BeastFromTheWeast answered Saturday July 31 2004, 2:00 am: You are completely stupid. Sex shouldnt be a goal in your life.
Wouldnt it be great if you got an STD that you have to live with for the rest of your life? Or maybe you could have a kid. That would be fun.
Sex before you are ready is a big mistake, and you shouldnt do it unless you are in love, and trust the person you are doing it with. Otherwise, you are probably going to end up with something you regret.
Another thing..find a boy before you start making decisions on what you want to do. [ BeastFromTheWeast's advice column | Ask BeastFromTheWeast A Question ]
KaitlinAmber answered Saturday July 31 2004, 1:46 am: Honestly, i think that 15 is a little young to be "de-virgined" but then again if you think that you really love him and you and him are ready to, then go ahead..but be safe :) [ KaitlinAmber's advice column | Ask KaitlinAmber A Question ]
BabiiBubbles answered Friday July 30 2004, 5:01 pm: Well I would wait for that one special guy, I mean you only have your first time once, you want it to be special. Im waiting until im married. Hope I helped
natalie04 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 2:29 pm: I think 15 is a little young buti'm not here to judge. if it's what YOU want to do and YOU think your mentally and phisically ready for it than do what YOU feel is right. Don't let ANYONE pressure you. make sure you use protection. good luck! hope i helped! plz rate me!
QtBlonde1818 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 2:49 pm: alright hun... 14 is a littttle young to be doing that.. but hey.. its your life and if u honestly think that u have found the RIGHT guy..then go for it.. just remember to use protection everytime u do that!!!!
ShudaBeenAbLonde answered Monday July 26 2004, 11:01 pm: well .. if you think that you're ready .. then I guess you can do what you want.. But just know that there can be consequences .. if i were you, I'd wait until you were fully ready for the decisions and the things that could happen to you if you had sex. [ ShudaBeenAbLonde's advice column | Ask ShudaBeenAbLonde A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday July 26 2004, 9:18 pm: You should wait until your absolutely 11111100000% positive!! trust me everybody that tells me that they have had sex they regret it and wish they could take it back-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
Fish answered Monday July 26 2004, 8:52 pm: You do what your friends tell you (on this one at least) and WAIT. Don't put yourself on a calendar for this, you'll regret it in the long run. It won't make you popular, it won't make you cool, it won't make guys like you and most of the one's who will- well, they'll be using you. I know people who sleep around a lot- they aren't respected by ANYONE. So slow down and save it for when you're really really really in love and it counts. Throwing your virginity at some random guy just because you want to get it over with is not a good idea. [ Fish's advice column | Ask Fish A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Monday July 26 2004, 6:22 pm: I would wait, simply because you are, in fact, young. I'm not sure you're legal yet. The youngest legal age to have sex I've heard of is sixteen, I think.
The final decision, though, is up to you. You don't want to lose your virginity to someone, then look back at it and wish you hadn't, do you? Wait until you find a partner you really, really care for.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
LoViny0ux914 answered Monday July 26 2004, 4:46 pm: no1 can tell u wut 2 do...if u think ur ready for ALL the consequences then do wut u want..but if theres even ONE tht u dun think ur ready for, then u shuld wait, but hey its completely up to u [ LoViny0ux914's advice column | Ask LoViny0ux914 A Question ]
Floridagirl1821 answered Monday July 26 2004, 4:23 pm: Sorry, but I have to say this-I'm with your friends. You won't even be 16! You need to find someone that you love and loves you for who you are. Your too young! It could ruin your life and people could call you a slut and so on! How old are you? [ Floridagirl1821's advice column | Ask Floridagirl1821 A Question ]
spoiledx3shortii answered Monday July 26 2004, 4:09 pm: There is no good reason in the world to have sex b4 you are 15.. do you really want to take care of a baby?? I didnt think so.. You should deff. wait until your more mature and at least 17 or 18.. many ppl i know wait untill their married and i think thats a great idea.. i really and truely think you should re-consider this!!
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purpledaisey101 answered Monday July 26 2004, 3:09 pm: If your comftorbal to have sex with the guy/girl, then do it!! theres no problem with it if you use protection, but just dont go off and get pregnant, cause it will change ur life 4ever! and if u dont feel comftorba then dont!!
hope i helped!!
