Question Posted Tuesday November 28 2006, 11:03 pm
Well there is this guy and I am totally starting to crush on him and I was just wondering if there is a for sure way to tell if he likes me back!! He is in two of my classes and i am a freshman in high school. Well anyways it seems like he is flirting with me, for instance he usually takes something from me and then he expects me to chase him around to get it back so i dont know if that is a sign because he does it in a sort of flirtacous. Sometimes when i glance over during class to check the clock or something and i will see him quickly glance away when i make eye contact with him when i see him looking my way. In our english class he was also mad because we have to change seats every six weeks and we use to sit next to eachother so he was mad because we werent by eachother anymore. I just really need to know if we have a chance even though we dont really talk outside of english and biology because we dont really see eachother. I really want him to be the one to ask me out or to just hang out so what should I do for him to know I like him back besides just flirting? I am also kind of shy unless u know me pretty well then i am extremly outgoing!haha! Last year I wasnt outgoing around guys but this year i am more chill around them and myself so I really hope that is a good thing. Well anyways i would really appreciate it if u could help me out because i am at a major loss!
When you catch him looking flash him a big smile.
Tell him if he doesn't give you back your whatever he is taking from you, he is going to have to take you to a movie. See if that doesn't get a positive response. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
MelLeDisko answered Sunday December 3 2006, 9:58 pm: It sounds to me like he likes you. Whenever guys take items from girls, they want the girl giving all her attention to him, and trying to reach over him and grab it or slightly brush against him or something. Also, if he was getting mad you all got moved, that's great ( and adorable )! :]
It sounds to me like you guys have a very good chance together.
Even if you guys don't see eachother after class and everything, doesn't mean you guys can't talk after. Someday while you two are talking during class, you should just ask him for his screename. Be like,"Hey, since we don't get to sit next to eachother anymore which totally sucks, by the way, then do you have a screename or something? Cause then I can just talk to you later. :)" Or something like that.
Other ways to show you're interested instead of flirting are to just make alot of direct eye contact at him and send alot of smiles his way. And just during class show him a tad more attention the you do other people. Don't be like, all over him cause then that'll be obvious, but just talk to him a little more maybe or look at hm a little more ; it'll make him feel special that he's getting more attention then everyone else.
Then as you two keep talking online and get to know eachother even better and you feel more comfortable around him and possibly hanging out with him ; suggest a get together. If you're still too nervous for it to be a one-on-one thing, invite some friends along of a group get together sort of thing, but like I said, still give him the extra attention so he feels wanted and liked and everything, you know?
If you two are talking some day, make conversation about movies or the mall or something or wherever it is you want the two of you to possibly hang out in the future, and whenever he makes a comment about whatever such place, then just chime in,"Hey, you and me ( and some other people? ) should hang out there together sometime. I think it'd be alot of fun. :)" And just see what he says. I'm positive he'll say yes!
sammyk answered Sunday December 3 2006, 8:44 pm: OH MAN! he definitely likes you girl! If he is doing all that you really have a good chance with him! good luck. [ sammyk's advice column | Ask sammyk A Question ]
Sincerly_Lisa answered Sunday December 3 2006, 8:10 pm: Dear Crushed,
AWWW that is soo cute. Lol, what a coincidence, I'm a freshman in high school too. I really think that he likes you if he's doing this stuff, I also really think that you should most definitly flirt back. And if you don't have his screenname already, GET IT! and get to know him more! And if you get brave enough, you should ask him to hang out, like go to the movies or something. Don't sit around and just let him take your pencil from you, go and do something about it. Next time he does that, you should give him a peice of paper with that pencil so he could give you his number ;). Good Luck! Most DEFINITLY let me know how things turn out.
Sincerly,
Lisa xox [ Sincerly_Lisa's advice column | Ask Sincerly_Lisa A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Sunday December 3 2006, 7:56 pm: Aw! He most likely likes you. You should absolutely ask for his Screenname, or email, or cell number. Deffinitly get a group together and hang out. You guys could totally hit it off. Its great that your not shy as much anymore, maybe this is your chance to prove to yourself that you can do it! Good Luck!Hope i helped!
iMxeLmOsxLoVeR answered Wednesday November 29 2006, 7:57 pm: You should just flirt back and see what he does. Kinda hint to him that you like him. If he doesnt get what your trying to tell him, i would just tell him. Which to mean what you have explained it seems that he likes you. I would just go for it. I wish you the best of luck
:) [ iMxeLmOsxLoVeR's advice column | Ask iMxeLmOsxLoVeR A Question ]
kiran answered Wednesday November 29 2006, 2:46 am: Okay heres my advice. Ask your friends to talk to him about who he likes and stuff like that and then he might ask you out! [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
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