spunky! outgoing! i can ahve an attitude thoguh, only if you push buttons! i love to sing and dance! i play guitar! short hair 4'10 82lbs. 14yr old.....umm...... i love being active in sports, and clubs! i love the outdoors! umm i cantthink of n e thing eles.... lol
E-mail: austinTXchika@hotmail.com
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Age: 14
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god im ugly..fureal..im short and skinny and have too short of hair and freckles with big feet and im really flat and really dont have a figure and my grill is prettty f-ed up and i dont know what to do because noone accepts me for who i am.......: (( (link)
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I TOTALLY know how you feel, i thiknk low of my self all of the time, and its a really bad thing to do. so first off for other people to ahve donfidence in you, you ahve to have confidence in yourself. and secondly, Whenever we look into a mirror we always see ourseleves diffrently then when OTHER people look at us. And also just keep in mind that apperrance isnt everything, and that there are solutions for everything you listed in your Question. Shortness= you will grow over the school year, and summer, freckles= they will eventually and gradually dtart to fade as you get older, Big Feet= you will geow into them over the time, and then they wont be to big n e more, flat chested= you will get boobs over the course of your middle school year! I PRMOISE! figure= you will start to get one after getting older, Teeth= braces! i have this problem too, if you know me, then you know what i mean. So basically you need to just give your body time, All of these things about you will change by the end of your 8th grade year,!!! In the mean time just be patient, and if people are shallow enough not to be your friend just because of the way you look, then they were enevr worth it n e the first place! If you have n e more questions feel free to ask!
***SAMANTHA***
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.......im kind of best friend less and i realize that everyone im friends wiht has a best friend or two like.. kingsley carli and andrea, kristen and courtney, hannah and avery, you and lauren, who not and i have never really had a friend like all of them have right now and this is a hard time in life and were moving up to highschool soon and i dont want to start it with out someone to tell my secrets to and get along with and to be there for me. i have had best friends but when we fight they always think the friendship is over like kingsley carli and andrea fight all the time but they dont stop being best friends, hannah and avery seem to get anoyed or irritated by eachother alot and theyres till friends courtney and kristen always get attitudes but they cant stay mad at eachother and you and lauren are just great friends and i dont understand why i cant find someone like that. i mean we all have best guy friends but thats different and i want a best girl friend... this really makes me feel dumb sop im not sighing my name but can u help me? (link)
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WELL basically hun, you will ALWAYZ HAVE A FRIEND IN ME, NO MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE, WHO YOU HANG OUT WIHT, OR WHO YOU ARE!!! so if ytou ever, and i mean EVER need someone to talk to, and oyu feel like there is no one in the world, ill still be here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i CANT get over the guy i like and i try to just hide the fact that i like him but everyone knows and i feel like he thinks im a dumbass for still holding on for as long as i have and when we went out he broke up with me so of course i was hurt by it and still am. so i dont know ive talked to him about it and everything and he says he understands but i dont know i want to get over him but i just cant......any sugustinons (link)
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Surprisingly im kind of speechless..but one thing i can say is that if you ahve that strong of feelings for some 1, and you think it would work out, then i would say GO FOR IT! even if it means you asking him out...lol i know thats weird but hey, if you want something i say GO AND GET IT!
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hey
well i like this guy right... and he says he likes me too ... cut he also likes like 10 other girls and he says he doesnt liek to have girlfriends... what should i do? should i like stop liking him or try to get him to only like me? but that would be like selfish...
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Well in my own opinion, i wouldnt keep trying to get that guy. If this guy that you like says he lies you, then he should like you enough to foget about all the other gurlz, but if he doesnt like you as much as oneof those other gurlz, then he should stop elading you on, so basically you shouldnt keep holding your breath. You shouldnt have to try THAT hard to get one little guy to liek you, it should be easy. But im not telling you to stop likeing him, i mean you can, but you dont have to, if you want to keep waiting around for him, instead of looking at you other options, then hey go for it, its your choice not mine, im just telling you what i would do, and i would look at my other options, cuz who knows maybe there could be a BETTER guy out there! you just never know!..if you ahve n e more questions just ask!
