys will be like that.Its a hard thing to go through. Good luck to you and if this doesn't work out I would try to find someone who cares more about you.
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