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Im Nikki, 15 student at LHS. I love music and helping people with their problems. Im a good listener. I love the band Taking Back Sunday(read the sn) and Letter Kills. Im a Cheerleader but not the sterio typical one (believe me!) if you have anymore questions about me e-mail me or Instant Message me.

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Okay, I'm gonna obviously make my own decision about this, but I'm curious as to what y'all think. I'm 16/f, if you wanna know.
My boyfriend and I have been...experimenting lately. In the beginning of the relationship, we'd both said that we weren't into oral, but all of a sudden he wants to...y'know, give it a try. I mean, he wants to try it on me. I originally refused because I thought it would kind of obligate me to give it to him, but he said that wasn't the case. (I'm really, honestly not into it, and I always feel like he does more for me than I do for him.)
Also, the thought of kissing him afterwards kind of...bothers me...
Should I let him or not? I mean, it's kind of an...interesting...idea, but nngh - I dunno. What d'you think?

hey, i think you should let him do it, if he wants to then ket him, if you dont want to give him oral then dont, if he cant accept that then hes an ass but you have to understand his perspective. Oral will feel REALLY good, you just have to direct him into how YOU want it and just guide him, its an amazing feeling to get oral sex so i would let him, you'll hav a whole new veiw on oral sex when you get it..believe me..

~Nikki~

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Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me

you can get it when u have your period or when u dont, you can preg. ANY TIME!

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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me



*~I RATE REALLY GOOD~*

thats just really slutty and only if u want to be known as a slut do it but i prefer u not to i think thats the worst way to get noticed..

~nikki~

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Can someone get pregnant from pre-cum?

yea u can get preg. from pre-cum

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i have a hight fever and have been bleeding with pain and i'm not menistrating.

you could have chlamydia and could be hemeraging(bleeding and wont stop).. you could die if the bleeding doesnt stop..

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Does sex always hurt the first time? My friends say it does... but are there any ways for it to not hurt at all?

Yes, sex does hurt the 1st time but you can finger yourself or do something to stretch out your vagina more, but dont be scared of a little pain..

~nikki~

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if i am going to have sex with a girl that it is her first time how do i go about it with out hurting her? should i just go slow?

well, you should ask her how she wants it, usually it doesnt hurt when i go hard the first time u stick it in, then do it slowly that first hard hit u do should break the berrior of pain and pleasure...

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I need help witht this riddle please try n figure it out fo me ok here it goes....... there is a ,man on trial and a man steps up to the stand and asks to speak, the judge says who are u the man says brother n sisters i have none but the father of this man is my fathers son, how is the man related to the criminal. $M$

it is the criminal

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me n this girl did it n i think i might like her n idk what to do because i dont really wanna girlfriend

well u dont have to date her, im sure she would be fine with the fact of u guys just having sex, i have casual sex and its better then dating and having sex!

~Nikki~

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i just want to know if i am normal

do you masterbate?
if not answer these questions to how you think most people who do would please =)
How often?
Since when?
Where?
How?

Thank you this will help so much.

yea i masturbate, and yes i am proud of it :) it doesnt matter how often u do it, its normal VERY normal, i usually masturbate in my room i guess lol and how well, i have a vagina and a vibrator so i use my vibrator in my clitorus in a circulour motion..

~Nikki~

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ok I think I'm fat but no1 else does..are they lying to make me feel better or am I just not fat? I'm 4'8 and I weigh 76 pounds

your not fat! are you stupid? your 78 pounds you like a stick!!! your f***ing crazy if i think your fat.. sorry for the harsh truth..

~Nikki~

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I don't know what to wear for the first day of school. I don't really have a great sence of style and i was wondering if you could help me. My hair is brown and eye brown and i am 5'2. Got any good styles for that???

well it all depends on what kinda music u wear if your fat/skinny so if u want to IM me on nikkirox45 i will be more then happy to help you, i have to say i have areally good eye for style ;)

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Ok...to start off, my b/f moved to Georgia back in July and now all his friends are calling me and wanting me to go places with them. And the thing is, they know that I still love my b/f. Me and my b/f still talk on the phone every night and he found out that his friends have been calling me and he got mad at me! When I can't help that they called me. But he wants me to tell them to leave me alone. But how do I say it nicely without hurting their feelings? They already know that I still love my b/f.Please help me..I don't know what to do.

well he shouldnt get mad he should be happy like his friends like you, so you should tell your b/f that his friends are yuor friends too and u should be able to hang out w/ them..

~Nikki~

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what r some ways to get rid of cramps

put a heating pad on your tummy, take midol, go to the doctor and he will prescribe u this hardcore pain killer that works in 5 mins! it really good.

~nikki~

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what is exactly an ingrown hair and how can you get rid of it, i know this sounds gross but i have one by down there and it hurts really bad because it keeps hitting my jeans and stuff you cant believe the pain it causes! but anyways i just want to know what exactly it is and how you can get rid of it or prevent it from getting infected or to at least take away the pain. p.s. i rate good!

take a needle, get it out of under your skin, then pluck it out with tweezers, it will hurt but it will be all better i promise!

~Nikki~

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i'm on my sister's advice name, but im a guy and i have really hairy arm pits. is it weird to um...shampoo it? does anyone else do this? thnx

hmmm lol you made me laugh very hard, but thats not the point, yea shampoo it but maybe you should trim it so girls dont think your like, monkey man over there :)

~nikki~

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I have acne not too much just a bit so its okay I tried clearasil (didnt help) (stridex)didnt help what can i use to make my skin be clear before school which is in 2 days doesnt have to be right before it but just something to clear them up help please!

Proactive!!! it works so good i promise you, yuo have to go online and find it and buy it,idk if its expensive or not but its not sold in stores.

~nikki~

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Okay well I have a dell lap top that i got for my bday. my mom and her b/f have been fighting really bad for the past months and we might be moving soon. now when we move hes gonna try and take the lap top but they both bought it for me for my bday. so he might take the chip for the internet thinking if he takes the chip then i wont want the whole darn laptop. but my questiong is even if he takes the internet card to my dell laptop is there any possible way of me ever getting the internet back on this lap top or was it just in that card? because i dont have any cords besides the charger.

well hes gay and he needs to get a life, no offense but you should tell your mom to do something about it and ifd she wont then she honestly doesnt care about your social life!

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Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem?

well she still hasent grown up fully and her body is still developing and her period wont be regular for about 2 years or so, she has nothing to worry about.

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My husband is almost 40, I am just 34. We have been married 10 years but have known each other for 18 years. Sex was always good between us. Lately we haven't had any. I keep asking him if there is someone else in his life because a man can't go as long as he does without it. He says no, he just doesn't need it. I do and have considered leaving him because he doesn't meet my needs. When we do have it, it's almost like it's a chore for him. How can I deal with this? Is it possible there is someone else?

maybe you should crush up viagra pills and put them into his coffee ;)

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