***SAMANTHA***
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it seems like all i can think about is wanting to have sex or something... I kinda hate it and i dont know what to do.....please help me figure out how to just like feel normal and not all like freaking horny... thanks (link)
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First off at this age its normal to have the feeling/urge to want or to have sex, so dont feel like you are "diffrent" or like you are feeling some thing that you arent suppose too, cuz its more common than you probably think. But okay this may be kinda weird/akward, but jacking off is also a none abnormal thing to do at this age. so dont feel like you are doing something you arent suppose to! But the most important thing i can tell you is dont go out and have sex with some random person, that you dont really know, or that you arent together with! Even if it would satisfy you, because it could be the biggest mistake of your life, so just think before your hormones jump out the window! If you have n e more questions just ask!!
***Samantha***
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ok this person is like always getting mad at me and she is like always... then she always gets into these big fights and im like what are you talking about. i really like her to and she really likes me too but i dont know. What should we do? (link)
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well relationships arent easy i can tell you that much. but i can also tell you that no relationship is a good relationship if there is no fighting! Now about the part about her always getting mad at you, maybe you should ask her why, or maybe she is just playing around with you and you dont realize it... OR it could be that she is getting mad at you because you are doing things she doesnt like and or that she thinks its something thats not good for you, and that you shouldnt be doing, like drinking, smoking, partying all the time ect.... You should take all those posibilities into consideration! Also in relationships, talking is the one thing you can do that will help wonders! Just tell her how you feel about her always getting mad at you, and then she will tell you why she always gets mad, then maybe you will realize that you were doing something wrong, or maybe you'll realize that thats a stupid reason for her to be mad, and if so then tell her, "i dont understand why you would get mad at me over that.." you know what im saying?....
well i hope i helped, if you need more advice, you can just ask! :)
***Sammy***
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yea im really not that attractive andont have a good body and thats all i look at in the mirror is my "flaws" and my friends tell me that im really not that bad looking but then why dont i see what they do or are they saying it to make me feel good? and when ppl do compliment me i feel like theyre mocking me and dont really mean it and take it bad and get mad what do i do? im just sick of looking like this and i dont know what to do (link)
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well hun,
I am the EXACT same way! i am VEREY SELF CONCIOUSE. and truthfully its not a good thing for you or me, or anyone eles at that matter! first off, your friends, if they are true friends, they will tell you the truth! and dont worrie what they think, cuz they are suppose to be your friends, and friends shouldnt care if you look bad or not! and 2ndly another thing is CONFIDENCE IS KEY! if you have confidence in yourself, personallity wise, and apperience wise, you will be attractive to anyone, and they will be jelouse of you, because you feel good about yourself, and they probably wished they were like that. so no matter how you think in the mirror, you shoulkdhave confidence, thats what i keep telling myself, and remember, when we look at ourselves in the mirror we see all the bad things about ourselves, but when othe people look at us, they dont look as close i guess you could say. when we look at ourselves in the mirror, we nit pick at our faces and bodies, and see all of the LITTLE things, and NOT the whole picture! just remember that everyone is their own person, and is beautiful in their own way, and as i like to say, "What you see as ugly, maybe beautiful through someone eles eyes!"
if you ahve n e more questions, JUST ASK!
*****Samatha M. :)
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if one of my friends are going after the guy i like do i not be her friend any more and kick her ass or do i forgive her. but she knows how much i like this guy and she dosen't care.
thanx,
me (link)
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well, if she knows that yuo are really into this guy, and she still doesnt back off, then shes not as good as a friend as you thought she was. but that doesnt mean you should kick her ass or n e thing like that, just simply stop talking, or maybe tell her "dude whats up, i thought you were suppose to my friend...." but dont fight, it'll make EVERYTHING worse NO JOKE! fighting really isnt the answer, i know parents and grown-ups say that so we kids and teenagers wont fight, but tis the truth, it may sound stupid, but its sooo true. Im here if you have n e more questions !
