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Best Friends
Hey. I thank everyone in advance. I'm an advice columnist on here, but I need advice.
Here's my problem:
I used to be BEST FRIENDS with this girl, Nicole. We used to do everything together - camping, swimming, movies, ext. About 8 months ago - we got in a huge fight, and ended our friendship. It was entirely my fault. About 4 months ago - we started talking again. She said she forgave me, and that we could still be friends. Since then - we've talked about 10 times. The problem is: I really miss her being around. Everyone in my family says they want her and I to be friends again. What should I do? Do I call her, or IM her more? Or should I just forget about it? I have more friends, but I really miss her. Thanks for all advice. I'll rate.
*Sincerely,
Ash*
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well if she really means this much to her call her up and ask her to go somewhere with u, spend time with her and see how it goes. if she seems to be like she was 8 months ago then you try to have her hang out more, if this were me id try to get them to sleep over, and bring up old friend stories, try to get back into the same friendship. i wouldnt let her go that fast because a best friend is for life, fights last a while but they will always be there in the rebound, i should know i have had this happen before, what im sayin is that u should jsut call her up and try to hang out with her, if she misses u 2 or still wants to be your friend it should go well
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Well i think you should call her and talk about how you miss her around..Me and my friend always got in huge fights and she said we would end our friendship but she said she could never be that mad at me...So just talk to her about it..If she dosen't wanna see u that much anymore then she isn't you true friend..
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Ask her to hang out.. Tell how you feel :)
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Hey i have 2 answers to this 1...
1) if you miss her that much call her or go meet her somewhere dont do it on the puter cus then it makes u feel like she wont listen as well..
2) if she dosent accept it then maybe you should move on.. wat i say is if you got more friends then y chase after 1? if you know what i mean!! do what you feel you need to do!
~*alley*~
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if u truly miss her, talk to her on IM, ask her if she wants to hang or go shoppin like u've done in the good ol days (if u've dun that b4)
tell her that u miss hangin wit her
if she blows u off, then she's not worth it
if she hangs wit u, then u'll start to get closer how u used to be, tell her that u miss your old friendship, and u wanna work things out so u can be as close as u were a year ago
Hope all works well wit u n ur friend
GL!!!!!
SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy
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ok i think u should tell Nicole ( which is my name too ) that u do miss her being around and u enjoyed the friendship u 2 use to share and tell her that u would like to go do something like the movies, then she will see how much fun u are and maybe remember y u to were bestfriends and maybe be bestfriends again and hang out more. just slide back into her life and maybe she feels the same way about you too... well let me know how everything ends up Ash,
Nicole..
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Ash- sounds pretty bad. But anyway theres always hope for every problem. Invite her to do more things with you. Invite her to sleep over some time soon, a date where you are completely free, explain to her all your faults that you realize. Tell her whats been going on with you lately and ask her whats been going on with her. Draw closer slowly but surely. Keep on making efforts to be around her, slowly you guys will become close again.
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You should try 2 continue mending the friendship and letting her know u are truly sorry for what u did!! tell her u guys soon hang out soon!! ask her if she wants 2 cum ova ur house, or going out 2 movies.....remind her of the memories u 2 had 2gether as friends!! hope everything works out!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
.*.BeSs.*.
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ok well this happened to 2 of my friends .. they got in a huge fight and nevr talked or nething .. they tried to appologize but the other one would be stuborn or jst not care .. then recently at my friends bday party my friend to her xbf to talk nd they worked it out nd now they r bf again .. u jst really neeed to have a face to face conversation to really get things done
hope i helped
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Hey. If I was you I would call her up or go to her house and talk to her. Just sit her down and be like "I know that fight we had about 8 months ago was my fault and you forgave me, but I really miss hanging out with you, you're my best friend and I want you to be FOREVER and I just miss what we had. Do you think we could work at our friendship being the way it use to be?" Just say something like that and how you feel about it all. And just tell her how you feel about the situation you two are in. You guys just have to work at it and just become the friends you guys use to be! Hope this helps, if you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox! Good luck =D
xoxo Kourtney
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Nothing really can change. I understand you must miss her, but the only thing you can do is to tell her how much you miss her around. Don't IM her more, call her more. Just tell her that you miss her, and everything will follow its own path from there. *dramatic music*
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