*Alyssa* [ purpledaisey101's advice column | Ask purpledaisey101 A Question ]
xHeartxOfxGoldx answered Monday July 26 2004, 2:47 pm: Don't have sex until your completely ready and in love. Thats not something to rush into and you may end up regretting it 20 years from now. If your going to have sex .. make sure your with the right person and your ready and your not rushing into anything because some of your friends are doing it or because you feel the need to do it before a certain age. Besides.. something like that.. you will remember for the rest of your life.. make it special..:)
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SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL answered Monday July 26 2004, 2:45 pm: Why do you want to have sex before you're 15?? That's a VERY young age to be doing that kind of thing. Plus if you do start that at an early age, think of what could happen to you. You could get pregnat or catch aids or STD's. If i were you i'd listen to my friends. They obviously know what they're talking about. [ SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL's advice column | Ask SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL A Question ]
xOchErrytWistOx answered Monday July 26 2004, 2:36 pm: if you want to have sex, no one can stop you! if you feel emotionally ready for sex and want to have it, do it. there are many things 2 worry about when having sex though. for instance, pregancy and STD's. also, once u start having sex, u must visit the gynocologist and get checked for STDs about once a month. good luck on making your descision. once u have sex, you cant take it back.
xoxo
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EmO_EmMa answered Monday July 26 2004, 2:34 pm: i think u should wait. don't make mistakes like many young teens. u needa wait till your older or even married. depends on what u believe in. usually if ur friends r telling u that u shouldn't do something.... you should trust them.
Hope I helped. [ EmO_EmMa's advice column | Ask EmO_EmMa A Question ]
AskingAshley answered Monday July 26 2004, 2:34 pm: no offense but.. this would not be a good idea.. if yu are sure yu want to tho, make sure yu use protection! and even if yu do, yu still are at risk of getting pregnant, so make sure that u are all ready! but about yur friends, listen to them! they most likely know yu better then yu think they do and they are only trying to protect yu! if they didn`t love yu then they wouldn`t be worried! remember that people are always caring for yu and yu should make sure yur ready to do things before yu actually do them.. [ AskingAshley's advice column | Ask AskingAshley A Question ]
Questions4KT answered Monday July 26 2004, 2:09 pm: Its completley up to you , but i recommend not. It is somehting that you should wait for, because it can be beutiful, but also ugly. IT has to be with the right person!! If you are going to go out with it, make sure u are protected with a condom and (if u r female) birth control pills. Even if you are protected, there is still the chance that u could have a baby, so be ready!! [ Questions4KT's advice column | Ask Questions4KT A Question ]
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Monday July 26 2004, 2:04 pm: In my opinion you should definitely wait!!! 15 is a very very young age to take on all that a sexual relationship involves.There are a lot of emotions and a lot of complications and things that can occur as a result of getting into a sexual relationship with someone.I think your friends are advising you right on this one!!But,if you do decide that you're mature enough and you're with someone you love and care about,and TRUST,and you just feel ready,always always ALWAYS take all the necessary precautions.I can't stress it enough!!!!Make sure that the guy(or you if you're the guy here!hehe)always wears a condom!!!Females should look into getting put on birth control in some form.Check out Planned Parenthood(www.planedparenthood.com for locations and info)for more info on this.They can help you and answer any and all questions you may have,and it's all strictly confidential!!Keep in mind all your options and be sure to think thru everything carefully!!!Best wishes!!! :) [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
heya answered Monday July 26 2004, 1:57 pm: Wait till your married. Just because you want to have sex does not mean you should have sex. Dont have sex just to have sex..wait for that special person that you love and trust with your body and mind. Sex is not just something you toy around with. [ heya's advice column | Ask heya A Question ]
xx1pimp69ettexx answered Monday July 26 2004, 1:47 pm: its uRE decision..but just think about the Risks youR takin!..you should think it thRu..u shudnt let a website decide the biggest decision of youR life..maybe you should listen to youR fRiends..i mean..eveRybody i know RegRets havin sex!
6x9mAnDa answered Monday July 26 2004, 1:44 pm: Okay...You are supposed to wait until YOU are readi to have sex not when ppl want you to. Its a rly big deal so you dont wanna do it w. sumwun hu is just usin you for sex. Wait til you have a boyfriend that you kno and trust nd not just a random person. Dont listen to your friends or any wun else do it when you are readi. RATE ME
Ace answered Monday July 26 2004, 1:42 pm: well its pretty obvius u shouldnt just because ur friends tell u to i mean really do u wanna risk ur life dieing at the age of 36 by aids or would u wanna live as long as u can let ur friends have sex if they wanna but u shouldnt. [ Ace's advice column | Ask Ace A Question ]
**Beanie** answered Monday July 26 2004, 1:42 pm: wlel in my opinion you shoudl wait until marriage to ahve sex.
IF you feel youa re ready thent hat is your desicion. however you need ot talk to your doctor, get birth comtrol pills, ABSOLUTELY use a condom, and make sure you get checked regularly for STD's adn AIDs
Liek i said it is my opinion that you should wait until marriage for sex but if you feel you are ready make sure you take nescessary precautions
angita answered Monday July 26 2004, 1:41 pm: i think u should have sex wen ur ready to have sex.. n wen u find the rite person.. dont do n e thing ur gonna regret! n dont let ur friends pressure u into n e thing u do wat u gotta do! gud luk xoxo angie [ angita's advice column | Ask angita A Question ]
Cameron answered Monday July 26 2004, 1:39 pm: you should wait until your ready to have sex. don't let your friends make the choice for you! wait until you find the right guy and both of you are ready! [ Cameron's advice column | Ask Cameron A Question ]
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