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Best Friends....
Hey, I love my life, things are going great! and things are gonna turn out JUST like i planned! But my best friend, well things didn't go the way she planned. And now, i don't think she knows WHAT to do with her life. See, her dad got in a serious Semi Truck accident, and he is 100% disable. And then this year year mom died. Her brother isn't helping the problem or helping my best friend. So, all my friend has is her friends, she kinda pushed me out of her life, and lied to me like making her dad call me and say that we cant hang out because she is sick, when she is actually hanging out with her other friends. I dont think her friends are the right friends she should be handing out with...because ever since her mom died, she's been smoking, and then she has been drinking, and racing in neighborhoods in cars with her friends, racing in their cars trying to run away from people with guns. We dont really talk anymore, and she said she'd never drink again but she lied, and still is. If she wont listin to me, how can i help her?
Sincerely,
~miSSc~
PS~ she is drinking under age she's only 16
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depression.....try talkin to her if that doesnt work get someone else to talk to her that she'll listen to that'll give her sum good advice that'll help her stop smoking and drinking.
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It is hard to help people who don't want to be helped. Most likely, she is probably doind all of this for attention, because in reality she is depressed. You can keep trying to help her, but like I said she isn't going to let you help unless she wants it. I know its sad to just see your friend ruin her life, but this kind of stuff happens. i know life sucks, doesn't it?
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this is a tough one, she is covering it up, she is depressed, i would know how that feeling is, i used to be depressed myself, i pushed myself away form a lot of my good friends, but i never did any of the stuff she did, finally one day an old friend came up to me and talked to me about my depression, he could tell i was covering it up. that was the 1st time i had realised what i ahd done, he opened my eyes. call her up and talk to her tell her how she is ruining her life by doing this. if she doesnt want to listen to you then trust me she isnt a good friend, a good friend will listen to you, even if they are mad. a best friend will take what you say to heart, think about it and mabye even try to fix it. if she is truly a friend then she will listen and if she is a best friend she will want to fix it
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