Hey...my name is alyssa im 17 years old...im a student planning to go to BooU and UW madison next year with me bestest friend in the whole wide world....Angela!!
Gender: Female
Location: georgia
Occupation: student
Age: 17
AIM: purpledaisey101
MSN: purpledaisey101@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 22, 2004
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Hey whats up girl? im having trouble with mauh love life i been going out with this guy for a few days and me and him like never talk dont know what to tlak about and i dont know if he lieks me hes says he does but i dont think he does it sux:( (link)
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i think that u should ask him whats bothering him... he might tell u. he might also b seein some one elseeeeeeee....... so idk... just ask him and keep tabs on him...but dont let him know that ur suspicious. lol
i hope i helped!
Alyssa
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Are you a lesbian? (link)
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no im not, y are u...lol
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hey im a 14 year old girl and heres my problem: some times (about three times a month or so) i have to go to the bathroom really bad so i do and when im done i have this burning sensataion and i feel like i need to go again, so when i sit back down on the toilet to try to go again nothing happens. and so it burns down there and i feel like i need to go so i just wait and it goes away in about 20 minutes. i dont know what this is or what i can do ...PLEASE HELP!!! (ps i also havent gotten my period yet...)
~it burns (link)
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Hey hunn!
I think that your problem is that you have a UTI (urinary track infection) if you havent already, TELL YOUR MOM, and dont be embarrised, cuse shes prob. had 1 too. you need to go c a doctor, and get medication.
Hope I helped!!
*Alyssa*
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Hi i'm 14 years old. I'm going to be straight foward about this lol. Sometimes when I go to the bathroom there is a white liquid that appears in my underwear. What is it? And what does it mean? Thanks for your advice. (link)
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hey,
the white liquid is discharge or drainage or like you said maybe if your horny its cum. the discharge means that your about to get your period, and soon if you havnt already gotten it. if you dont already have them i would go out and buy some pantyliners, and or tampons. if you dont think that your ready to use tampons than waite untill your comftorbal.
Hope this helped!
*Alyssa*
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How do I clean my kids' bathroom, when the thought of going in there sickens me? (link)
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hey...if the kids are older make them do it, try your husband, or hire a maid. lol
hope i helped!
*Alyssa*
P.S.
if you do it wear rubber gloves.
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i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do? (link)
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If your comftorbal to have sex with the guy/girl, then do it!! theres no problem with it if you use protection, but just dont go off and get pregnant, cause it will change ur life 4ever! and if u dont feel comftorba then dont!!
hope i helped!!
*Alyssa*
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ok...i still (link)
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ok well if you dont feel like you can measure up to all the other girls hes seen then, if you do get back together, then things may not be the same. i would move on, and maybe even get another guy, and he might realize that you reallt are worth it if he sees u with another guy. then he might come back to you. and if your over him by then just reject him...lol and if ur not then go out again!!
hoped this helped!!
*Alyssa*
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i really like this guy he is 3 years older than me i dont like him but i do..i cant help it. iv liked him for such a long time and ik that im not good enough for him and everything. i hate myself..my best freind and twin sister are boith so skinny and i am not. my friend tells me i am wicked pretty but i dont think so. nothing ever goes right for me. so i started cutting..and i am addicted to it. if anything goes wrong i cut. my friend knows and she tries to help me. i dont eat alot any more either..im trying to lose weight. so every night i feel sick and i always get headachs. i dont want to see a shrink..i alredy have before and she didnt help at all. im hoping this phase will pass but i just dont kno what to do about it..help me. (link)
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Hey...this is what u have to do, go out with your girlfriends and do something really fun, maybe even get ur hair cut or sumthin to make ur self esteem go up. then stop cuttin ur self!! i know its hard, cause my BF has done it b4...this is what u need to do to stop:
put a loose rubberband on ur wrist adn when ever u feel like cuttin snap it against ur wrist, it gives out the same kinda pain, but ur not risking ur life. try that, it may help and it may not, if it does, after a few weeks start easing off of that, and instead of snapping it scream as loud as u can into ur pillow.
I hope this helps!!!