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im in love wiht someone who doesnt love me back it really stninks. what should i do becuase no matter how hard i try to get over him i cant. (link)
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well first off lemmie just say that i know how you feel, im going through the same thing rihgt now! lol :) and another thing is love hurts, and its difficult, and unfortionatley it always will be... but there are a couple of things you can do to keep yourself from thinkinga bout him all hours of the day, you can try to find a hobby that keeps you really busy, or if you already ahve a hobby, out it to use, and take up some time wiht it! another thing you can do is concentrate more on school work, thats time consuming, we all know that! HAVE you confronted him about how you feel? maybe he still feels the same, and if not then maybe you should just tell him n e wayz, it always helps to get things out, and if your scared that he will think you are some kind of retard for telling him how you still feel, then screw him, that just means he wasnt ever worth it, and that you can do better, and that now you know how he really is, and it will just give yuo a reason to wanna be mad at him, therefore you wont miss him n e more. remember, im here if you have n e more questions
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well lately i've been pretty depressed and i don't know why because i don't reallly have a reason to...i have one reason but it's not a good one but yeah...and i don't knwo what i should do about it. (link)
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okay, depressions sucks, cuz ive been there. so i can relate to you. and sometimes people dont need reasons to feel depressed, sometimes we just feel it, which can mean 2 things. 1. it could mean you are clinically depressed meaning, you would need to talk to your parents about it, and then they would need to set up a meeting with a sycoligist, or counsler. or 2. it could mean that that one little reason that isnt a very good reason why you think your depressed, could have trigered all of your other sad emotions that were biult up, and just sorta made you burst into this depression mood. so basically i would go to a school counsler or to your parents, but if you dont think its that seriosue, to where your thinking of suicide and things of that sort, then maybe focus ona hobby, to get your mind off of things, working and exercising is a great stress releaver! ut i would say if you are depressed to where have tried to kill yourself, or are thinking about it, you need to go to your parents, or a cousler! i hope ive helped, and if you have n e more questions feel free to ask! :)
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what is the best way to get a girl to like you and what do girls like????? (link)
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well for me, guyz have to be REALLY flirty and NOT SHY, ummmm well a good thing to do, since valentines day is coming up, and the dance, maybe you should get her something that will let her know that you like her, then maybe ask her to the dance, then maybe things will lead to yall goin out lol, you just gotta be you, and try to find little ways to just let her know that you like her, but whatever you do, DONT act diffrent around her, cuz if she likes you, she likes you, not the guy you try to be around her, and DONT act weird around her, thats hte WORST and as far as what gurlz like, what do you mean like gifts? what???
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i like you a lot and i just wanted to say that and get it out.. i am glad that you came back to small becuase u are soo awesome and now i get to look at your beautful face everyday :) (link)
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aww lol i think i knwo who this is......but yea idk about buetiful.... but thanx
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....can u plzzzz help me.. ok.. there is a girl that i like and i wanna go out w her badly.. but she has a bf and they have been going out for a while now.. about 6 months or something.. and i like her soo much i can't get her out of my mind and i need some advice.. plz help.. (link)
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i've already talked to you bout it on aim!
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Hey sammy,
I've been gettin to know you a lil better for like i dunno 2 months or so. and i know u wanna know me better and stuff still, bu tshould i ask u out or not b cuz its been to short?? (link)
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okay,
heres my whole thing, your an awesome guy, and yes, i have gotten to know you better, but, (this may sound stupid to you) im just not in apoint in my life right now where i need a boy friend, thats part of the reason i broke up wiht taylor h. if you wanna know why, well its b/c i have to many other things i need to be worring about, but that doesnt mean that i dont like you! so J*****, if you wanna wait you can, but im not asking you too, i dont care if you go out with some other chick, b/c me n u have never gone out, so i have no reason to get mad... say basically my answer would have to be no (right now).
