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Do I let him?
Okay, I'm gonna obviously make my own decision about this, but I'm curious as to what y'all think. I'm 16/f, if you wanna know.
My boyfriend and I have been...experimenting lately. In the beginning of the relationship, we'd both said that we weren't into oral, but all of a sudden he wants to...y'know, give it a try. I mean, he wants to try it on me. I originally refused because I thought it would kind of obligate me to give it to him, but he said that wasn't the case. (I'm really, honestly not into it, and I always feel like he does more for me than I do for him.)
Also, the thought of kissing him afterwards kind of...bothers me...
Should I let him or not? I mean, it's kind of an...interesting...idea, but nngh - I dunno. What d'you think?
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To answer honestly hell yeah. I know you don't want to but give it a chance. I know it seems weird but it is really pleasing.If you decide to let him give you oral let me know how it was for you. {Ha Ha Ha} Girl, I say call him up and get him in the bed. {HA HA HA}
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weLL yOu dOn`t wanna really have ORAL sex with him sO i dOn`t think yOu shOuld..i mean..mOst the quyszi knO wOuld NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR qive a girl oraL sex..lOl..but yet-they want it themseLvesz..i think iF he really wants tO dO it..and yOu dOn`t think it`sz a qOod idea..then yOu shOuldn`t..i`m nOt intO oraL sex either..it kinda sucks..i meanthe thought of kissing them duz suck i kno but..i mean its YOUR stuff...as lonq as he never did it tO anOther qirl..it`sz all qood..but the thouqht of sOme bOy's HEAD between my leqsz is uHhHhH no! lOl..but dO what ya want and whatever just fLows becuz if yOu let him dO it..yOu kinda do "Owe him One" BuH bYeSZ!
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You need to do what's comfortable for you. If you don't want to kiss him afterwards, tell him so. When trying anything new, it's always good to set boundaries beforehand to avoid any feelings of anger or resentment later on. I say give it a go, if you feel ready.
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hm.. well you should let him do it because some gerls say it feels really good. so yeah thats just my opinion! and if hes comfortable with it shouldnt you be too? hope i helped!
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hey, i think you should let him do it, if he wants to then ket him, if you dont want to give him oral then dont, if he cant accept that then hes an ass but you have to understand his perspective. Oral will feel REALLY good, you just have to direct him into how YOU want it and just guide him, its an amazing feeling to get oral sex so i would let him, you'll hav a whole new veiw on oral sex when you get it..believe me..
~Nikki~
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well like u siad its totally up to you. i thought the same way b4 it happeend to me. i thought it was sooo nasty!! and the kissing thing too! but! we (me and my bf) would talk about it and id be like "its ur mouth, if u wanna do it go head. but dont think ur gonna get any from me" and he still hasnt. and hes cool with that. i mean he wishes i would do that for him but i think its totally gross. but he can do it when ever he wants on me lol its feels so good!
and u can also tell ur bf that after he does that to you to go wash out his mouth. i tell my bf that too. well he does it anyway. but some of my friends say it shouldnt matter bc its u and u kno ur clean. but hey watever u wanna do lol.
i still rather him wash his mouth out personally.
Manda
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oral usualy comes before sex, but anyways i think you should let him. btw even though he said you arent obliged to give it back to him, he is hoping that you will. dont worry he probly wont expect you to kiss him afterwards.
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i say your should not do it with him only when you ARE ready thats what i would do....plus if he likes you to want to do it he'll wiat....
morgan
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Let him.
-xXoBrianna
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well. i think you should just tell him that you don't want to personally.. if your having ne doubts about it then thats that.. u probably shouldnt do it because u'll regret it later. if he doesnt understand then maybe it just wasnt meant to be.. hes gonna have to understand if he cares about you and if he doesn't understand n gets mad or something then hes just gunna have to deal w/ it! just dont let him pressure u into doin somethin u dont want to do n u'll be ok!
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if you want to let him do it but dont want to kiss him afterwards, just tell him you dont want to kiss him afterwards. and if you dont like it, than dont do it again.
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do you have any idea why the whole thing turns you off anyway? it feel pretty good, withor its the guys first or 10th, its not the hardest thing to do lol but its your own heart, if your worried he does more for you then you do for him, thats not the case, if a guy is really into you he shouldnt really care all that much, plus ive heard guys get some good pleasure out of our faces we make while there doing it =p and dont worry about the kissing thing, a guy should definatly understand after something like that, dont feel weird if you dont wanna kiss him, my bf gets up and washes his mouth if he wants to kiss me afterwards lol
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hun it is all up to you and how you feel.. do you care about him? you shouldn't do nething to neone you don't care for or let them do nething to you. you really just need to look in urself and decide what you think is right and what you want because no one can make that decision for you.. it's all you babe and i know in the end u'll make the right decision.. good luck
xoxox- kenzi (please rate and don't be afraid to ask me nething!)
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If you're really not interested, don't do it. But at the end, it kinda sounds like you might be in to it, so why don't you give it a shot. Then if you don't like it, don't do it again.
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i used to feel the exact same way about oral sex as you do.. my guy told me that he wanted to do it to me but i kept telling him no. when i finally gave in awhile later, i ended up having a whole different outlook on it. it really isnt that bad. it isnt bad at all. as long as both of you guys are clean, then theres nothing so wrong about it. give it a try. and it definitely doesnt mean, just because he does it to you, that you have to do it to him.. so yeah, if he wants to try it and not expect anything back, go for it. youll be satisfied. trust me
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yeah let him do that shit... you'll chnage your mind about it afterwards.
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I think that you should just do what you feel seriously. If your curious then I think you should give it a try. You might like it! And if you don't then tell him and just don't do it again.But don't feel pressured into doin anythang you dont wanna. GOOD LUCK! anymore ?'s just ask!!!!!!
xOXo tasha
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