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if i am going to have sex with a girl that it is her first time how do i go about it with out hurting her? should i just go slow?
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K first of all it would hurt as much if you let her be on top because she can decide the speed the depeth .. everything .. soo if you let her go on the top shell decide everything and make sure to let her knoe if it hurts you can stop there nothing wrong with that ! ... make sure you comunicate with her the whole time so you knoe exactly what to do ... and most important make sure she knoes that she can say stop at any time and you will stop! ... hope i helped:)
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well, you should ask her how she wants it, usually it doesnt hurt when i go hard the first time u stick it in, then do it slowly that first hard hit u do should break the berrior of pain and pleasure...
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LUBE LUBE LUBE.
Ask her what she wants. She is the only one that can tell you if it hurts or not. Just be sensitive and dont stab her to death with your ween.
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just go slowwww! it will hurt no matter what, but if you just let her tell you how she feels, and you listen, and communicate it should help her relax. It's VERY nice of you to be thinking of her and trying to help! Good Luck! plz rate me!
~*~Natalie~*~
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Yea,just go slow,pace yourself,and communicate with each other,have her tell you what feels good or what is hurting her! ;)
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whatever she wants
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Just do whatever she asks you to do.
Be GENTLE, first off. I don't think you CAN go about it without hurting her the first time, but it's sweet that you want to try. Tell her to relax if she's tense. I hear it helps with the pain.
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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jus tell her 2 let u kno wen it strts 2 hurt n jus go slower n eventually ull get it! lol
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well just take it slow. be careful.
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There is no such thing as first time sex without some sort of pain for a female. All you need to do is take your time for around 15-30 minutes only because she has to get used to the feeling but she will eventually get numb to the pain and the sex will become more pleasurable. Or like I tell all my friends foreplay is the trick. Give your girl a foot massage, but focus more attention on the middle of the foot, because by rubbing that region of the foot it causes more endorphins to enter the body which mean for her first time it wouldn't hurt that much.
Chris
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First off make her comfortable. The more she wants it and the more comfortable she is the more the muscles down there will relax. I thought how tight a girl was had to do completely with how many times she's had sex, but that is only a fairly small part of it. I recently had sex with a girl and was her 7th, shes probably had sex 20-25 times in the course of about 10 months, which is a fairly large amount, and she was really tight, I found out later it was because she was kind of nervous and more caught up in the moment than actually horny. Then later that month we were messing around on her bed and she was really relaxed and really really really..... wanted to do it, and she was pretty damn loose. Basically what I'm saying is that lubricated condoms, going slow, and fingering before will help a little, but the best thing you can do is make sure she's comfortable, relaxed, and positive that she's doing the right thing.
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just go slow, and if she asks you to stop, then stop. mmmkay? hope i helped.
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sam
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In addition to being gentle, when everything is finished try and do something fun together because things will be very awkward for her and it is important that you make her comfortable. She will never get her virginity back so you should try and make it special and talk about things before hand just to make sure she is ready and not doing this to make you happy.
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maybe you should use some lube nd start out by fingering her .. hope i helped ! x0 ashley
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You have to. It's gunna hurt her if you don't. It's gunna hurt her anyway. But if you don't want to die,then you have to go slow.
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My brilliant answer is to finger her first to warm up the muscles down there so they're not as tense.
Seriously, start out with one finger, work to two...
Then after she's warmed up slowly, inch by inch, go in.
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well if it is her first time it will probably hurt a little no matter what so just qo slow at first then if she is ok with it start doinq it however you want.
hope we helped !!
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