*Alyssa*
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ok well my older brother has been out of town for like 5 or 6 days with his friend...hes back now and even before he left ive been noticing that my parents like him more than me it seems. like i would say a joke and my mom would just roll her eyes but if my brother would say it she would start cracking up laughing. both my parents think im a brat or something and ive tried to tell my mom i would be like "u like ____ more than me dont u"? and shed just roll her eyes. while my brother was out of town me n my mom went shopping and did all kinda girl stuff and yeah i know she wants to hear about my brothers trip and all but still. am i exagerating? (link)
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i dont think that you are. i mean i know that it really bothers you, but try to not let it. your growing older and maybe try to to sumthing really cool to try and get their attention, or ask your mom if she would like to do an ALL GIRLS weekend, and try to bond a little
hope this helps
*Alyssa*
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i want to have sex soo bad, but i'm scared that ill bleed everywhere (i'm kinda tight up there) does the bleeding come after? or does it gush out during??????????? HELP
~the virgin~ (link)
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If you have your mind made up thet your ready, then you have the mentaly thing down. but, your ? was do u bleed. if youve never had sex before then you might bleed a little, but it doesnt GUSH! that is a verry common concern with girls, and you shouldnt be afraid to ask. but what ever you do use protection. dont let him talk you out of it. and maybe take the morning after pill just to be safe.
*Alyssa*
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i need advice on what to do here... i am 14 and there's is this guy i like that is also 14...before school ended we went out for about a week. but he hardly ever talked to me. when we broke up he told me "that he liked me, but he like me, like me..." then he sadi he just wanted to be freinds...so i thought i could get over it, but we live on the same lake, so just about everyday i see him and i just think about when we went out. i still really like him. i dotn know what to do. help plz! (link)
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hey... confront him...tell him how you feel. just be like "I know you said that u juss wanted to be friends but i still have feelings for you" and if he just blows you off forget about him, theres plenty of fish in the sea((actually i've never understood that expression but)) what i mean is you'll find another guy that likes you REALLY and you'll know that when your around him. If he agrees about your feelings, then you 2 will probibly get together again, but dont expect any thing becasue thats when it hurts tha worst.
*Alyssa*
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ok well here's the thing i think my best friend likes my ex... and honestly i have to be straight up but i obvioulsy still have feelings for him and still really care about him but i kno my bestfriend likes him because she keeps talking about him and keeps saying how sweet he is and i kno the both of them flirt... and also if the both of them went out i would b really shocked and i guess upset.... but haha here's the other thing my ex's gf is kinda not into him that much and well i mean i dunno wut to do... sumbody help!!!! (link)
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I can understand why u would feel that way bout ur best friend liking you ex, cause its happened to me. i found out that it rreally shouldnt let it bother you cause u have to think whos more important... you best or your ex. likley i would think that it would be you best, and i wouldnt jeprodize you realtionship with your friend just because she likes your ex. just think of it as another guy she has a crush on. and sooner or later if they do start going out then he'll drop her or she'll drop him.
Alyssa
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i wrote about this guy before (i'm 15, female hes 15 male) and well i didn't really confront him about the way he sends me mized emotions but well he sent me an email of a 105 questions to answer about my self and then sent it back to him and my other friends .... and in one question it asked if i had cried in the last 24 hours and i answered yes .... so when he read the email he i/med me in yahoo and asked why i had cried and i said well one time was cuase i was watching a sad t.v. show and then i alked right into this part with out thinking and hes like and the other time? and i told him it was nothing since i just met him i didnt want him to know and then he kept arguing with me trying to get it out of me and i kept refusing so i asked why he kept asking and i told him i just couldnt say it right now since i just met him and i was like no offence but you dont share much with me either and then there was a long puase and he finally says its becuase i care and so i went into this talk with him about how i knew he cared and that i cared too but i needed time to tell him and he was really quiet for a long time and then he said he had to go ..... so i sent him an email exlpaining stuff to him and that i needed more time (i know i repeat my self alot) but when he came on today he didnt say anything about it nor did he respond to the email and now his mom might be taking to computer away on friday and he can only saty on untill 8 tonight and i cant talk to him tomarrow since i have already made plans with my friends can someone please help me i am so lost and i jsut want to know what is up with him and if i should confront him on it? please help
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Hey, i would confront him about how you feel because you never know what he will say. If he thinks your weird for thinking that then hes not worth the trouble and a complete ass hole because i know how much effort goes into confronting a guy. and on the otherhand, he might respect you for going so far to talk to you, and u might end up together.
hope this helped!!
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