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How do i ask a girl out?? (link)
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lol is this taylor??
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hey sammy,
ok what if theres this guy that i like and everybody thinks he is cute too. And me and my firends go to a football game and i see him there and so do they. They see me feeling down so they go and talk to him. They come back saying that they asked him if he likes me. And he said yes and that he would go out with me if i liked him i said yes and so they went to go talk to him and they come back saying were going out but i would like to hear it from him. Because theres this girl that rides my bus and there allways flirting with each other even though he sits next to me. What should i do??!! About the girl and if were going out! (link)
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okay, i know how you feel!!!!
okay first off, thats awesome that u have a bf!! okay but to your question. well maybe you should ask your bf bout it, but dont be rude or upset bout it. and if you think he is lying to you, maybe you should confront the girl on your bus, and just let her no to stay off you territory, but agian try as well as possible to do it n e nice way, you could start bragging about him or something you know
? so maybe she will get the hint that yall are goin out, and that she needs to back off lol.
but lemmie ask you something, is your boy friend a flirty guy naturally, if he doesnt even know it?....cuz if he is, maybe you should let him know in a sweet way, that he is flirting with that chick, and you feel upset bout it. just be truthful wiht him, thats the best way to go!!
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hello. i am 13 yrs old and i was wonderin, i know alot of other kids my age and they are having oral sex and i dont kno if i am missing out or not.maybe i can get your advice.... (link)
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ummmm well, well i wouldnt really knwo if you were missing out or not, cuz im not like that.
but i mean personally i dont think 13 year olds should be doing stuff like that, but im not the person to tell you what you can and cannot do, so i guess just go with your instinct on it.
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hey sammy i was just wonderin...... see, i am kind of underdevoloped "down there". ok, i have a small penis, since nobody knows who i am, i can go ahead and say it.and just to let you know im not kidding and im not just some jerk. i want your advice, i mean, wat should i do? its not my fault im like this... and wat if i meet up with a girl and she sees it and shes not impressed? i think i am just screwed...... i mean i dont want to like take any drugs or anything... OK ill let you be the judge. it is 5 inches. is that too small? well i g2g. plz answwer all of my questions. thx lots sammy...... (link)
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ummm okay, 1st off, your no all the way grown up, i mean in time you will get bigger. you just have to be patient. and 2ndly, if any girl dumps you for that reason, they were never worth it in the 1st place!!!! and for your last question, thats not that small, for your age, now if you were like 3in. i might be concerned...you just need to be patient! if you need more advice just ask!
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omg i have to tell u something unbelievable. last night i took my pants off in front of a little 7 year old girl while babysitting. I was just wondering if i should take our relationship to the 2nd base. hahaha u may think this is kind of wierd or a joke but its not. what should i do. (link)
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............wow umm this is seriouse, you know if the little girl tells her mom or dad, they can pree charges?....ummm okay what you need and should do is, you should STOP babysitting for them, and you need to have some common sence on some things, like trying to rape a 7 YEAR OLD............you need to learn how to keep your "inspiration," if you know what i mean, in, dont let it come out in situations like that! if you ahve n e more quesions ill be here! :)
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sammy,
a lot of my friends have problems and they only talk to each other about their problems because they think that i have a perfect life and i wouldn't understand. how can i get them to talk to me and how can i help? (link)
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well umm........ lets see, this is a toughy lol.......lemmie think.....................................................okay maybe first you should try letting your frindz know that you are always there for them, and if they ever need to talk, then you will be there, thats what i do. then maybe explain to them that even though you may not have experieced the problems they are going through, you can still help them through it.
Just be truthful with them, dont beat around the bush you, frindz are suppose to be truthful with eachother, and if that doesnt work come and i ask me agian, and ill help you some more!
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